BUT..... what got you here in the first place?
I enjoy sex and was not getting enough! I had browsed on other sites but they were one dimensional and not interesting and luck and google brought me to SH - I was looking for a particular type of sex.....I'm in a relationship , looking to cheat, and wanted to find a woman who could accept that on a no strings basis for a shared enjoyment of some good sex.... but recognising that fun, laughs and chats are also important.... a sort of friendly sex where both persons had a great time but knew it was not the beginning of a romance...the enjoyment of sex is very equal opportuinities...both wo/men enjoy it to the same level... however there are women who have partners who don't like sex and like me are looking for more...there are single women who do not want a relationship for various good reasons at this moment but want sex...some of those single women find open but attached mature guys have something extra to offer ..they are confident.. not looking for emotional involvement.. but then I started having chats with some interesting women who don't want sex and we share some good platonic chats...thats a real bonus... I really like the opportunities to tell it like it is....
What brought me here?
well I admit to being bored at home and at 52 but fit and not unintelligent I was looking for some excitement and have aways been interested in swinging, my wife and I almost got into it some years ago but she backed out, so we have lived happily but monogamously since. Now I am home alone as she commutes to London daily, I was looking for some thing to fill my day and keep my mind active. I find the people on this site are outgoing and accepting so it is also a good chat room site. The ads make for interesting reading and the cafe has some good topics to post in.
I could spend the day on line looking up my family history or other such uplifting things but hell this is more exciting!!!!!!!
Principal4u
Try anything once and if you like it go back for more
We googled "dogging" because of somebody I can't remember - was it Stan Collymore? - my partner stopped contributing but I couldn't let go of it.
I'm much more of a browser than a contributor but I do get a lot of enjoyment out of the site. I just wish I could match the humour and intelligence I see here.
Mollie
Dear Demetrius Breedlove,
I love you
Mollie xxx
Believe it or not it was reccomended in the problem page of the Daily Mirror, I thought it would be some fact laden propaganda website, and was pleased to find a fun and liberal community who govern themselves very well.
believe it or not was sat naked in a jacuzzi and the name cropped up in conversation.........came in had a look .........and the rest is history.....I love the site, and have made many friends..... love it
Came to this site to find like-minded singles looking for fun without the relationship. I don't know whether that classes me as a swinger or not, but I'd rather do this than meet girls who are looking for love when I'm not.
Only just started dipping my toes in, but I'm confident that this is the best swinging site out there. Most just seem to be money making sites where you have to doubt how genuine the ads are. I had my doubts about the photo ads section here, but now coming onto the forum I can see that many of you guys also place ads so its just a case of filtering though the fakes.
cup of coffie!! ..........and i am still waiting for the bugger!
if i remember rightly....i came on and posted a nice introductory letter.....then said something alike to taking the piss out of some 1.....
unfortunately that person was bluexxx.....if i remember rightly i was executed....hung ....drawn and quartered......and placed in boiling pitch.... around town by a team of mad horses......
but...i have to admit....she picked me up after and put me back together after with ointment and baby cream......and we get on like a house on fire now...
ps....please be aware that this post has a spattering of bullshit about it...
A mate of mine mentioned SH and we placed an add in the ‘men seeking women’ how bloody stupid are us guy’s! expecting a result asking for a woman wanting a NSA threesome with two 40ish guys from the NW!
Well, surprisingly, we didn’t get any answers and gave up. Me though, loved the place and now that I can spend more time on the PC it’s the forums that rock. Still haven’t had one meet but what the hell, this is fun anyway
curiosity & the hope of actually fulfilling my fantasy!
Someone told me i should join the forum "cos they will love you in there!"
I did and they all do!