What is a swinger?

16 Jan 2009

Quote by Lucyandmike7
Singles playing about with singles aint swingers or swinging

:shock: So, if you/a couple meet a single guy and they play together (MMF) it's swinging. However, if I (a single female) meet two single guys and we play together (MMF) it's not swinging? confused

How does that work then? dunno

And further to that what if a male from one couple and a female from another couple meet to have fun....
Is that swinging :dunno:
NO, that is called "playing with fire" :shock:
Lucys post.
Even with both other partners' consent? :shock:

16 Jan 2009

:giggle:
Okay... can add another question into the mix?
What is a "hardened swinger"?
I'm guessing it's not the sort that watch Chicken Run, or eat pizza in their PJs, or dress each other up to take photos?! redface

Any clues?

16 Jan 2009

Quote by Dirtygirly
:giggle:
Okay... can add another question into the mix?
What is a "hardened swinger"?
I'm guessing it's not the sort that watch Chicken Run, or eat pizza in their PJs, or dress each other up to take photos?!
Any clues?

LMAO
Erm... 'hardened swinger' = have had to have had new pussy/cock transplant as they have worn out? :shock:
My head hurts reading this thread but it has made me decide I'd like to shag Neil at some point surprised

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:twisted: He gets no say in it of course - he can just facilitate wink

16 Jan 2009

I AM a swinger
the rest of you are f@@kers wink

16 Jan 2009

Quote by R6_biker
My head hurts reading this thread but it has made me decide I'd like to shag Neil at some point :twisted: He gets no say in it of course - he can just facilitate

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Oh you would, would you? That's very forward of you, ain't it? Course, I'll have to run it by Gem first, see what she has to say on the subject. Hang on a minute . . . .
. . . . . No, that's absolutely fine apparently. What's that darling? Yes, yes ok, I'll ask him . . . she says can she watch? :twisted: lol

;)
N x x x ;)

16 Jan 2009

Quote by neilinleeds
. . . . . No, that's absolutely fine apparently. What's that darling? Yes, yes ok, I'll ask him . . . she says can she watch? :twisted: ;)
N x x x ;)

She can facilitate... think Twister 'right hand green' etc etc wink

16 Jan 2009

I see Serendipitys raised left boobie, and place a pencil beneath it lol

16 Jan 2009

Quote by Lucyandmike7
Singles playing about with singles aint swingers or swinging

:shock: So, if you/a couple meet a single guy and they play together (MMF) it's swinging. However, if I (a single female) meet two single guys and we play together (MMF) it's not swinging? confused

How does that work then? dunno

And further to that what if a male from one couple and a female from another couple meet to have fun....
Is that swinging :dunno:
NO, that is called "playing with fire" :shock:
Lucys post.
Oi !! I don't "do" blokes :shock:

17 Jan 2009

Quote by Silk and Big G
I see Serendipitys raised left boobie, and place a pencil beneath it

I hope your pencil has plenty of lead in it :rascal:
*totters off imagining what G keeps in his pencil case*

17 Jan 2009

Quote by Firelizard
Singles playing about with singles aint swingers or swinging

:shock: So, if you/a couple meet a single guy and they play together (MMF) it's swinging. However, if I (a single female) meet two single guys and we play together (MMF) it's not swinging? confused

How does that work then? dunno

And further to that what if a male from one couple and a female from another couple meet to have fun....
Is that swinging :dunno:
NO, that is called "playing with fire" :shock:
Lucys post.
Oi !! I don't "do" blokes :shock:
Eh???? What did i say????
I do blokes! lol

Arh......just got it.....slow here!!!!!
Lucys post.

17 Jan 2009

Quote by Dirtygirly
:giggle:
Okay... can add another question into the mix?
What is a "hardened swinger"?
...
Any clues?

A man who has not had any today.

16 Apr 2009

I don't care - I swing because I want to. That makes me a swinger. Anyone that disagrees or does not like that is free to do so in the privacy of their own home ;)

16 Apr 2009

Quote by BIoke
I'm about 90% gay and have a male partner - we do 3 somes with other guys and also play seperately, with one another's knowledge and consent - do we fit into the swinging category or are we just over-sexed freaks?
x

oo can I play with the 10% pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeese
lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:

16 Apr 2009

a swinger to me is someone who loves sex and can define sex from love and enjoy both without conflict
a swinger is someone who is open to new experiences and who can put their trust in others and be trusted
most of all a swinger is someone who can see past the outside of a person and see what they have to offer
they can be a swinger in a group of 3 or 4 or 30 as long as they enjoy it and join in

17 Apr 2009

Quote by sexy1
a swinger to me is someone who loves sex and can define sex from love and enjoy both without conflict
a swinger is someone who is open to new experiences and who can put their trust in others and be trusted
most of all a swinger is someone who can see past the outside of a person and see what they have to offer
they can be a swinger in a group of 3 or 4 or 30 as long as they enjoy it and join in

:thumbup: I like that!

21 Apr 2009

Quote by sexoholics
What is a swinger?
A member of a swinging group, whether it be a swinging club, a swinging website or any other group where people are open-minded and share an interest in recreational sex.
Its a state of mind really, just like someone who joins eBay could be described as an eBayer
Having said all that, what is swinging?
This isnï¿½t as easy to answer, to us two singles swinging is casual sex, although they can still be a swinger if that makes sense? If we met another couple then we would call that swinging, however if we met a single, we would call that a threesome, not sure if singles see it different, but we see the act of swinging itself to involve 4 people or a group, anything less is a threesome or casual sex.
The bottom line is that we see, What is a swinger and What is swinging as 2 different thing, where being a swinger is a lifestyle, whereas swinging is the act.
Itï¿½s like everything else though, we all see things differently and just have to respect how others see things, but if everyoneï¿½s having fun who the hell cares?
Lets all facilitate instead :lol: :lol:

Iv been a single swinger in the past and now as a Cpl and I think what you said was well said.