Quote by 295466
Besides agreeing with De_Sade lets just get one thing straight KM - it was you who started the abuse.
I'm sure you would agree with him!
The idea of the cafe is for "chit-chat" - no-one's forcing you either to contribute or share your thoughts on the subject I raised.
And?
However, as with much bigger issues in life such as war, isn't it better to talk/negotiate than to go out with all guns blazing assuming that you are always right?
I don't assume I'm right at all - I'm merely voicing my opinion.
To continue with your approach can only make things more devisive and worse.
You never know by opening up a bit more you might enlighten this half of the human race a little more and improve things. There again maybe you get some perverse enjoyment from being so negative and destructive.
Huh? Yet another patronising sexist guy. I don't enjoy suffering people like you who want to feed of other peoples sexual experiences - take the hint!
Fortunately for me I've also had a number of very supportive messages from other "females" and know that you are in a sad minority.:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Yeah I'm the only person who has ever responded to you in this way - another deluded character! Please go back and re-read your thread on foot fetish and try and guage people opinions.
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What goes on inside a woman's mind?
295466,
do you really think that anyone can tell you what is going on in their own mind. I can tell you what I think I want, but offer it to me, would I take it?
Anyone who tells you what they are thinking will sooner or later prove themselves wrong. It is not women you do not understand, it is life and the brain.
Travis
do you really think that anyone can tell you what is going on in their own mind. I can tell you what I think I want, but offer it to me, would I take it?
Anyone who tells you what they are thinking will sooner or later prove themselves wrong. It is not women you do not understand, it is life and the brain.
Travis
Quote by 295466
Hopefully they may understand that its in their long term interest to open themselves up.
More than anything else said in this entire thread this is the most ridiculous comment possibly in the history of SH!!
This is a place where women can freely share their fantasies, generally with real people at meets, in the stories sections, in the chatrooms or by pm if they choose but the crux of swinging is choice, and women have a choice as to who they tell and what they tell them. This may seem like a double standard but if a woman had started this thread it would seem less of a try at getting some w**king material but I suspect it would have still been as unsuccessful at getting women to essentially 'talk dirty' in an open forum. The PM's you may have received have been exactly that - private, and indicate that no-one was willing to bear their soul in the thread, whether or not it would be in their 'long term interest'
(And before anyone plays the lesbian card, you can get knotted. I am a woman first and lesbian second, I would think kiss_me was right whether or not I was gay)
Before I start. I'm not gay. I don't have a 'card' to play. I do get a little fed up with this 'them and us' attitude towards men and women. We are all people. If a person treats me with respect then they will get it in return. I don't assume that all men are football crazed lager swilling wanking idiots and I don't expect men to assume I'm a pink and frilly girly who spends her time doing her nails and dancing round her handbag. I have time for people who get to know me as a person first and foremost, if this thread had been worded differently it might have been met with a different response, but the sexist tones of the author annoyed me. I'm not being personally insulting here, or at least I hope not, I just hate sexism in either extreme.
H.x
H.x
Sex God
Quote by H-x
...to assume I'm a pink and frilly girly who spends her time doing her nails and dancing round her handbag.
More like, fag-rolling, wine-swilling, chucking your Chinky on the floor kinda girl, H ?
HappyCat, I'm going to dispel any mental images people had of you now and say that you're lovely! :lol:
OK - so help me to word it properly.I 'm not actually looking for wanking material I'm really trying to move the issue along and I'm glad at least to get a modicum of common sense from yourself.
Over to you - as I said at the start I really don't want to participate but to watch the subject unfold from a female perspective.
:welcome:
Over to you - as I said at the start I really don't want to participate but to watch the subject unfold from a female perspective.
:welcome:
Quote by H-x
Before I start. I'm not gay. I don't have a 'card' to play. I do get a little fed up with this 'them and us' attitude towards men and women. We are all people. If a person treats me with respect then they will get it in return. I don't assume that all men are football crazed lager swilling wanking idiots and I don't expect men to assume I'm a pink and frilly girly who spends her time doing her nails and dancing round her handbag. I have time for people who get to know me as a person first and foremost, if this thread had been worded differently it might have been met with a different response, but the sexist tones of the author annoyed me. I'm not being personally insulting here, or at least I hope not, I just hate sexism in either extreme.
