I was just thinking about what my favourite aspect of swinging is.
I love the fucking.. obviously. There are lots of downsides in that I sometimes let my 'cock' think for me and end up having sex with people when I am not 100% into them. (however transient that 100% is)
My favourite part is the 'getting to know you' bit. I generally pursue people.. watch how they interact with others in here or in the chatroom. Flirt by PM,on MSN or in the chatroom. Then I tell them I would like to meet them and see what happens.
One of my more successful meets was with someone who I saw flirt outrageously but politely with loads of people. I liked their banter and then flirted with them on MSN off and on for months and months. Exchanging some fairly rude messages whilst we were both at work. (generally on a friday) I wasn't expecting this meet to be as lovely as it was. So I loved how surprised I was.
I do like to get the initial kiss out of the way as I think once that is done then both or all parties can relax and get into the activities more quickly. This was learnt when I spent most of the night talking to someone that I wanted to have sex with and by the time we got around to it.. we were probably too tired to enjoy it to it's limit. (although it was still wonderful)
I love the first kiss. It really does set the scene for the rest of the time.
So, my point what are your favourite bits ??
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What is your favourite..........
Sexpert
Bit of a no brainer this one for me and, dare i say it, most other men who have bi-sexual wives/girlfriends.....
My fave bit is getting to see my wife with another woman
My fave bit is getting to see my wife with another woman
Sex God
My favourite bit is seeng my husband with another woman 
and then my next favourite bit is me making another woman cum which I love to do
and then my next favourite bit is me making another woman cum which I love to do
Sex God
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My favourite bit is seeng my husband with another woman
and then my next favourite bit is me making another woman cum which I love to do
OOOOOO pick me! Pick me! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Sassy control yourself. I've only known you a couple of years....these things take time :giggle:
I like the nervous anticipation / excitement you get before a meet and the personal preparation building up to a meet:
Shave face - same day
Shave cock & balls 3 days before (leaving healing time :-) )
Toe nails - same day
Finger nails - same day
Check nasal hair - same day
Check and squeeze any rogue blackheads - 2 days before (healing time)
Shower - no more than 4 hours before (If after that wash cock in the sink before leaving, just in case
)
Best socks and boxers.
Clean teeth and use mouth wash.
Good dose of my best aftershave.
Clean teeth and use mouth wash again.
I'm primed and ready
Shave face - same day
Shave cock & balls 3 days before (leaving healing time :-) )
Toe nails - same day
Finger nails - same day
Check nasal hair - same day
Check and squeeze any rogue blackheads - 2 days before (healing time)
Shower - no more than 4 hours before (If after that wash cock in the sink before leaving, just in case
) Best socks and boxers.
Clean teeth and use mouth wash.
Good dose of my best aftershave.
Clean teeth and use mouth wash again.
I'm primed and ready
Mod
I like the endless banter, the smutty talk via msn and text, then hour long phone calls the long drive and lastly the Steak Dinner then the long drive home again 
But would do it all again :wink:
But would do it all again :wink:
Quote by firelizard
My favourite bit is seeng my husband with another woman
and then my next favourite bit is me making another woman cum which I love to do
OOOOOO pick me! Pick me! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Sassy control yourself. I've only known you a couple of years....these things take time :giggle:
oh my word... don't bother sassy.. I have heard she is crap !
Quote by plumfabio
I like the nervous anticipation / excitement you get before a meet and the personal preparation building up to a meet:
Shave cock & balls 3 days before (leaving healing time :-) )
Check and squeeze any rogue blackheads - 2 days before (healing time)
Good dose of my best aftershave.
I'm primed and ready
sorry plum.. I have taken out loads..
'healing time' now why didn't I ever think of that ?
you are much more prepared that I am .
Altho' before you get here could you please skip the aftershave bit? It makes me come out in a rash.
I do like the preparation. But for me it is more mental and emotional than physical. I am kinda the same whenever you may 'catch' me physically. Emotionally I have to be 'in the zone'
Sex God
I've resurrected a thread (as folk know I am fond of doing! 
)
Aaaanyway, I have a meet tomorrow and it is with someone I have never met before. We've been flirting outrageously via text and msn/email for a month or so and finally this weekend the diaries are clear.
What am I looking forward to?
The first kiss definitely :thumbup: I love love love that first exploratory kiss which gets incredibly passionately very quickly... I love getting to know how someone kisses.
Yay!
So, to the floor: I'll reiterate the OP - what's your favourite bit about this whole swinging malarkey?
)Aaaanyway, I have a meet tomorrow and it is with someone I have never met before. We've been flirting outrageously via text and msn/email for a month or so and finally this weekend the diaries are clear.
What am I looking forward to?
The first kiss definitely :thumbup: I love love love that first exploratory kiss which gets incredibly passionately very quickly... I love getting to know how someone kisses.
Yay!
So, to the floor: I'll reiterate the OP - what's your favourite bit about this whole swinging malarkey?
Sex God
To be really frank in the way in which we swing my favourite thing is too watch Mrs Lost eye up the fem - I've not discussed this with her but i see a difference in her way of moving talking and she really does study them hard.
This may happen with J and other men too but i possibly miss that being male. I just notice how she is when it comes to other women and its really quite facinating.
This may happen with J and other men too but i possibly miss that being male. I just notice how she is when it comes to other women and its really quite facinating.
Sex God
Gosh yes, I do like all the friendship and social side of stuff too - and the openness.
I suppose I was more thinking about what I liked about swinging meets rather than the scene as a whole.
I love the fact that I get a chance to constantly do stuff I perhaps had only fantasised about, or maybe not even considered. I like pushing my own boundaries and swinging gives me a chance to do that.
I suppose I was more thinking about what I liked about swinging meets rather than the scene as a whole.
I love the fact that I get a chance to constantly do stuff I perhaps had only fantasised about, or maybe not even considered. I like pushing my own boundaries and swinging gives me a chance to do that.
Sex God
for me is when we are on a big social neet oot ,and watching the mrs do her rounds chatting to ppl then also watching her flirt with other fems her body language on the dance floor knowing which fem she fancys then watch her go in for the killkiss at a big social we done few months ago i watched her flirt dance with a str8 fem that ended with a sexy smooch then snog now that was horny :lol:
at a big social we done few months ago i watched her flirt dance with a str8 fem that ended with a sexy smooch then snog now that was horny :lol: Sex God
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for me is when we are on a big social neet oot ,and watching the mrs do her rounds chatting to ppl then also watching her flirt with other fems her body language on the dance floor knowing which fem she fancys then watch her go in for the killkiss
Im so with you on this :thumbup:
And to add to this i'd say i've witnessed a lot of shall we say Gyneacology and overall by far the horniest site is still My Mrs snogging the face off someone elses
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Forgetting about the sex, I do like sex.
It is the simple fact I can be open.
Sex? :confused2: Wossthathen? I fink I've forgotten
let me help you with that. :twisted:
Not content with Vanilla V's Predator, Splendid moved on. Coming soon to a cinema near you...
Predator V's Sugar Puff Daddy.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I will stick to a bowl of Shaun & a quick Puff fondle in the long grass thank you...ops:
Her name is Baaaaahbra! Didn't realise you were that way inclined!
Jus' coz it aint on me profile it don't mean I don't like to dilly dally on the way... :oops:
