What am I doing wrong?

I thought if I became a member of this site, I wouldn't feel like so much of a weirdo but so far I've had no one show a interest in me?

I suffer from depression which goes with another condition I have, I don't have any real friends anymore as they have either died or dug their heads in the sand when I finally told them about my health problem.

Now I'm finding life lonely, medication I've been taking for over 45 years to keep my condition stable has a somewhat strange side effect, which means I have a extremely high sex drive and a small manhood to go with it.

The two girlfriends I've ever had have either died 😪 or walked out on me when they have found someone better.

I would love a female friends with benefits who would enjoy getting to know me as a person as well as enjoy regular bareback sex with me, sadly I don't have my own place and aren't allowed to bring anyone around as I still live at home with my dad whom I care for.

My time I have free is in the daytime but still means I have to be able to get home to support him with tasks. Hence why I'm looking for someone within Braunstone Town here in Leicester uk.

I know I have no chance and I also know that no one wants someone with health problems in their lives, but I have to try because depression isn't funny and neither is feeling so alone.

Hi,  and thanks for being so open.

In my opinion - and it’s just that - you’re looking for something that’s not going to work.

You need to get your mental health issues squared away as much as possible through more conventional means.   Looking for NSA sex with all the complications and disappointments that entails will just exacerbate your problems.

Also, looking for bareback sex on a site inhabited by inherently safe-sex-seeking people is just not going to fly.   Yes, there are people who partake in bareback, but in the majority it’s people who have long term relationships with people they can trust, and those who get regular checkups at the local sexual health clinic.  

Sorry if this comes across as overly negative, but as I said, it’s only my opinion and someone else may come along with wisdom from a different perspective.  

I appreciate your opinion and feel that your very right about everything you have said.

Can I just point out that it is incredibly difficult for guys to get meets on here at the best of times. I fear that being on here may just be a source of negativity and feelings of rejection whereas in reality you are simply experiencing what most other hot blooded males are going through on this site. I do not have an answer for you but chatting to your support worker or health care professional may provide you with other possible avenues.

I am not qualified to reply to the original post any better than already done. But to expand on the discussion I think there are two types of people on here. Those that have opened their capacity to love and party as something to be spread widely and those that hold it precious and are more reserved in what they do. Neither outlook is wrong but both groups get upset by the other maybe more than we should. I think the main problem is the line between genders is clearly drawn and there is an overwhelming number of single males making it very competetive, 

Have fun be more tolerant and understanding of others motivations to be here

Natx