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Hello to all users.

We are a couple who decided to warm up the atmosphere in the private zone of our relationship and try new things.
We have never done this before, so I think we need some kind of introduction to this topic to avoid disappointment and not to be discouraged. We are open minded and we adapt quickly, we do not know how we will react to certain situations in the future and we do not want to throw ourselves into the deep water. We consider step by step the best method to enrich our experiences.
We would like to ask for good-hearted advice that will help us adapt in this community and extract the best life experiences that will make us better and happier in other aspects of our existence. Thanks in advance and best regards to everyones. 

I couldn't agree more. Im learning but slowly, there are very lovely people here and iv thankfully had the chance to chat to a few and i really looking forward to meeting more. But I'd love to get advice and see what I can do better. 

Just take your time and know where you want to start - you can get more adventurous as your confidence grows. You're a cute young couple with a very attractive girl so you are going to get lots of offers so make sure you've talked through what you are looking for. Don't be pressured or pushed. Be open. Don't be afraid to say no. Don't expect it to be the panecea for a blissful relationship - you need a strong relationship first - but it can add a different dimension and be a hell of a lot of fun.

Most of all enjoy - wishing you lots of luck and some memorable times.

Lynn xx

Very good advice above. Have a good chat together and go over different scenarios that you would both like and dislike, so you both have a good understanding. As already stated, you must have a very stable relationship prior to dabbling and also not be the jealous type. Suggest you meet an understanding couple to begin with, who will not be too heavy on you both. But above all, have fun!

Might also be an idea to image verify your profile as lots of couples are already pathfinders9295.

Not  a requirement, but i have found it helps immensely.