I've discovered in the last 12 months or so that I quite like being watched. But I have to be in the mood for it - it's not a necessary thing to get me off.
Of course I'm still thinking in quite controlled situations i.e. at a club or a party. I'm not 100% sure I could do the being watched in public places thing.
I adore watching other people - find that incredibly horny.
Hubby has kinda-cuckoldy-ish tendencies. Apparently, one of the nicest things I've ever done for him was when we went to meet a single guy.
I sat 'twixt them on the sofa, and when things eventually got going, I cocked my leg over the O/H's lap to facilitate fingering for the other guy, that pushed all his buttons...
the only thing was, when it progressed to the bedroom, I told O/H not to join us- in a push button stylee.
10 minutes later, I looked over the guy's shoulder towards the open door- and the shadow I saw projected onto the opposing wall was that of Bart Simpson's hair.
You know those moments when you try really, really hard not to laugh?
I remember being at one party, and watching a couple in one of the bedrooms, they didn't know I was there, they were too focused on what they were doing.
Next morning I thanked them, said I enjoyed what I saw, and the woman of the couple said I hadn't
The female: "you never watched us"
Me: "yes I did, and I was a good boy, especially when you fell off the bed, I never even laughed"
Female: "Oh shit, you did watch...."
We really enjoy being watched, i used to feel a bit shy to start with but once we start kissing, touching and licking i get so engrossed in what we are doing i dont think who might be watching. We have been to parties where the bedroom doors are closed, so we do not disturb, but we always leave the door open, and you can look all you want :shock: and in most situation there is no door so we are on view for all to see
Ok... I don't know where this fits in...
I love watching Mrs R in action and am happy to do that for as long as is necessary... Same goes with friends... I like watching them.
However if it's people I don't know... I'm kind of ambivalent about it. Can take it or leave it really. I think this is part of the reason why dogging never appealed to me. That and the fact I'd end up with a Gear lever up my arse and my testicles wrapped around the handbrake.
I'm quite new to this and still feel a little bit embarassed to be enjoying watching strangers. Watching other people thoroughly turns me on though, and I also feel no shame at being watched despite my usually poor self-image. Within seconds, I start to ignore the audience and just get on with the fun. At the back of my mind I must know there is someone watching, because it makes me very horny, and I find myself putting on a bit of a performance for my partner(s) and viewers :twisted:.
i love watching mr b with another woman i find it a mahooooooosive turn on gets me so incredibly wet and incredibly responsive to touch that if said woman hasn't worn the poor guy out and i get the chance to play with him straight after i am cummin within seconds of his touch
did used to get turned on by being watched but i guess i've sort of desensitised to it by now as we play a lot in open rooms in clubs that being watched is kinda old hat now but still kinda enjoy it
Having never been in a swinging relationship, I can't comment on what it's like watching a partner with someone else - but I imagine actually that it would be very erotic.
My W and I were walking across the river a couple were fucking in the meadow. I wrapped my arms around her and watched. My arm around her and my left hand cupping her. The truth is if it was not for my hand being in a spilt and the doctor saying do not do this and that, I would have wanted to do more than watch them.
...but I did enjoy the show they put on.
travis
) I just stood in the hallway and listened, hearing the noises coming from the room, trying to imagine what they were doing and how, was very enjoyable. 
... nope, 
*phew* definitely not me! :giggle: 
Perhaps it is all the years of people knowing that I am a lesbian and their next words being 'can I watch' as if my bedroom is a porn studio or something. Perhaps it is just that being with worlass is 'making love' and much more intimate (to me) than fucking someone else. 
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