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Quote by naughtynymphos1
yes judy buys me fish and chips evrytime i walk her to the chippy(maxwells) after all the village socials

in that case i'm going 2 start going out with judy :lol2:
right thats it,,,,,I miss the chippy's, battered sausages and the village too much :shock: moving back now :P
It was when my girlfriend text me to say she'd been talking to her friend about a threesome - we had a google frenzy lol
BUT..... what got you here in the first place?
I enjoy sex and was not getting enough! I had browsed on other sites but they were one dimensional and not interesting and luck and google brought me to SH - I was looking for a particular type of sex.....I'm in a relationship , looking to cheat, and wanted to find a woman who could accept that on a no strings basis for a shared enjoyment of some good sex.... but recognising that fun, laughs and chats are also important.... a sort of friendly sex where both persons had a great time but knew it was not the beginning of a romance...the enjoyment of sex is very equal opportuinities...both wo/men enjoy it to the same level... however there are women who have partners who don't like sex and like me are looking for more...there are single women who do not want a relationship for various good reasons at this moment but want sex...some of those single women find open but attached mature guys have something extra to offer ..they are confident.. not looking for emotional involvement.. but then I started having chats with some interesting women who don't want sex and we share some good platonic chats...thats a real bonus... I really like the opportunities to tell it like it is....
a quick shag, and fun
Quote by westerross
Me? Came here to be insulted. It worked.

Oh yeah, and a quick shag - forgot that. wink
What brought me here?
well I admit to being bored at home and at 52 but fit and not unintelligent I was looking for some excitement and have aways been interested in swinging, my wife and I almost got into it some years ago but she backed out, so we have lived happily but monogamously since. Now I am home alone as she commutes to London daily, I was looking for some thing to fill my day and keep my mind active. I find the people on this site are outgoing and accepting so it is also a good chat room site. The ads make for interesting reading and the cafe has some good topics to post in.
I could spend the day on line looking up my family history or other such uplifting things but hell this is more exciting!!!!!!!
Principal4u
Try anything once and if you like it go back for more
We googled "dogging" because of somebody I can't remember - was it Stan Collymore? - my partner stopped contributing but I couldn't let go of it.
I'm much more of a browser than a contributor but I do get a lot of enjoyment out of the site. I just wish I could match the humour and intelligence I see here.
Mollie
Quote by maidinheaven
We googled "dogging" because of somebody I can't remember - was it Stan Collymore? - my partner stopped contributing but I couldn't let go of it.
I'm much more of a browser than a contributor but I do get a lot of enjoyment out of the site. I just wish I could match the humour and intelligence I see here.
Mollie

Too modest. Too modest kiss
Dear Demetrius Breedlove,
I love you
Mollie xxx
Quote by mattmoleman
I'd like to raise a glass to Munches and Socials!!!!!!!

:thumbup: drinkies :thumbup:
Believe it or not it was reccomended in the problem page of the Daily Mirror, I thought it would be some fact laden propaganda website, and was pleased to find a fun and liberal community who govern themselves very well.
believe it or not was sat naked in a jacuzzi and the name cropped up in conversation.........came in had a look .........and the rest is history.....I love the site, and have made many friends..... love it
Quote by leprechaun
welcome to u now take the next step and get your ass out to some of the wild and wonderfull socials and munches then maybe dip your toes into an odd party or to we only bite if you want us to

Thanks! That's our aim but obviously we can't jump straight in so need to get to know some peeps on here. You all seem a great bunch of people so that shouldnt prove too difficult smile
What site :shock: :shock:
Where am I confused:
who are all these people :shock:
Came to this site to find like-minded singles looking for fun without the relationship. I don't know whether that classes me as a swinger or not, but I'd rather do this than meet girls who are looking for love when I'm not.
Only just started dipping my toes in, but I'm confident that this is the best swinging site out there. Most just seem to be money making sites where you have to doubt how genuine the ads are. I had my doubts about the photo ads section here, but now coming onto the forum I can see that many of you guys also place ads so its just a case of filtering though the fakes.
Quote by warwick
What site :shock: :shock:
Where am I confused:
who are all these people :shock:

