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i been kicked off chat site 2meny times for chatting to men of all people!!!!!! im bi n female so y would i chat or even attempt to contact a male in that room is beyond me
You won't have been kicked out of the chatroom simply for chatting, whether it be to a male or to another female. The room is governed by a set of guidelines and if you follow them then you won't have any problems.
The fact that you're bi and female won't have any bearing on the way you are treated by the room ops.
I have to say though that some of the 'bi' females that use the chatroom are also some of the most abusive when it comes to responding to people they don't particularly want to chat to. Try a polite 'no thanks' and try to remember that it is a chatroom and not an extension to the ad system. You may have 'no single males' written on your ad (if you have one) but the term 'bi' implies that you're interested in both sexes and people will try to chat to you.
Steve
An afterthought........
There is an internet site that has a chatroom purely for bi and lesbian females. It has a membership but I don't think they charge and all the members have to be verified to join in. I can't remember the name of it but would be willing to find out for you if this is what you were looking for rather than being on a swingers site.
Steve
So Frisky,
what or perhaps rather who are you looking for? are you just looking for women, do they have to be single?
what about guys? are your specifice in what you want? married , single, bi, str8.
Frisky this is a very much different place to the Chatroom, slower easier pace, easier to get to know peeps.... maybe you will find someone here....
certainly if you stick around, if you are polite and pleasant and chatty you are likely to make some real friends .... give us a patient try, but remember firendships take time and patience and indeed alittle bit of work.... sometimes you have to get over the odd misunderstanding...
So Frisky, get to know peeps here and then who knows you may see some of us in the Chatroom...
enjoy the laughter and the fun, and remember that alot of what is said is in a big sense of fun.... ( you will recognise serious threads)
pull up a chair and enjoy a drink, what do you fancy...this one is on me.
Big Hug
Gmanxxx
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i been kicked off chat site 2meny times for chatting to men of all people!!!!!! im bi n female so y would i chat or even attempt to contact a male in that room is beyond me
Slumming it Frisk? wink
biggrin :P thanks guys for advice, i guess i shouldnt get so deffensive.....i am part of a cpl in which my fella is st8 and doesnt want me with other men , so im after women for fun nights with us.....im sorry if i offened or upset anyone ....mb cya around on here..... confused: :D