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Xdionysusx
Warming the Bed
Quote by firelizard
Oh stormwalker, we wanted dark for AGES and just as we are getting there you ruin it for us lol

She would just have eaten you alive ffs you should be thanking me... lol
Stormwalker
We can but hope rotflmao
Darkfire
Sex God
:smug:
you're just not cutting it today are you Stormy flipa
Xdionysusx
Warming the Bed
I hope we havent started a fight!!
Exit stage right! :arrow:
Firelizard
Sex God
Quote by fabio grooverider
The chat room behaviour or lack of it, is one of the reoccurring gripes on the site.
At the moment there are three servers and umpteen rooms, would it be so hard for the powers that be to turn over one of the servers to a totally non directing, non showing one. The server could have a few extra Opps volunteers maybe to police it with a zero tolerance policy on the directors. Admin could pm all members telling them about the rules on this server, and about the consequences of breaking the rules.
The chatrooms and the forums have to coexist, but the present confusing state of the chatrooms makes it very hard for new people to know just where the boundaries are drawn. Clear lines and simple rules are probably better for the uninitiated to understand. We all I imagine want this site to prosper so let’s give those who want to chat in peace a safe place to do so.
Stormwalker

Not the worst idea in the world...in fact was talking to someone about exactly the same thing the idea.....and i can't see why it wouldn't be workable as long as people are told how to change from chat server to chat server when they 1st enter chat....
maybe that would solve a lot of issues.....
sean ccccc
I agree can’t see that it wouldn’t work Sean. I think one of the big problems with chat is that there are so many rooms with different ideas of what’s acceptable and what’s not, even with the best will in the world people will get confused with all the different interpretations. Lets be honest how many people actually bother to read the rules and stickys before venturing in.
Stormwalker
Firelizard
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Quote by foxyandbeasty
I hope we havent started a fight!!
Exit stage right! :arrow:

Don't worry Foxy, I just like to tease the domestic dogs from time to time :twisted:
Stormwalker :evil2:
fabio
Sex God
Quote by firelizard
I agree can’t see that it wouldn’t work Sean. I think one of the big problems with chat is that there are so many rooms with different ideas of what’s acceptable and what’s not, even with the best will in the world people will get confused with all the different interpretations. Lets be honest how many people actually bother to read the rules and stickys before venturing in.
Stormwalker

maybe the solution in the long run would be to only be able to enter the chatroom via a terms and conditions page.. that way there would be no excuse... for example.... click to enter chatroom.. that leads to the chatroom rules page.... then at the bottom of that just have another box that reads "if you understand these rules and still want to enter the chatroom click here"
that i suppose would cut out the "I didn't know" excuses......smile and you could put in "chat server "x" is a non cam/ non directing/ "whatever" so that would solve that one as well....and everyone would know what server to head for.......
obviously i am thinking out loud.. because in reality I know squat diddly about computers so i don't know how easy/hard/blooming impossible it would be to do something like that in practice....not trying to create more work for the 4 tops... honest!!!!
Darkfire
Sex God
Quote by firelizard
I hope we havent started a fight!!
Exit stage right! :arrow:

Don't worry Foxy, I just like to tease the domestic dogs from time to time :twisted:
Stormwalker :evil2:
rotflmao rotflmao
essex34m
Sex God
Quote by firelizard
The chat room behaviour or lack of it, is one of the reoccurring gripes on the site.
At the moment there are three servers and umpteen rooms, would it be so hard for the powers that be to turn over one of the servers to a totally non directing, non showing one. The server could have a few extra Opps volunteers maybe to police it with a zero tolerance policy on the directors. Admin could pm all members telling them about the rules on this server, and about the consequences of breaking the rules.
The chatrooms and the forums have to coexist, but the present confusing state of the chatrooms makes it very hard for new people to know just where the boundaries are drawn. Clear lines and simple rules are probably better for the uninitiated to understand. We all I imagine want this site to prosper so let’s give those who want to chat in peace a safe place to do so.
Stormwalker

and theres me thinking the words "no directing" were clear and simple........
twos_company
Sex God
Quote by goose35

apparently it's bad manneered to nip in and out of rooms without posting dunno

Is it ? oops.
I do that a lot lol
Better say hello goodbye from now then
we pop in rooms say hi.....if no one answers we vanish again
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Unknown User
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and have the pleasure of chatroom ops and site mods using the room to kick back and relax...
steve

And bluddy grateful for it we are too hun kiss
I have spent the day chasing TTT's around the chatrooms and I am off for a bath and then a nice relaxing evening in Steve's chatroom biggrin
Firelizard
Sex God
Quote by essex34m
The chat room behaviour or lack of it, is one of the reoccurring gripes on the site.
At the moment there are three servers and umpteen rooms, would it be so hard for the powers that be to turn over one of the servers to a totally non directing, non showing one. The server could have a few extra Opps volunteers maybe to police it with a zero tolerance policy on the directors. Admin could pm all members telling them about the rules on this server, and about the consequences of breaking the rules.
The chatrooms and the forums have to coexist, but the present confusing state of the chatrooms makes it very hard for new people to know just where the boundaries are drawn. Clear lines and simple rules are probably better for the uninitiated to understand. We all I imagine want this site to prosper so let’s give those who want to chat in peace a safe place to do so.
Stormwalker

and theres me thinking the words "no directing" were clear and simple........
If they were policed in a consistent and clear manner then maybe they would be, but more often than not the policing can, to the casual observer, be arbitrary at best.
Banter between people who know each other can be perfectly acceptable to the participants, but if an unknown joins in, the banter suddenly becomes unwarranted directing. It’s not surprising that the majority of chat roomers don’t know what is acceptable and what isn’t.
What I’m suggesting is that a separate and clearly defined space is set-aside for people who want to chat and only chat without having to keep looking over their shoulders for the directors.
Stormwalker