Someone asked me recently "What do you want?", and the best I could manage at the time was "I don't know". You deserve a better answer than that, so here it is:
I still don't know.
A few people here have said that one of the best things about joining in on the forum is the real friendships they have made. They weren't expecting it, and that wasn't their goal in coming here, but they recognised a good thing and grabbed it.
That's pretty much how I live my life. I don't have well-defined goals. I watch for opportunities, and when I good one comes along I take it (actually, I'm usually too much of a wimp to take it, but that's the theory). I also manipulate my world to encourage the appearance of good opportunities. That's why I'm here. I had a feeling that if I joined in, good things would happen, even though I didn't have any idea what they might be. I haven't been disappointed so far.
So what opportunities would I grasp if they got near enough? That's about the closest I'll get to "what do I want?"
In no particular order:
I want good conversations with good people. Intelligent conversations, silly conversations, outrageous flirting... all the things that are in plentiful supply right here.
I want to meet new friends.
I want to be happy, and to make other people happy.
I want to broaden my sexual horizons. You can't know if you like something or not until you try it. I've learned some things that I like (foreplay is much more fun that sex itself) and some that I don't (being tied up does nothing for me). There are still lots of things that I'd like to try, and a few that I'm sufficiently sure I wouldn't like that I won't try, such as anything involving pain.
I want to broaded my horizons in general. I'm fascinated by people. Somehow I got the idea that understanding how other people think would make me better able to interact with them, and would make me a better person.
I want all the other things that I can't think of in advance.
If I find any of that here, then I'm a happy man. If I can't (and it's too late for that, because I've already found some of it), that's OK. No one owes me anything.
While I'm here - if we were at that pub (you know who you are) and I was reasonably sure the answer would be "yes", then I would be very tempted to ask. My shyness and fear of rejection would probably get in first and I'd spend the next six months kicking myself, but I'd be extremely tempted.
You were warned that I'm much more articulate online than in person.
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