when l joined the site.l made my profile as a single my girlfriend does join in now and then.
seems to have been ok for a while.
untill the other day l got a pm from l cant mention ,the fact that my girlfriend swings now and then.
would l be best off deleteing the single male creating a couples though she does not join in to often.
help please advise needed cheers carl
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Quote by xmanuk2003
when l joined the site.l made my profile as a single my girlfriend does join in now and then.
seems to have been ok for a while.
untill the other day l got a pm from l cant mention ,the fact that my girlfriend swings now and then.
would l be best off deleteing the single male creating a couples though she does not join in to often.
help please advise needed cheers carl
First of all, you say 'girlfriend' but your profile says 'wife'. It's a bit confusing really, because it states that you're looking as a single but you say in the text that you're also looking for a male to join you and your wife, and a couple to join you both. Maybe it's the confusion that needs to be sorted?
Quote by xmanuk2003
when l joined the site.l made my profile as a single my girlfriend does join in now and then.
seems to have been ok for a while.
untill the other day l got a pm from l cant mention ,the fact that my girlfriend swings now and then.
would l be best off deleteing the single male creating a couples though she does not join in to often.
help please advise needed cheers carl
The true swinging ethic is based on openess and honesty so it might be better if you set your profile up to mirror your situation.
If you have a 'free' account then you'll only be losing your post count if you open a new account.
If you pay then I believe you can change the type, but I think there's a small admin fee. A quick PM to Admin can confirm the way to do that. :thumbup:
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just been to check on my my ads have been removed/ couldnt l have been informed of this.
You were. A message was sent to you about 4 days ago.
Mal
yes it didnt say it was gonna delete my ads.
here it is
Single male account = single male ads with no reference to any wife! Use the site responsibly.
l thought l was being responsible. l placed ad as a single can only sometimes couples would take that,as a married man doing things behind his wifes back. l mentioned my girlfriend would confirm she knows about the was wrong with that.
updated profile,added some now they been explanation
here it is
Single male account = single male ads with no reference to any wife! Use the site responsibly.
l thought l was being responsible. l placed ad as a single can only sometimes couples would take that,as a married man doing things behind his wifes back. l mentioned my girlfriend would confirm she knows about the was wrong with that.
updated profile,added some now they been explanation
I have looked into your account and your pictures were deleted because they were showing other people. It is your account so the pictures should be mainly of yourself.
Fairly easy really, try reading the AUPif you are unsure :thumbup:
Your ads were deleted because they were suggesting that it was more than yourself that wanted fun
Fairly easy really, try reading the AUPif you are unsure :thumbup:
Photos
The photo should be mainly of the account holder(s), only non-distinguishable parts of third parties can be shown.
Your ads were deleted because they were suggesting that it was more than yourself that wanted fun
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the pics were of me ,my girlfriend and a faces seen other ads,where for example.a couple are theres 2 men in a the difference.l was in all of the pics you deleted.
You have a single male account so you can post single male pictures and maybe a little of another person. Not a 3 some.
If you see any other pictures you believe do not fit within the AUP, please use the report button and we will take a look, thanks.
For the record, I never deleted anything, I am just trying to help you understand :thumbup:
lm not out to pick a lose. lol, but my point l ,in my mind was trying to be stating on my l was an attached to meet others,with my girlfriends if needed she could verfy this on the anyone who is interested.
l even state at the bottom of my capitol letters. that the profile is for a single male.
the site does not have the "attached male"
so l have the option of either going as a would be as a single the reason for this thread being started.
l know your trying to help.;)
l even state at the bottom of my capitol letters. that the profile is for a single male.
the site does not have the "attached male"
so l have the option of either going as a would be as a single the reason for this thread being started.
l know your trying to help.;)
OK, I'm really trying hard to explain here but I'm knackered, sorry.
This was your profile text but I have removed it and will explain why if you would like to look at the bold sections.
I'll explain at the bottom :thumbup:
You have a single male account and can only advertise as a single male but you were suggesting fun with your girlfriend who is Bi and a possible foursome.
I am going to lock this thread now purely because I can't find any other way of explaining where you are going wrong.
Single male account means single male adverts and single male pictures.
If you have any more questions please do not start another thread but take up a support ticket and admin will guide you through what you are struggling with :thumbup:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/support-tickets/
This was your profile text but I have removed it and will explain why if you would like to look at the bold sections.
I'll explain at the bottom :thumbup:
hi and thanks for reading my profile.a little about med build,above average down .looking to meet new people on here for friendship.l travel to leeds fortnightly so as well as ok to meet couples in west yorkshire to. yes lm we do meet as a couple now and then,yes its one of those ads,where people will think,hes just after extra fun,behind his girlfriends but thats we have made can chat to the boss and she`ll let you not doing it behind her back. what am l looking a couple who would like an extra male to join them.a couple where the wife would spare the hubby to come and have fun with my girlfriend and then as a foursome as the boss is bi. frienship is are down to earth,and like a drink now and then. thanks for reading be shy .l dont bite unless you want me to.==================== =========================== ======== PLEASE ADVERT IS FOR ME,AS A SINGLE as a couple thanks
You have a single male account and can only advertise as a single male but you were suggesting fun with your girlfriend who is Bi and a possible foursome.
I am going to lock this thread now purely because I can't find any other way of explaining where you are going wrong.
Single male account means single male adverts and single male pictures.
If you have any more questions please do not start another thread but take up a support ticket and admin will guide you through what you are struggling with :thumbup:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/support-tickets/