H.x
Sex God
Just to get back to the topic, what goes on in my mind varies with the company I'm keeping and the circumstances we find ourselves in.
But it's often X-rated. :twisted:
But it's often X-rated. :twisted:
Quote by Freckledbird
...to assume I'm a pink and frilly girly who spends her time doing her nails and dancing round her handbag.
More like, fag-rolling, wine-swilling, chucking your Chinky on the floor kinda girl, H ?
HappyCat, I'm going to dispel any mental images people had of you now and say that you're lovely! :lol:
I didn't chuck my chinky on the floor! That was some drunken welsh bird.
notice I'm not denying the rest though
H.x
Sex God
Apologies H, it was indeed the Welsh bint
Sex God
Quote by 295466
OK guys can I request that we allow just women to discuss their wants and fantasies here?
After 50 years (25 years married) and some months now on this site, I'm still mystified about what really goes on in their head.
Lets watch with interest and see what unfolds...................
Hopefully they may understand that its in their long term interest to open themselves up.
I think you might not have come across so pervy if you'd not just asked for women's fantasies. It does look as if you're only wanting wanking material. I'm inclined to agree with some of the females and say that you do come across, in this post, as a bit sad - simply because of how it's worded. It appears that some of the men agree too.
Why is it in our interests to open up to you?
For what it's worth, I think some people are being a bit hard on KM.
Quote by 295466
OK - so help me to word it properly.I 'm not actually looking for wanking material I'm really trying to move the issue along and I'm glad at least to get a modicum of common sense from yourself.
Over to you - as I said at the start I really don't want to participate but to watch the subject unfold from a female perspective.
:welcome:
Before I start. I'm not gay. I don't have a 'card' to play. I do get a little fed up with this 'them and us' attitude towards men and women. We are all people. If a person treats me with respect then they will get it in return. I don't assume that all men are football crazed lager swilling wanking idiots and I don't expect men to assume I'm a pink and frilly girly who spends her time doing her nails and dancing round her handbag. I have time for people who get to know me as a person first and foremost, if this thread had been worded differently it might have been met with a different response, but the sexist tones of the author annoyed me. I'm not being personally insulting here, or at least I hope not, I just hate sexism in either extreme.
H.x
And I don't understand why you only want the views of women if not for your own amusement.
I'm interested in what the people here think are the charactersitic differences between men and women, because of course there are many, but I'd like to hear the thoughts from both - to get an overall view.
H.x
Quote by da69ve
Right thats enough now ladies.....back to your kitchens!
295466......i'd go and stick with your thread in Lets Meet Up....it might be safer in there.
:laughabove:
Damn I was enjoying being away from the cooker and washing machine, if only for a short while! Oh well I know my place!
Quote by Kiss_Me
Right thats enough now ladies.....back to your kitchens!
295466......i'd go and stick with your thread in Lets Meet Up....it might be safer in there.
:laughabove:
Damn I was enjoying being away from the cooker and washing machine, if only for a short while! Oh well I know my place!
excactly.......no time for fantasies or daydreaming.....when you've got work to do.
295466......just a note......if someone starts a thread looking for others to open up or talk about their fantasies.....its customary for them to say one as well.....just to get the ball rolling...it also sounds to me like it goes deeper......no problems at home i hope?
Thanks for the concern - no problems at all on the home front.
I have in the past shared my fantasies re: foot fetish and got the boot! I wonder sometimes why they call this a Forum - all they seem to do is whinge and snipe.
Hence the request to hear from others - as you suggest I'll find more fertile ground elsewhere - we're on page five and not even a glimmer of a feminine fantasy - they're all too busy with dom. chores or actually at itI assume!
:laughabove:
Damn I was enjoying being away from the cooker and washing machine, if only for a short while! Oh well I know my place!
excactly.......no time for fantasies or daydreaming.....when you've got work to do.
295466......just a note......if someone starts a thread looking for others to open up or talk about their fantasies.....its customary for them to say one as well.....just to get the ball rolling...it also sounds to me like it goes deeper......no problems at home i hope?
I have in the past shared my fantasies re: foot fetish and got the boot! I wonder sometimes why they call this a Forum - all they seem to do is whinge and snipe.
Hence the request to hear from others - as you suggest I'll find more fertile ground elsewhere - we're on page five and not even a glimmer of a feminine fantasy - they're all too busy with dom. chores or actually at itI assume!
