im astounded that after months of trying i eem to be getting nowhere with ladies or couples.
im good looking clean good fun and loads of personality and pretty gifted in the meat department.
yet i can not arrange a meet to save my life.
im in the manchester area looking for sexy ladies and couples.
i hope someone can help me out in my plight.
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Hi gezza
Well, have you looked at the 'swinging advice' section at the top right hand corner? I've wrote a little piece to help single guys understand the situation from the other end. I did that because I sense an awful lot of guys get frustated and aren't aware of certain things.
Tell you what, as a bit if fun and a bit of education, how about if one of us girls writes a spoof advert - you guys then reply just as you normally would and we girls say what we think is good and what we think is bad about the responses.
Anyone us for that?
Hxx
i hope someone can help me out in my plight
Well, have you looked at the 'swinging advice' section at the top right hand corner? I've wrote a little piece to help single guys understand the situation from the other end. I did that because I sense an awful lot of guys get frustated and aren't aware of certain things.
Tell you what, as a bit if fun and a bit of education, how about if one of us girls writes a spoof advert - you guys then reply just as you normally would and we girls say what we think is good and what we think is bad about the responses.
Anyone us for that?
Hxx
28 year old male good looking looking for ladies like your yourself. not very experienced but willing to learn.
respects the ladies wishes and limits eager to please.
im 28 six ft tall ice blue eyes vwe 8.5 inches athletic build.
open minded dont fancy any kinds of pain or humiliation.
i would send a face pic and a rude one.
respects the ladies wishes and limits eager to please.
im 28 six ft tall ice blue eyes vwe 8.5 inches athletic build.
open minded dont fancy any kinds of pain or humiliation.
i would send a face pic and a rude one.
Gezza
Here's my thoughts on your reply.... although other girls may well notice other things so what I say isn't gospel - okay?
The length is about right. You've told me a little about yourself which is good. But I would be expecting you to back up your 8.5 inch claim
The face shot is good... but make sure the file size is as small as possible.
But what you didn't do was tell me the information I was looking for. Are you available at weekends? Do you live near a railway station? How far would I have to travel to get to you? Do you have your own place?
Your failing to confirm these things in your reply means I have to write to you asking those questions again... and with around 60 other such replies I'd be tempted to leave yours alone.
Hope this has been a little help and I've not come across to school marmsey
But if we all are aware of these thing we all get more fun! :twisted: :twisted:
Here's my thoughts on your reply.... although other girls may well notice other things so what I say isn't gospel - okay?
The length is about right. You've told me a little about yourself which is good. But I would be expecting you to back up your 8.5 inch claim
The face shot is good... but make sure the file size is as small as possible.But what you didn't do was tell me the information I was looking for. Are you available at weekends? Do you live near a railway station? How far would I have to travel to get to you? Do you have your own place?
Your failing to confirm these things in your reply means I have to write to you asking those questions again... and with around 60 other such replies I'd be tempted to leave yours alone.
Hope this has been a little help and I've not come across to school marmsey
But if we all are aware of these thing we all get more fun! :twisted: :twisted: 
Sex God
Gezza, sorry to hear about your plight Heather's advice is spot on 8) , so have a think about the ads you are placing and see if you can improve on them. It has all been said before on this forum, so have a read through the other threads about meeting women/couples and see if there are any other tips you can pick up on. Basically, women get so many replies to each ad they place, only a few get replied to and only a proportion of them end up in meets.
Be patient, it will happen! A positive tone, sense of humour, and honesty are the things that are the most likely to get you somewhere.
Go for it :P
Heather's advice is spot on 8) , so have a think about the ads you are placing and see if you can improve on them. It has all been said before on this forum, so have a read through the other threads about meeting women/couples and see if there are any other tips you can pick up on. Basically, women get so many replies to each ad they place, only a few get replied to and only a proportion of them end up in meets. Be patient, it will happen! A positive tone, sense of humour, and honesty are the things that are the most likely to get you somewhere.
Go for it :P
Sex God
I liked this thread when i read so I thought i would see if anyone would like to add to it at all.
Some advice from me would be that if you are using the chatrooms then be prepared to chill out with people in there and chat. Though in the end a lot of people like to go on to meets. The chat can be great and you can make some great cyber buddies so whatever the outcomes its worth going into chat with the view of enjoying it.
I do
Some advice from me would be that if you are using the chatrooms then be prepared to chill out with people in there and chat. Though in the end a lot of people like to go on to meets. The chat can be great and you can make some great cyber buddies so whatever the outcomes its worth going into chat with the view of enjoying it.
I do
I don't think I'm on my own when I say I won't meet people I don't know.
I've even changed my profile to say that cos I got so sick of crappy pm's and winks with no attention paid to what my preferences actually are.
So now I get the "how do I get to know you" messages. how do you get to know anyone???? Is this really so different from real-life that you have suddenly lost any social skills you may (or may not!) have already had??
I'd love to know where everyone is getting the impression that this is some kind of -shag site. somewhere that you can express an interest in someone and they'll want to shag you.
I wonder why so many single guys sign up to the site when they obviously know fuck all about swinging.
Is SH being advertised somewhere with the tag line "Ya pays yer money, ya gets ya shag" ???
I've even changed my profile to say that cos I got so sick of crappy pm's and winks with no attention paid to what my preferences actually are.
So now I get the "how do I get to know you" messages. how do you get to know anyone???? Is this really so different from real-life that you have suddenly lost any social skills you may (or may not!) have already had??
I'd love to know where everyone is getting the impression that this is some kind of -shag site. somewhere that you can express an interest in someone and they'll want to shag you.
I wonder why so many single guys sign up to the site when they obviously know fuck all about swinging.
Is SH being advertised somewhere with the tag line "Ya pays yer money, ya gets ya shag" ???
