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Since I put on my profile that I like it when I am made to gush I have had 4 men successfully do this to me. I don't know what it is about it, but I do love it. However... what is it? What makes it happen and how often can it happen? My sofa was swimming yesterday, I'm surpised I didn't faint with dehydration!!!!
Why is it some men can do it so easily and others can't? What is the secret?
I wish I knew the secret. I love it when it happens but wish it were more often!
Good question, its not something that happens offen for me and i have no idea why some guys can do it and other can't, i have to admit tho i have though where the hell does all that fluid come from its not like you store fluid in your womb...or do you? lol
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Good question, its not something that happens offen for me and i have no idea why some guys can do it and other can't, i have to admit tho i have though where the hell does all that fluid come from its not like you store fluid in your womb...or do you? lol

omg, maybe it is amniotic fluid! I wonder if it is safe to do when you are pregnant?
Am i being thick or uneducated here?
I thought it was a bit of pee that came out when all the muscles were relaxing / contracting during orgasm?
enlighten me please
happy to help any girls experiment lol
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Am i being thick or uneducated here?
I thought it was a bit of pee that came out when all the muscles were relaxing / contracting during orgasm?
enlighten me please
happy to help any girls experiment lol

Noooooo it's definitely not pee, least mine isn't as it comes out clear and it doesn't feel like pee.
venus,
this link here will take you to a really useful thread that is quite interesting to read.
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Good question, its not something that happens offen for me and i have no idea why some guys can do it and other can't, i have to admit tho i have though where the hell does all that fluid come from its not like you store fluid in your womb...or do you? lol

omg, maybe it is amniotic fluid! I wonder if it is safe to do when you are pregnant?
Hope it is safe when you are pregnnt as we had a good evening sunday culminating in a gushing experience. confused:
I do gush/squirt now and again normally when very relaxed,horny and after a least having 1 or 2 orgasms
to get me started,mostly it happens during finger and tongue play whilst my G spot is being massaged,but also now and again whilst i am on top and it hitting the right place repeatedly for a certain period of time. Definately think there is also a mental link to it happening ie letting go/being relaxed/very horny/right place or time etc
Hope this helps Sara
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Am i being thick or uneducated here?
I thought it was a bit of pee that came out when all the muscles were relaxing / contracting during orgasm?
enlighten me please
happy to help any girls experiment lol

Noooooo it's definitely not pee, least mine isn't as it comes out clear and it doesn't feel like pee.
It's not amniotic fuid either :thumbup:
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Am i being thick or uneducated here?
I thought it was a bit of pee that came out when all the muscles were relaxing / contracting during orgasm?
enlighten me please
happy to help any girls experiment lol

Noooooo it's definitely not pee, least mine isn't as it comes out clear and it doesn't feel like pee.
It's not amniotic fuid either :thumbup:
detention for you missus!! smackbottom :giggle:
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It's not amniotic fuid either :thumbup:

detention for you missus!! smackbottom :giggle:
Ooooo bugger :shock: lol
Hmmmm, that's why I got a rotflmao PM then is it? :doh:
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It's not amniotic fuid either :thumbup:

detention for you missus!! smackbottom :giggle:
Ooooo bugger :shock: lol
Hmmmm, that's why I got a rotflmao PM then is it? :doh:
Could be!! :rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
Bloody laptop, it is! The monitor on my PC decided not to work today so I'm on MrFB's laptop whilst he's at work. Hate the damned thing confused
That's my excuse anyway lol
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Bloody laptop, it is! The monitor on my PC decided not to work today so I'm on MrFB's laptop whilst he's at work. Hate the damned thing confused
That's my excuse anyway lol

Excuses excuses!! :jagsatwork: :grin:
No idea what it really is or why its there :confused: but damn it feels good when it happens
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Am i being thick or uneducated here?
I thought it was a bit of pee that came out when all the muscles were relaxing / contracting during orgasm?
enlighten me please
happy to help any girls experiment lol

Noooooo it's definitely not pee, least mine isn't as it comes out clear and it doesn't feel like pee.
It's not amniotic fuid either :thumbup:
Ooh 'ell that's gotta be embarrassing :P rolleyes :twisted:
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venus,
this link here will take you to a really useful thread that is quite interesting to read.
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Just took a look at the link and it didn't tell me anything sad
I know what it feels like, I've had it done to me lots of times over the last 2 years when it first happened to me, but I want to know what it is that is happening to me? Why it happens? How it happens?
I guess it happens by rubbing the g-spot up and down vigorously, as that seems to be what is happening when it happens to me, I'm not sure about the 'relaxed' business though as I just couldn't stop it when it was done properly, but for me it is like an instant release of pent up pressure and just makes me feel a lot lighter and chilled.
We're not talking Oscar acceptance speaches here are we?
Im no expert in gushing, but am in the female reproductive system thanks to my job...having watched a video posted on here the other day which is very close up of this happening to a woman, it is the urethra that this fluid comes out of...which would tell me its pee. No idea for sure as never happened to me :cry: lol, but thats defo where it came from in this instance, not the vagina.
Obviously a good orgasm renders you uncontrollable and fully relaxed wink ...the urethra and bladder are both made up of smooth muscle layers, which would also relax with the orgasm. The urethra also has an sphincter muscle between it and the bladder, which is usually under voluntary control...however, with an orgasm this sphincter muscle would contract and retract...hence squirting the pee out uncontrollably.
Just my thoughts anyway :idea:
KB x x x
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Am i being thick or uneducated here?
I thought it was a bit of pee that came out when all the muscles were relaxing / contracting during orgasm?
enlighten me please
happy to help any girls experiment lol
Try taking a look at the film, 'Warm Water Under The Red Bridge', it is a bit over the top, but...
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Im no expert in gushing, but am in the female reproductive system thanks to my job...having watched a video posted on here the other day which is very close up of this happening to a woman, it is the urethra that this fluid comes out of...which would tell me its pee. No idea for sure as never happened to me :cry: lol, but thats defo where it came from in this instance, not the vagina.
Obviously a good orgasm renders you uncontrollable and fully relaxed wink ...the urethra and bladder are both made up of smooth muscle layers, which would also relax with the orgasm. The urethra also has an sphincter muscle between it and the bladder, which is usually under voluntary control...however, with an orgasm this sphincter muscle would contract and retract...hence squirting the pee out uncontrollably.
Just my thoughts anyway :idea:
KB x x x

