What do you prefer?

9 Sep 2006

Same or seperate room swaps?
Personally we can't see the point of seperate room swaps, as the visual enjoyment is absent. You may as well be in a seperate room or even County and just have a relationship where everyone can go off and do their own thing.
Let me guess, this ones been done to death! lol

9 Sep 2006

I've said this before and, while it's down to the person, a major part of swinging is the turnon of seenig your partner aswell. To us, you may aswell just go out seperately to a rave and meet someone there. Sarah's also Bi, so it kinda defeats the point.
I would also never forgive myself if somebody hurt Sarah or forced her into something.
There was a post recently where a lot of people were saying the exact opposite and they find it more enjoyable to be alone. Just depends on what you want smile

9 Sep 2006

we only like same room as we get off on watching each other xx

9 Sep 2006

Same room only.....as well as enjoying watching my wife play,its a safety issue aswell,you never know oneday things might get out of hand and your not there to put a stop to things cause your in another room.

9 Sep 2006

Personally, I don't find the attraction of seperate rooms appealing.
But I do "know" of people that a huge buzz out of telling each other what they've gotten up to while "separated"
And to be fair, the only time (I think) I've had a girl squirt from penetration only, was as she was telling me - in detail - what she'd being doing during her first "proper" bisexual weekend away. I have to say, it blew my mind too, but I had the added buzz of her squirting so "easily"
I realise that's different from separate rooms during a meet, but perhaps one could be seen as an extension of the other dunno

Maybe the whole subject of same/different room, comes down to the good old cliche of - different strokes . . . . .. . .
As an aside - I pmsl when she said "I know what you mean now, about that bit of skin under your tongue hurting" rotflmao

9 Sep 2006

Quote by dambuster
Maybe the whole subject of same/different room, comes down to the good old cliche of - different strokes . . . . .. . .
As an aside - I pmsl when she said "I know what you mean now, about that bit of skin under your tongue hurting"

With you on both of these points dammie biggrin

Other than daves valid point about safety, ........ it's down to the individual...
We haven't swung with couples (yet) .... only doing MMF, so naturally same room, but if H wanted to play alone with somebody that would be ok by me (she can scream loudly if she needs help).
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