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Do you have the self control to just sit and watch or be watched :shock:
Does watching your partner being pleasured by another just blow your mind :shock:
Could you just watch from behind a door untill the lover has finished then you start :shock:
Does the cuckhold scenario turn you both on wink
Can watching be as good as doing :wink:
Sex Sex everywhere and not a drop to lick xx
steve xx
I've discovered in the last 12 months or so that I quite like being watched. But I have to be in the mood for it - it's not a necessary thing to get me off.
Of course I'm still thinking in quite controlled situations i.e. at a club or a party. I'm not 100% sure I could do the being watched in public places thing.
I adore watching other people - find that incredibly horny.
I have some pretty strong voyeuristic tendencies, I have been to a few parties and just leaned against the door frame, watching, saying nothing, and when its over, walking away.
It doesn't have to be sight either, went to one particular party, and a couple of the guests were upstairs, the door was shut, and being respectful enough not to open the door (they were probably shy biggrin ) I just stood in the hallway and listened, hearing the noises coming from the room, trying to imagine what they were doing and how, was very enjoyable.
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I've discovered in the last 12 months or so that I quite like being watched. But I have to be in the mood for it - it's not a necessary thing to get me off.
Of course I'm still thinking in quite controlled situations i.e. at a club or a party. I'm not 100% sure I could do the being watched in public places thing.
I adore watching other people - find that incredibly horny.
with you on this one nola except the club thingy, much prefer the home / motel meet love to watch and be watched and role play :shock:
have done the peeping tom thing wink :wink:
and husband coming home to catch the wife in bed :wink:
all a lot of fun and a good laugh afterwards biggrin
all coupled with a lot of convo after :D
steve x
Hubby has kinda-cuckoldy-ish tendencies. Apparently, one of the nicest things I've ever done for him was when we went to meet a single guy.
I sat 'twixt them on the sofa, and when things eventually got going, I cocked my leg over the O/H's lap to facilitate fingering for the other guy, that pushed all his buttons...
the only thing was, when it progressed to the bedroom, I told O/H not to join us- in a push button stylee.
10 minutes later, I looked over the guy's shoulder towards the open door- and the shadow I saw projected onto the opposing wall was that of Bart Simpson's hair.
You know those moments when you try really, really hard not to laugh?
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I have some pretty strong voyeuristic tendencies, I have been to a few parties and just leaned against the door frame, watching, saying nothing, and when its over, walking away.

:thumbup: innocent
But to answer the OP.....
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Do you have the self control to just sit and watch or be watched :shock:
Does watching your partner being pleasured by another just blow your mind :shock:
Could you just watch from behind a door untill the lover has finished then you start :shock:
Does the cuckhold scenario turn you both on wink
Can watching be as good as doing :wink:
Sex Sex everywhere and not a drop to lick xx
steve xx

Yes, I have self control. In fact, watching in many (most, the vast majority of) situations is better than participating. When watching, someone sidling over and doing the touchy touch thing just puts me off and I do one.
When I had a partner, yes watching blew my mind. Well, not literally, but it was good.
Yes I could watch from behind a door, or wherever relevant.
Cuckold never did it for me personally, but I can understand the emotions in others.
Watching is usually better than doing.
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I remember being at one party, and watching a couple in one of the bedrooms, they didn't know I was there, they were too focused on what they were doing.
Next morning I thanked them, said I enjoyed what I saw, and the woman of the couple said I hadn't
The female: "you never watched us"
Me: "yes I did, and I was a good boy, especially when you fell off the bed, I never even laughed"
Female: "Oh shit, you did watch...."
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I remember being at one party, and watching a couple in one of the bedrooms, they didn't know I was there, they were too focused on what they were doing.
Next morning I thanked them, said I enjoyed what I saw, and the woman of the couple said I hadn't
The female: "you never watched us"
Me: "yes I did, and I was a good boy, especially when you fell off the bed, I never even laughed"
Female: "Oh shit, you did watch...."

:shock: redface ... nope, cool *phew* definitely not me! :giggle:
We really enjoy being watched, i used to feel a bit shy to start with but once we start kissing, touching and licking i get so engrossed in what we are doing i dont think who might be watching. We have been to parties where the bedroom doors are closed, so we do not disturb, but we always leave the door open, and you can look all you want :shock: and in most situation there is no door so we are on view for all to see
Ok... I don't know where this fits in...
I love watching Mrs R in action and am happy to do that for as long as is necessary... Same goes with friends... I like watching them.
However if it's people I don't know... I'm kind of ambivalent about it. Can take it or leave it really. I think this is part of the reason why dogging never appealed to me. That and the fact I'd end up with a Gear lever up my arse and my testicles wrapped around the handbrake.
I'm quite new to this and still feel a little bit embarassed to be enjoying watching strangers. Watching other people thoroughly turns me on though, and I also feel no shame at being watched despite my usually poor self-image. Within seconds, I start to ignore the audience and just get on with the fun. At the back of my mind I must know there is someone watching, because it makes me very horny, and I find myself putting on a bit of a performance for my partner(s) and viewers :twisted:.
i love watching mr b with another woman i find it a mahooooooosive turn on gets me so incredibly wet and incredibly responsive to touch that if said woman hasn't worn the poor guy out and i get the chance to play with him straight after i am cummin within seconds of his touch
did used to get turned on by being watched but i guess i've sort of desensitised to it by now as we play a lot in open rooms in clubs that being watched is kinda old hat now but still kinda enjoy it
I must admit, whilst I love watching Mr Stuff with another woman, it turns me on more to hear about it afterwards and use my own imagination. Maybe it's because of the 'game', I have to ask specific questions and 'grill' him so heightening the sexual tension :twisted:
Perhaps I just think too much.
If he's with another woman and I'm in the room, unless requested otherwise, I'd find it hard to resist joining in wink
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Hubby has kinda-cuckoldy-ish tendencies. Apparently, one of the nicest things I've ever done for him was when we went to meet a single guy.
I sat 'twixt them on the sofa, and when things eventually got going, I cocked my leg over the O/H's lap to facilitate fingering for the other guy, that pushed all his buttons...
the only thing was, when it progressed to the bedroom, I told O/H not to join us- in a push button stylee.
10 minutes later, I looked over the guy's shoulder towards the open door- and the shadow I saw projected onto the opposing wall was that of Bart Simpson's hair.
You know those moments when you try really, really hard not to laugh?

