very new to all this, please help... x

23 Jul 2005

Hiya its my first time here and im looking for some advice.
Me and my boyfriend are both 23 and very interested in swinging but how do we know which ones are best and where to avoid?
Also whats the rules and regulations regarding sex at the actual club?
What happens if we dont fancy another couple, is it ok to just say no?
Any advice would be great...
We live in the north x x x

23 Jul 2005

Ahh we posted the same question basically.
First of all, obviously "no means no" and, just like in any other club/bar, you do what you like, and refuse what u don't!
The Clubs/Parties tab at the top of the page lists the most popular clubs in every region - find the one closest to you and read the reviews given - they should be helpful.
The rules are basically enjoy yourself, respect other peoples wishes, relax and take things easy. "NO" always means "NO", and going as a couple definitely insures your safety.
There is an entry fee and its best to call up and ask what days are best, such as "couples only nights"
That's about it!
See everyone - We listened!!! biggrin

L xxx

23 Jul 2005

Quote by fetisha

Hiya its my first time here and im looking for some advice.
Me and my boyfriend are both 23 and very interested in swinging but how do we know which ones are best and where to avoid?
Also whats the rules and regulations regarding sex at the actual club?
What happens if we dont fancy another couple, is it ok to just say no?
Any advice would be great...
We live in the north x x x

Hello and welcome to SH wink

Hope you enjoy yourself.
As for rules and regulations. You make your own, what you are both comfortable with smile

The swinging clubs that we have been to, have a relaxed atmosphere with a variety of people.
You must always say NO if you are not interested.
Feel free to PM me biggrin

H, red

23 Jul 2005

Quote by HornyRed

Hiya its my first time here and im looking for some advice.
Me and my boyfriend are both 23 and very interested in swinging but how do we know which ones are best and where to avoid?
Also whats the rules and regulations regarding sex at the actual club?
What happens if we dont fancy another couple, is it ok to just say no?
Any advice would be great...
We live in the north x x x

Hello and welcome to SH wink

Hope you enjoy yourself.
As for rules and regulations. You make your own, what you are both comfortable with smile

The swinging clubs that we have been to, have a relaxed atmosphere with a variety of people.
You must always say NO if you are interested.
Feel free to PM me biggrin

H, red
And if youre not interested, say yes!
Dont listen to her, shes a manc!

23 Jul 2005

Quote by Happy Cats

Hiya its my first time here and im looking for some advice.
Me and my boyfriend are both 23 and very interested in swinging but how do we know which ones are best and where to avoid?
Also whats the rules and regulations regarding sex at the actual club?
What happens if we dont fancy another couple, is it ok to just say no?
Any advice would be great...
We live in the north x x x

Hello and welcome to SH wink

Hope you enjoy yourself.
As for rules and regulations. You make your own, what you are both comfortable with smile

The swinging clubs that we have been to, have a relaxed atmosphere with a variety of people.
You must always say NO if you are interested.
Feel free to PM me biggrin

H, red
And if youre not interested, say yes!
Dont listen to her, shes a manc!
I only know yes :rascal: :rascal:
Donly listen to him, silly cat dunno

23 Jul 2005

Quote by HornyRed

Hiya its my first time here and im looking for some advice.
Me and my boyfriend are both 23 and very interested in swinging but how do we know which ones are best and where to avoid?
Also whats the rules and regulations regarding sex at the actual club?
What happens if we dont fancy another couple, is it ok to just say no?
Any advice would be great...
We live in the north x x x

Hello and welcome to SH wink

Hope you enjoy yourself.
As for rules and regulations. You make your own, what you are both comfortable with smile

The swinging clubs that we have been to, have a relaxed atmosphere with a variety of people.
You must always say NO if you are interested.
Feel free to PM me biggrin

H, red
And if youre not interested, say yes!
Dont listen to her, shes a manc!
I only know yes :rascal: :rascal:
Donly listen to him, silly cat dunno

You've gone and edited, so now I look the fool!
lol

23 Jul 2005

Quote by Happy Cats

Hiya its my first time here and im looking for some advice.
Me and my boyfriend are both 23 and very interested in swinging but how do we know which ones are best and where to avoid?
Also whats the rules and regulations regarding sex at the actual club?
What happens if we dont fancy another couple, is it ok to just say no?
Any advice would be great...
We live in the north x x x

Hello and welcome to SH wink

Hope you enjoy yourself.
As for rules and regulations. You make your own, what you are both comfortable with smile

The swinging clubs that we have been to, have a relaxed atmosphere with a variety of people.
You must always say NO if you are interested.
Feel free to PM me biggrin

H, red
And if youre not interested, say yes!
Dont listen to her, shes a manc!
I only know yes :rascal: :rascal:
Donly listen to him, silly cat dunno

You've gone and edited, so now I look the fool!
lol

What are you talking about you silly cat dunno

you are going mad :eeek: :eeek:

23 Jul 2005

hi ya and welcome!!!!!
lauraxxxx

23 Jul 2005

Quote by bailiffs
hi ya and welcome!!!!!
lauraxxxx

Just say YES!
lol

23 Jul 2005

Quote by Happy Cats
hi ya and welcome!!!!!
lauraxxxx

Just say YES!
lol

erm......yes!!! im very drunk!!!!! dont you just hate it when.............colins very drunk and chucking up ewww!!!!!!!!!!!!!

25 Jul 2005

This is a question often raised
if I can give an example what are the rules for walking down the street
try not to make a nuisance of yourself
follow the signs
do not cross the road without looking both ways( don't do anything dangerous)
in short the rules are obvious human nature is the same if you are in a club or in the street people do not change just because they are in a sex club respected the rights of the people around you and behave in a reasonable manner
if you find someone offensive report it to the club management they want to know --- enough complaints will ban this type of people
there are many clubs advertised and many have reviews
clubs that advertise heavily ''need to'' and many of the reviews are contrived by club organisers or friends
you can only learn by your mistakes ask the advice of experience swingers at clubs or on the Net
do not pay exorbitant membership fees on not the promise of what to come... wink

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