Please help me!!!
I'm going to a fetish night at Club Lick in London in a couple of weeks.
I have several questions:
1. Being female and worrying about this kinda thing, what the hell do I wear?
2. Has anyone been and what are the fetish nights like? I've been on a normal night, but I'm a little nervous about it being a fetish night.
The guy I'm going with isnt bothered about little things like this. He's just a turn up and worry later type, whereas I like to start worrying in plenty of time!!!!
Please help if you can!!!!
Thank you
The best thing about fetish is you can be as outrageous as you like and no one will bat an eyelid!!!!
Check out your local goth shops, fetish shops on the net or even ebay. Dress it up and go have a great time! :thumbup:
Iknow these nights at Lick....
and have always found them to be really relaxed and friendly as far as the folk attending go.
If it is the same *hosts* for the night... they are a great couple, and thier *team* are fantastic also...
Dress?... really, anything you want... as kinky, rude, saucie, daring, or just plain sexy (if there is such a thing) as you like.
There really are no rules in that place, or indeed that scene... except for no bog standard street wear on the blokes. Black at least there!
maybe dress in a way in which you might initially feel sexy, and comfortable... but you could strip, or adapt a tad as the evening goes on, and your confidence/kinkiness increses?...
Just have fun... it's alllll good!
lp
To be honest, as a woman you could probably go as you would be dressed for a swingers club - stockings, suspenders, corset ... that kind of thing ... nurses uniform etc etc ... people often think fetish means latex/pvc/leather but that's wrong ... you could think of it as fancy dress party.
Only thing that isn't acceptable is normal street clothes really.
I wouldn't worry too much about it. Am off to Torture Garden tomorrow, it's their birthday ball.