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I love the idea of being watched but covertly rather than same room :twisted:
Having never been in a swinging relationship, I can't comment on what it's like watching a partner with someone else - but I imagine actually that it would be very erotic.
I can't actually think of anything worse than being watched. :scared:
Even more so after my recent club visit.
*shudders*
I quite like to watch but I'd much prefer it if the glass was one way so that the people in the room couldn't see me watching. wink
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I quite like to watch but I'd much prefer it if the glass was one way so that the people in the room couldn't see me watching. wink

Ha ha, that can add to the naughtiness factor :twisted:
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Hubby has kinda-cuckoldy-ish tendencies. Apparently, one of the nicest things I've ever done for him was when we went to meet a single guy.
I sat 'twixt them on the sofa, and when things eventually got going, I cocked my leg over the O/H's lap to facilitate fingering for the other guy, that pushed all his buttons...
the only thing was, when it progressed to the bedroom, I told O/H not to join us- in a push button stylee.
10 minutes later, I looked over the guy's shoulder towards the open door- and the shadow I saw projected onto the opposing wall was that of Bart Simpson's hair.
You know those moments when you try really, really hard not to laugh?

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I love the idea of being watched but covertly rather than same room :twisted:
Sadly, as far as covert ops go I married Johnny English rather than James Bond. rolleyes
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I must admit, whilst I love watching Mr Stuff with another woman, it turns me on more to hear about it afterwards and use my own imagination. Maybe it's because of the 'game', I have to ask specific questions and 'grill' him so heightening the sexual tension :twisted:
Perhaps I just think too much.
If he's with another woman and I'm in the room, unless requested otherwise, I'd find it hard to resist joining in wink

This struck a chord! Talking about it afterwards is a HUGE turn on...
Finding out all the nitty gritty... phwoar fluff... Imagine the conversations we could have together eh? ;-)
wen we go to chams we like to watch others and b watched and i like to watch gary play too
wudnt like that at a hotel type meet but as we dont do that it dont matter smile
in the past hav been watched at parties but not so keen on it, prefer clubs :)
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I love the idea of being watched but covertly rather than same room :twisted:

Me too, the idea of being "spied on" is a big turn on, or just knowing I'm being watched but I can't see them does it too.
As for being a voyeur, I can quite blatantly watch people but again the less obvious it is, the more fun it can be which is what I like about dogging I think.
Then there's aural voyeurism/exhibitionism - I enjoy the idea of hearing/being heard but not being able to see.
I think this might be why clubs don't interest me too much from either perspective, it's all a bit too on show and purposeful, it feels like it'd lack the "naughtiness" of catching someone and watching. I think I need the naughtiness for it to really flick my switches :twisted:
Ummmm I LOVE watching worlass with someone else.
I love having her watch me with someone else.
I am actually not a big fan of being watched with worlass as that is pretty private to me. dunno Perhaps it is all the years of people knowing that I am a lesbian and their next words being 'can I watch' as if my bedroom is a porn studio or something. Perhaps it is just that being with worlass is 'making love' and much more intimate (to me) than fucking someone else.
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Does watching your partner being pleasured by another just blow your mind :shock:

You bet it does :rascal:
As for being watched......Not sure redface
I love watching straight couples fuck - hence why I like Dogging, I guess. I also like straight porn way more than gay stuff.. I guess I'm pretty self-controlled but never say never to just watching and not joining in (if it's OK with all concerned).
I've actually had a couple of meets were I've all of a sudden just wanted to sit back and watch, wank etc and on both occassions one of the people involved has asked 'are you OK?'. The answer was 'yes' in both scenarios.. I was just very happy, very horny and very comfortable taking in the view :twisted:
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I love watching straight couples fuck - hence why I like Dogging, I guess. I also like straight porn way more than gay stuff.. I guess I'm pretty self-controlled but never say never to just watching and not joining in (if it's OK with all concerned).
I've actually had a couple of meets were I've all of a sudden just wanted to sit back and watch, wank etc and on both occassions one of the people involved has asked 'are you OK?'. The answer was 'yes' in both scenarios.. I was just very happy, very horny and very comfortable taking in the view :twisted:
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Ooh think I may need to go have a ladywank now :shock:
My W and I were walking across the river a couple were fucking in the meadow. I wrapped my arms around her and watched. My arm around her and my left hand cupping her. The truth is if it was not for my hand being in a spilt and the doctor saying do not do this and that, I would have wanted to do more than watch them.
...but I did enjoy the show they put on.
travis
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My W and I were walking across the river a couple were fucking in the meadow. I wrapped my arms around her and watched. My arm around her and my left hand cupping her. The truth is if it was not for my hand being in a spilt and the doctor saying do not do this and that, I would have wanted to do more than watch them.
...but I did enjoy the show they put on.
travis

Use the other hand then :giggle:
I like to do it all Watch Take part Listen wink
A mirror is a good place to start :shocklol::
trav....