when i have gushed it does seem to come out of the vagina and is nothing like pee at all
Amniotic fluid is only present during pregnancy.
It's most likely from the Skenes gland- can't find the article I found last time, but this explains it pretty well:
TanKinky, can only say what I seen on that video, no experience myself (cries!) but I find a urethra at work at least once a day, so it defo came from there in that vid lol
That wikipedia link is good and it does say
"Current studies verify that female ejaculate is expelled through the urethra yet many continue to believe that the fluid leaves the body through the vagina".
But goes onto say its not pee and they still dont know wtf it is lol....
So basically...just enjoy :lol:
KB x x x
lol see if it was happening to a guy they would have carried out many tests to find out what it was.
In my case I'm pretty sure it is not pee and not coming from the uretha. I'm now going to investigate smile
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Why is it some men can do it so easily and others can't? What is the secret?

Is this a man thing then?
In my experience some women can and some can't.
And as far as I can see - urethra it is - but then I tend to get blinded 'round about then. wink
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I have found 2 articles so far.
This is the first one...
Some have said female ejaculation is actually urine; others that it is a fluid secreted by the female homologue to the male prostate; still others, that it is a combination of both. Before going any further, we should ask: does it matter?
Second one...
Some women inadvertently suppress the full pleasure and intensity of a G-spot orgasm due to a side effect of stimulating the urethral sponge. An irritation or feeling that you are going to urinate may cause you to shutdown your arousal when in fact you may be on the verge of a female ejaculation. Rather than bearing down to suppress it, try relaxing instead. For many women, some fluid may be released -- it is not urine. Rather than being embarrassed, embrace your ability to gush with pleasure.

This is the best article found yet and best describes my observations when it happened to me.
This is all relatively new information. It is only in recent years that women have been talking about ejaculation, and indeed it is from within the lesbian community, where sensitive fingers have probed and encouraged unbridled sexual release, that the 'secret' has been shared among women. Dr. Perry still lectures about the phenomenon, as does Beverly Whipple, and Dr. Gary Schubach has recently produced research that proves we are not 'peeing' on our partners, but releasing a clear, odorless, and colorless liquid saturated with the chemicals of arousal and strikingly similar in makeup to males' prostatic fluid. It has shared sources, in that some of it is released from the paraurethral glands, some from the bladder (in a chemically altered form of urine), and some from the Bartholin's and Skeene's glands that routinely produce vaginal lubrication. Doctors Schubach and Perry have each done independent research determining that the fluid is not urine, and there are still unsolved questions about just what it actually is. A hormone called aldosterone is produced when we are flushed with endorphins, as happens during sexual arousal. This hormone sets in motion a series of chemical changes in the body, one of which is a significant increase in fluid saturating the genital area, a sensation known as 'vasocongestion'. Simply put, some of us fill up and spill over (a tip of the hat to singer/songwriter Chris Williamson). And it feels divine!
The full article can be found at...
I must be one of the lucky ones (or not so lucky) I gush every time I orgasm and it can be quite embarrassing sometimes. I have to pre warn before I start getting down and dirty with someone just so they know to expect it!!
OMG I just love that picture up there, I adore retro porn.
Gushing....
I can remember the first lady I had the pleasure of meeting who gushed and it was amazing.
With my watersports experience I can confirm the two are quite seperate things.
Asto making it happening, a woman I once met told me I was the first man she had ever met who had made her gush on the first occasion of playing together cool
Regards
Harry Jones
In the old tantric texts there are references to the sacred spot (G-spot) and "female essence". As the G-spot is only two inches inside vagina I've thought that blokes with very small penises would be most able to stimulate the area during intercourse?
I also looked at a video somewhere on SH...the one I looked at showed what I thought WAS urine. I thought this because she kept stopping as if concentrating on letting herself pee!!!! If you have a gushing experience during or not during an orgasm, there is no controlling it in such a way as in the video!
It's only happened to me a couple of times, and like others, during G-spot not clitoral stimulation. It felt to me like a build up of juices inside my vagina, rather than coming out of my uretha. Like others, I can say that it is definitely not urine.
For me, it was not enormously better than a normal orgasm, just different....so all those of you trying to chill out, drink alcohol, relax, let go mentally....just enjoy what does happen!
Poor men...if we don't understand how our bodies function, how are they supposed to!! ;)