In a previous reationship, my gf of the time didnt like oral sex for various reasons......I was obviously disappointed (especially as I loved going down on her), but respected her opinions and it wasnt an issue.....however, she did on a few occasions go down on me (My birthday and a few other special occasions) without me ever asking.
Like a lot of people have said, if you dont ask her why she doesnt do it/like it, then you cant sort out the situation. However, the important thing is that No will always mean No.
as a female thats been in both positions I thought Id throw in my 2 penneth!!
I adore sucking cock, can do it for hours for the only reason that it gives me immense pleasure. On the flip of that though I have to say I've been in a relationship where I just couldn't do it. I stayed with the guy for 4 years and no matter what I did It just wasn't working for me. Its also incredibly hard to say to a guy "look you all taste different" and that was the main reason, this guy had a cock that leaked really quick ( which is usally fab) but I just really really didn't like the taste..its the only time its ever happened. He also had a huge foreskin that i just didn't like the feel of. NOw that was just me and I'm sure that your GF has her own reasons, you may find that if shes insistent that she just "doesn't like it" that she may never tell you the reason.. every guy is different but so is every woman! I guess its an issue you'll have to work out between yourselves. ...
Now then, all this thought of sucking cock has got me going hehehe, I'm off to the chat room lol
heheh I'm sure you can track me down! ... or I guess you can sign up for Yoga lol
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My late hubby found one of those 70's lover's guide books, his Dad had underlined the words ' oral sex is normal'. What was he expecting, the woman eats pizza with a knife and fork!
On a more serious note, I was in a relationship where he wasn't really into oral sex for sixteen years, but, hey, I loved the guy...believe it or not there is more to life.
My present lover on the other hand can't get enough, which is fine by me. There's nothing better to while away the small hours when you can't sleep! Personally I think there's nothing hornier, but each to there own, if she doesn't like it, find something she does like, have a bit of fun with it.
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Speaking as a female who used to hate sucking cock the best advice you can have is leave it a while then approach the subject again, sensitively! (a while being longer than a week).
It took Morbius a long time to get me to suck his and we started off with the condoms until I was comfortable then pregressed from there.
I'm still apprehensive at times, and cleanliness is paramount, he's 100% much more chance of getting one havnig just come out the shower.
The best thing you can dois find something else you both like doing and only mention the BJ occasionally.
Cx
I may be orally fixated but even I draw the line somewhere.
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LMAOOOOOO nooooo ya git ;) The shower scene is a lot nicer ;)
Cx
turn bi ,that'll get you plenty of oral, lol.
i hate the girls who say they will and then they say they wont, but of all the girls i like the best i may be wrong or right, are the ones that say they never do but look as though they might, courtesy of judge dread.
did you know mrs formby had a baby with arny schwarzenegger, kept saying " turned out quite nice again mutha
Well I think darkfire summed it up.......
If she has tried and don't like its down to you to decide which is more important...... point out the severe likelyhood of you straying for such joys if she doesn't play ball.. oh and everytime you go near her ask if she has had fish today...
Now your single again................
Problem solved??
Mike x