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Bluefish2009
Sex God
It was while reading the, kissing thread, that got me thinking about this again. There was a mention of looks not necessarily being what turns people on.
This has always been the case for me, often I can tell from a very long distance if I would find a woman sexually attractive, from just her silhouette outline it is often enough.
For instance if I saw this woman (below) from a long way off, I would know she is sexy. Her age, facial fetchers would be of much less importance for me.
It is because of this I often felt very different to my school mates who always fancied the obvious girls. I would often feel it best to keep my thoughts to myself.
I would be very interested to hear other peoples thoughts on this subject.
noladreams
Sex God
All sorts of things are sexy.
Really.
Hmmm... let's see: confidence is sexy, voices can be sexy, eyes that look like they've got more than a hint of naughtiness in them are sexy.
I find loads of different people sexy: Dominic West, Prince, Idris Elba, Sean Connery, Sebastian Chabal, Cameron Alborzian, Clarke Peters, the guy who plays Gavin's Dad in Gavin and Stacey (I've forgotten his name lol) and Chris Noth.
Google them. :rascal:
The point I'm trying to make is that they are all different and yet I find them all sexy.
Bluefish2009
Sex God
Quote by noladreams
All sorts of things are sexy.
Really.
Hmmm... let's see: confidence is sexy, voices can be sexy, eyes that look like they've got more than a hint of naughtiness in them are sexy.
I find loads of different people sexy: Dominic West, Prince, Idris Elba, Sean Connery, Sebastian Chabal, Cameron Alborzian, Clarke Peters, the guy who plays Gavin's Dad in Gavin and Stacey (I've forgotten his name lol) and Chris Noth.
Google them. :rascal:
The point I'm trying to make is that they are all different and yet I find them all sexy.

Yes, good points, thanks nola. I also love confidence, but equally shyness can be sexy.
I also like many different people, but seam to have a "type preference"
I have not explained well really what I mean, I cant seam to find the best or correct words. What do you notice first? Some men may say they are an ass man or a tit man... For me it seams to be shape that first catches my eye, everything else comes second.
noladreams
Sex God
Ah ok... eyes and hands. Then voice.
I'm a sucker for sexy eyes. I like eyes that look like they are looking right into my head and being amused by what they see there :rascal:
For example, and I need Bloke to chip in here, I was once out with Bloke at a site social up in the North East. We were introduced to a very very sexy guy and yet I don't think either of us would've necessarily said he was our 'type'. For me, it was when I was chatting to him and he had really naughty, twinkly, dirty eyes. They got me.
*swoons a little bit still*
wink
Big_Fraser
Orgasminator
Quote by noladreams
I need Bloke to chip in here, I was once out with Bloke at a site social up in the North East. We were introduced to a very very sexy guy and yet I don't think either of us would've necessarily said he was our 'type'. For me, it was when I was chatting to him and he had really naughty, twinkly, dirty eyes. They got me.

So if I keep my eyes bloodshot and unable to focus I might yet escape from blokes advances?? :lol2:
Still cant stop them going a bit :shock: when I look at your avatar though nola ;)
Sorry - I seem to be reducing every topic I enter at the moment into a chance to flirt with nola redface
I dont have a 'type' I find sexy, but I certainly dont find bleach blonde orange girls who think they are the dogs bollocks sexy.
Most girls have a lot to offer, a shag is a small part of that, I am often surprised at what rings my bell and long may this be the case :rascal:
But yes the example picture would catch my eye as a sexy shape, I think thats a natural, beautiful, sexy woman. some of the people put forward as sexy today would not draw my attention at all.
tweeky
Sex God
Jeez lots of things lol When I was young I always liked petite girls with black permed hair think that came from fancying Suzzanah Hoffs from the Bangles. I still like girls/ladies like this like Katie Melua for example :rascal: That seems to have been my natural type though I now find all sorts attractive but sticking within the smaller to medium body types, larger does not do it for me. Many things work! Ladies who are reserved quiet and never metion sex obviously love it and want it cus its the quiet ones you know! Ladies that twinkle their eye lids and put the boobs on display whilst being all hair strokeing and sexual :shock: they like it too ... apparently
I could go on but I wont :mrgreen:
Big_Fraser
Orgasminator
Quote by tweeky
When I was young I always liked petite girls with black permed hair think that came from fancying Suzzanah Hoffs from the Bangles.

