i joined the site about 3 years a go so far as putting a add up, then in the middle of last year i realised they had a chat room


Quote by KitKatThis is not exactly what you are getting at x-man
But the way I have always looked at it is: the biggest disasters usually occur when people arrive on the site expecting one thing, and finding something very different. What often happens next, is that they feel it is a personal affront to them, that they are being rejected, when really, they are just a square peg in a round hole.
So, instead of buggering off to find a square hole, they hang around here trying to make this round hole square.
Then they wonder why all the round pegs get upset at them, and chase them off. So they start moaning about how unfair it is to pick on the square pegs like that.
When really, it is just that we like round holes, and want to keep it that way.
So my advice to newbies is: Be realistic about your expectations.
Quote by niceguy27
hi all as i am very new i think the forum is a good idea it gives me chance to talk to more experianced members without feeling uncomfertable but it is wierd tryin to break into a group that allready know each other. (esp wheni have dyslexia word spell check v handy) so please give us a chance and forgiveus when we go wrong and maybe tell us what and how we went wrong. one idea may be for some of the more experianced members could set up a meet especially for newbies with a few old hands to give us some guidence thanks for reading.
Quote by x-man0223
i dont start meny threds but
i was just wondering how meny newbies(people who have joined in the past few months) find this forum????
and as for you seasond pro's any sugestions that will help newbies not upset people??
just so you know
i think your all mad and that is why i keep coming back again and again and again