Bear with us, we have never been to a club, and are brand new to the scene. We thinking about going to youtopia, can anyone with a little more experience let us know what to expect? What are we expeceted to wear take with us? How do the rooms work? What are the rules? Like I said we brand new to the scene and haven't got a clue really. Excited and scary in equal measure! Thank you in advance. M
what I would expect from a club would be a large purple throbbing bruise rising on the side of my head... to be knocked back in by a cat wielding a fring-pan, only to have the lump rise again on the other side of my head as the first bruise diminished... naightmare, and painfull too! or have I been watching too many cartoons? lp
If you look to the left there is a section just for clubs... There you will find reviews and links to club websites... Have a browse through and see what info you can gain from there as well :-) Have fun :-)
what you expect is upto you ... thats not faececious, you can go and have a drink and make friends at the bar, you can walk around and voyeur others having fun or you can participate, the experience at the club is as fun as YOU want it to be. If you say NO then people generally say "ok thanks" and move on.
All clubs are different. They all have different dress codes, they vary with who cam attend and on what nights etc. so you need to have a look on the websites. You can even call them for a chat and they will let you know. Some clubs have set nights when it is a bit quieter when new people come along and can be shown around and have a chat and a play (if they are comfortable). Having never been to eutopia I'm afraid I cant help with that one. I was terrified the first time we went to a club but it was really not what I expected and many people say the same. Do you know anyone else who goes? We have taken a few new couples to clubs, (who we have been talking to in the chatrooms) not to play with them (although this has happened too) but so that they didnt have to walk in alone .... just a thought. Don't be shy, talk to people. They are generally very friendly as everyone is there for the same(ish) reasons. Clubs are very social so you will find that many people will talk about their experiences too so you can learn from them.. If you dont like it, it doesnt mean that every club is the same so do try another one. Hope this helps xx
Quote by Funlovers2009 All clubs are different. They all have different dress codes, they vary with who cam attend and on what nights etc. so you need to have a look on the websites. You can even call them for a chat and they will let you know. Some clubs have set nights when it is a bit quieter when new people come along and can be shown around and have a chat and a play (if they are comfortable). Having never been to eutopia I'm afraid I cant help with that one. I was terrified the first time we went to a club but it was really not what I expected and many people say the same. Do you know anyone else who goes? We have taken a few new couples to clubs, (who we have been talking to in the chatrooms) not to play with them (although this has happened too) but so that they didnt have to walk in alone .... just a thought. Don't be shy, talk to people. They are generally very friendly as everyone is there for the same(ish) reasons. Clubs are very social so you will find that many people will talk about their experiences too so you can learn from them.. If you dont like it, it doesnt mean that every club is the same so do try another one. Hope this helps xx
talking to others at clubs is good....it do not meen u have to play with them....go as u would to a pub....n relax.....
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