:doh:
cup of coffie!! ..........and i am still waiting for the bugger!
I dont actually remember how I found this site - maybe followed a link from a contacts-type site.rolleyes
I initially registered on the photo-ads section but gave up with that pretty quickly. Casual one-off stranger meetings via the ads are kinda not for me - It wasnt until I came back in July/August time and registered on the actual forum that I truly discovered SH. biggrin I'd just ended a 13 year relationship and not looking for another yet- but have sex drive that's through the roof and dont see why I should have to 'go without' because I'm now single evil That's essentially what brought me here.
- SH meets my needs and I love it here - I much prefer to get to know someone a little (via posts, pm, social meets etc and find people I 'click' with) than go out and pick someone up in a nightclub at weekends for the sake of a quick (and probably unsatisfying) shag! Via SH, I can get the quality sex rather than quantity because I specifically look for like-minded people who I can interact with socially on SH and at munches etc and see what happens from there in terms of mutual fun. Is that a long-winded way of saying I'm picky?? lol wink
The other up-side to SH is that when I'm not at work, or I'm stuck in the house, I still have a social life! I'm meeting and chatting to people who would not usually be within my 'vanilla' social circle - and that's cool, because we're all here for the same thing, regardless of colour, class and sexual orientation. :thumbup:
if i remember rightly....i came on and posted a nice introductory letter.....then said something alike to taking the piss out of some 1.....
unfortunately that person was bluexxx.....if i remember rightly i was executed....hung ....drawn and quartered......and placed in boiling pitch.... around town by a team of mad horses......
but...i have to admit....she picked me up after and put me back together after with ointment and baby cream......and we get on like a house on fire now...
ps....please be aware that this post has a spattering of bullshit about it...
A mate of mine mentioned SH and we placed an add in the ‘men seeking women’ how bloody stupid are us guy’s! expecting a result asking for a woman wanting a NSA threesome with two 40ish guys from the NW!
Well, surprisingly, we didn’t get any answers and gave up. Me though, loved the place and now that I can spend more time on the PC it’s the forums that rock. Still haven’t had one meet but what the hell, this is fun anyway
Quote by dargento
if i remember rightly....i came on and posted a nice introductory letter.....then said something alike to taking the piss out of some 1.....
unfortunately that person was bluexxx.....if i remember rightly i was executed....hung ....drawn and quartered......and placed in boiling pitch.... around town by a team of mad horses......
but...i have to admit....she picked me up after and put me back together after with ointment and baby cream......and we get on like a house on fire now...
ps....please be aware that this post has a spattering of bullshit about it...

What you mean she didn't use baby cream after all :grin:
DD
curiosity & the hope of actually fulfilling my fantasy!
I too found this wonderful site via a google search and have not looked back since.
Three cheers for setting the site up. biggrin
We googled dogging and found it.
Had a look around, joined the chatroom, decided dogging wasn't for us, but had met some lovely folks and followed the swinging path right into the rest of the forums, and that was that. biggrin
I love being here and have made some very special friends, including those who pick me up when I'm down passionkiss, and I look forward to meeting more. :D
Jas
XXX
Someone told me i should join the forum "cos they will love you in there!"
I did and they all do!
It was Google that brought me here.....i was looking for clubs and this website came up!!.......regret that day i put the search in ! lol
Well I am in a celibate marriage and don't like it one bit .. so I am seeking to do something about it.
Hesitated about coming here as I thought everyone was just doing casual one night stands with no friendship or emotion ... far too cold for me and it took me ages after registering to start getting involved.
Took a wrong turn at the photo ads but then found this forum and have not looked back since. Found some lovely people .. still waiting for the sex mind lol .. but not in a hurry to jump into bed with just anyone ... looking for the right one(s) .. which I am sure I will find soon enough biggrin
DD
It's the Laird's fault :eeek:
He found this site....................
............................nowt to do with me
innocent
Fee
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Quote by rams_cpl
It's was the thought of a 3 some

have u got anyone rolleyes in mind then postie for this fantasy of yours biggrin redface
Well, that'd be telling wouldn't it ! wink
Quote by vodka_babe22uk
as i always tell newbies make freinds 1st if it happens it happens

Ahh so thats where I'm going wrong :!:
Regards
Harry Jones