Are you sure its not a kevin keegan / kenny daglish / maradonna thing :evil2:
tweeky
Sex God
Quote by Big_Fraser
When I was young I always liked petite girls with black permed hair think that came from fancying Suzzanah Hoffs from the Bangles.

Are you sure its not a kevin keegan / kenny daglish / maradonna thing :evil2:
Kevin Keegan: Never heard of anyone taking it up the blue star?
Kenny Dalglish: Ass to big
Maradonna: Sorry, dont like cheaters :twisted:
:lol2:
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by Big_Fraser
So if I keep my eyes bloodshot and unable to focus I might yet escape from blokes advances?? :lol2:

Oh hell, I don't know what it was about him that Bloke found sexy... but go ahead with your bloodshot eyes & you'll escape my advances anyway! rotflmao
wink
Unknown User
Someone can term me on or off in a word.
For example:
"Do you want to be daddy's little girl?" = Turn-off, said to me by handsome American businessman at the T4 Hilton, Heathrow some years back. Wrong on so many levels.
"When I'm done with you you won't know whether to beg me to stop or carry on" = Turn-on, said to me by sexy, semi-ugly stranger on several occasions. Now stolen and used myself ;)
Sexy is not knowing it - that's the best 'sexy' in my opinion :thumbup:
pebble
Casanova
Quote by bIoke
"When I'm done with you you won't know whether to beg me to stop or carry on"

But did they actually (manage to) do as they threatened/promised?
I hate the term "sexy". Is meant to be a quality in itself, so some people are sexy and others are not? Or does sexy just mean anything that we find arousing (occasionally beer bellies, in my case)? Or is it about being in heat, is sexy horny?
An aside, unless you have a particularly dirty mind, context plays a massive part in what we find sexy.
Unknown User
Quote by pebble
"When I'm done with you you won't know whether to beg me to stop or carry on"

But did they actually (manage to) do as they threatened/promised?
Oh yes, and several times ;) I don't see them often but look forward to our meets when they happen.
It's a great question you ask, as for me, NOT sexy is when somebody over promises and under delivers. They may have well not said it in the first place and I'd still be happy but if someone makes a commitment to something, I expect them to follow through.
lilnfil
Orgasminator
I just love blondes in lingerie...

oh yes baby :wanker:
Unknown User
The way she wears it - not what it is. Cleanliness, subtle fragrance, and a sense of humour. Humour is soooo sexy.
tweeky
Sex God
Quote by BaxterUK
The way she wears it - not what it is. Cleanliness, subtle fragrance, and a sense of humour. Humour is soooo sexy.

You just love it when they laugh as you take your pants down lol
Unknown User
Quote by tweeky
The way she wears it - not what it is. Cleanliness, subtle fragrance, and a sense of humour. Humour is soooo sexy.

You just love it when they laugh as you take your pants down lol
LOL: Very funny. Perhaps "and you want to put that where?" or the "You should've gone to specsavers"...
pebble
Casanova
Quote by lilnfil
I just love blondes in lingerie...

oh yes baby :wanker:

Sorry but shoes that don't fit is a right turn-off! :P
Unknown User
before swinging I always had a 'type' that did it for me (as in made me go sillyhwoar: when i saw them on tv/in the street) bald, tattoos, maybe a bit of 5'oclock shadow, hint of bad boy about him (think vin diesel or jason statham), but in real life, sexy is a sense of humour, chilled, easy going personality and confidence, no matter what they look like.
Staggerlee_BB
Sex God
Quote by tweeky
The way she wears it - not what it is. Cleanliness, subtle fragrance, and a sense of humour. Humour is soooo sexy.

You just love it when they laugh as you take your pants down lol
It is I assure you a lot better than hearing "ahhh bless"
GnV
Sex God
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
The way she wears it - not what it is. Cleanliness, subtle fragrance, and a sense of humour. Humour is soooo sexy.

You just love it when they laugh as you take your pants down lol
It is I assure you a lot better than hearing "ahhh bless"
:laughabove: redface :shock: