What if???.........

21 Jul 2008

Swinging didnt exist or you had never come into the "swinging scene"
A comment Mrs Bone made on another thread got me thinking.........
Would you have just carried on with normal life keeping those little fantasies locked up? :shock:
Have you always had an open relationship so still do it in a roundabout way?
Would you have thought about or maybe cheated to satisfy those urges? :sad:
Personally always had an open relationship so would have just carried on with that proberly getting bored and going through phases and possibly one day settling for that 1 person relationship :angel:
Keep it nice please
:swingingchair:

21 Jul 2008

I'd end up with one arm bigger than the other.
:shock:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

21 Jul 2008

I swung before I thought about swinging! wink

After I found the swinging sites I guess I just found a name for it. I've always been a bit of a perve! :mrgreen:

21 Jul 2008

ooohhh ive never caused a thread before lol

:lol:
I think i would have cheated sad

sad but true

21 Jul 2008

Love your honest post Mrs Bonedigger
I think if we hadn't come into the scene then we would of just carried on experimenting with each other maybe indulging in more kinky/fetish type behaviour. In fact the fact that the naughtiness of swinging is so appealing has probably held us back from some experimenting. I know I would not of strayed away as I am fairly obsessed by J and i'm not interested in sex if it doesn't include her. As for J i think maybe that obsession from me would of given her cause to cheat.
I do think it would be hard as a couple to walk away from swinging unscathed though as if like J & I before swinging we were both monogamous to each other for years the fact that you've seen your partner getting screwed is something that you can never get out of your mind. The act cannot be undone and could be the cause of a massive stress within a couples relationship.

21 Jul 2008

Personally I always had an open relationship so would have just carried on with that...
...at least I wouldn't be traveling halfway way up the country & me feckin car would still be in one piece!
banghead

21 Jul 2008

Quote by redpantherman
Personally I always had an open relationship so would have just carried on with that...
...at least I wouldn't be traveling halfway way up the country & me feckin car would still be in one piece!

Oh, so now we find out the cause of the Sticky-taped car! rotflmao

We'd swung before we knew what it was too.....
TBH, it's really hard for me to answer that. I was only 18 when I met Mr W, and my longest relationship had lasted a matter of a couple of weeks.
On the one hand, I am notoriously fickle.
On the other hand, I think I'm capable of being a one man woman. If the man & I were compatible twixt the sheets that is.

21 Jul 2008

Quote by redpantherman
Personally I always had an open relationship so would have just carried on with that...
...at least I wouldn't be traveling halfway way up the country & me feckin car would still be in one piece!

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