Quote by da69ve
Right thats enough now ladies.....back to your kitchens!
295466......i'd go and stick with your thread in Lets Meet Up....it might be safer in there.
:laughabove:
Damn I was enjoying being away from the cooker and washing machine, if only for a short while! Oh well I know my place!
excactly.......no time for fantasies or daydreaming.....when you've got work to do.
295466......just a note......if someone starts a thread looking for others to open up or talk about their fantasies.....its customary for them to say one as well.....just to get the ball rolling...it also sounds to me like it goes deeper......no problems at home i hope?
Sex God
Quote by H-x
Is it easy to carry a shovel around whilst your foot is in your mouth?
H.x
Apparently so
Quote by da69ve
Right thats enough now ladies.....back to your kitchens!
295466......i'd go and stick with your thread in Lets Meet Up....it might be safer in there.
:laughabove:
Damn I was enjoying being away from the cooker and washing machine, if only for a short while! Oh well I know my place!
excactly.......no time for fantasies or daydreaming.....when you've got work to do.
How would I ever get through my day without a Man like you to help guide me?
:wink:
Quote by 295466
Thanks for the concern - no problems at all on the home front.
I have in the past shared my fantasies re: foot fetish and got the boot! I wonder sometimes why they call this a Forum - all they seem to do is whinge and snipe.
Hence the request to hear from others - as you suggest I'll find more fertile ground elsewhere - we're on page five and not even a glimmer of a feminine fantasy - they're all too busy with dom. chores or actually at it I assume!
Do you want to borrow my shovel .... the one I buried the body with ?
Correct me if I am wrong but arent there free chatrooms on if you want to randomly hear about a womans fantasies. Might be a little easier for you. No sarcasm intended just a nice suggestion from a gal who has fantasies about burying the body
Thanks for the concern - no problems at all on the home front.
I have in the past shared my fantasies re: foot fetish and got the boot! I wonder sometimes why they call this a Forum - all they seem to do is whinge and snipe.
Hence the request to hear from others - as you suggest I'll find more fertile ground elsewhere - we're on page five and not even a glimmer of a feminine fantasy - they're all too busy with dom. chores or actually at it I assume!
Do you want to borrow my shovel .... the one I buried the body with ?
Correct me if I am wrong but arent there free chatrooms on if you want to randomly hear about a womans fantasies. Might be a little easier for you. No sarcasm intended just a nice suggestion from a gal who has fantasies about burying the body
Wasn't the thread here called @what goes on inside a woman's mind' not 'hey girls share your pervy thoughts'? Seems to me we've had a fair cross section on what's going on there and indeed what they think.
:lol: :lol: Quote by keeno
Wasn't the thread here called @what goes on inside a woman's mind' not 'hey girls share your pervy thoughts'? Seems to me we've had a fair cross section on what's going on there and indeed what they think.
Oh myGod ... you are so right. I misread and jumped to conclusions.
Let me correct this ... seeing as how you don't want my pervy thoughts let me tell you what goes on in my mind ........
Well, crap, not much left after my pervy thoughts!!!!!!
Sex God
He wanted to know 'women's wants and fantasies'.
I want chocolate and sex NOW (not necessarily in that order) and I fantasise about lots of things but they usually involve sex. Or chocolate.
I want chocolate and sex NOW (not necessarily in that order) and I fantasise about lots of things but they usually involve sex. Or chocolate.
Sex God
Quote by Abilene
He wanted to know 'women's wants and fantasies'.
I want chocolate and sex NOW (not necessarily in that order) and I fantasise about lots of things but they usually involve sex. Or chocolate.
What about chocolate and sex at the same time .... just a thought :twisted:
Someone put the thought of chocolate icing in my head yesterday :twisted:
He wanted to know 'women's wants and fantasies'.
I want chocolate and sex NOW (not necessarily in that order) and I fantasise about lots of things but they usually involve sex. Or chocolate.
What about chocolate and sex at the same time .... just a thought :twisted:
Is this the female equivelent of drugs sex and rock and roll. Without the drugs and rock and roll??
I want chocolate and sex NOW (not necessarily in that order) and I fantasise about lots of things but they usually involve sex. Or chocolate.
What about chocolate and sex at the same time .... just a thought :twisted:
Is this the female equivelent of drugs sex and rock and roll. Without the drugs and rock and roll??
