We joined this site to find a couple of guys that we could have an mmf fun with.
I knew from the start what I was looking for. It was a guy/guys that we could build up respect, trust and a friendship with, someone we would feel totally relaxed to meet to enjoy not just a shag with but who I could really enjoy all aspects of pleasurable sex with.
Someone that would become a regular and get out of this lifestyle the same as what we wanted too.
We were not looking for that one off quick meet, I like to take my time build up a friendship and then meet, when I feel totally that this is the person I would like to have sex with. I haven’t been disappointed it has worked for us.
We all do and handle this lifestyle differently and all have different views on certain subjects, that is why it is all so intriguing
Do you like the regulars that come back?
Do you like us feel that second etc meets with the same person just get better?
Do you just like that one off meet?
Do you say, knowing them isn’t important it is just a shag that you want?
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What kind of meets do you prefer?
Orgasminator
Although I'm happy with one-off's I find that repeat meets are so much better. You can't discover all there is to know on a first meet so subsequent liasons can avoid things you know don't appeal to your temporary partner and you can explore areas which do appeal, but for which you hadn't the confidence to try the first time. It just gets better.
In swinging as in life in general you can go for the sex while not really feeling anything else much past model that minx presented in her opening post sounds wonderful to me personally, I think knowing someone in that way enriches the sexual side of it, just as there are other ways to be that can be very rewarding for all concerned.
To me it depends how/where i meet, if its at a club chatting/building up a friendship isn't really a option, people (including me) go to clubs for sex not to chat for 4 weeks before going to a room lol so in that situation i'm happy to just chat for a small while to someone i feel attracted to then play, sometime i don't even chat at all 
if i see them again another time i go them chatting to me or wanting to have sex with me again isn't really expected, altho i go to clubs as a single female so most men do lol
If i'm looking to meet off here then i like social meets first, if i'm going to be honest i think thats because i don't want to commit myself to sex with someone i havn't see in the flesh, when your at a club you can see them and know what they look like on here you can't, pics may not be of them or old and even if you see them on cam sometimes people look diffarent in real life, i don't mind one off meets, i only meet single men and in my experiance they not really looking for anything regular, i'd say about 99% of the guys i've met off here havn't been interested in meeting me again, i would have no problem with re meets tho i can't honestly say i'd want anything to regular with the same person.
if i see them again another time i go them chatting to me or wanting to have sex with me again isn't really expected, altho i go to clubs as a single female so most men do lolIf i'm looking to meet off here then i like social meets first, if i'm going to be honest i think thats because i don't want to commit myself to sex with someone i havn't see in the flesh, when your at a club you can see them and know what they look like on here you can't, pics may not be of them or old and even if you see them on cam sometimes people look diffarent in real life, i don't mind one off meets, i only meet single men and in my experiance they not really looking for anything regular, i'd say about 99% of the guys i've met off here havn't been interested in meeting me again, i would have no problem with re meets tho i can't honestly say i'd want anything to regular with the same person.
If someone doesn't know me well enough to get inside my head- they're likely to leave me cold in the bedroom department.
Oddly enough, we had a similar conversation this morning, and the way I summarised my feelings was to say that I had no desire to share my body with someone who wouldn't care if I lived or died.
Don't get me wrong- if you enjoy anonymous sex thats fantastic, and a damn sight easier logistically.
I've just had waaaaaay too much sex thats left me feeling "empty" (and I don't mean physically) afterwards.
Oddly enough, we had a similar conversation this morning, and the way I summarised my feelings was to say that I had no desire to share my body with someone who wouldn't care if I lived or died.
Don't get me wrong- if you enjoy anonymous sex thats fantastic, and a damn sight easier logistically.
I've just had waaaaaay too much sex thats left me feeling "empty" (and I don't mean physically) afterwards.
For us we prefer to have one off meets usually. the reason is because we like the eroticness of it all the excitement that comes with meeting new people.
We have met a couple of couples more than once and that was due to getting along on a personal level!!
Over familiarity though could possibly lead to all sorts of problems!!
We have met a couple of couples more than once and that was due to getting along on a personal level!!
Over familiarity though could possibly lead to all sorts of problems!!
Sex God
depends on my mood at the time
am with wenchy though, all meets have to basically be humane and care about what happens in the meet and care about pleasing me - that comes from way to much empty sex
Sometimes im just insatiable
am with wenchy though, all meets have to basically be humane and care about what happens in the meet and care about pleasing me - that comes from way to much empty sex
Sometimes im just insatiable
Sex God
Any will do! :cry:
Sex God
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Do you like the regulars that come back?
Sometimes
Do you like us feel that second etc meets with the same person just get better?
Not always :shock:
Do you just like that one off meet?
Mostly :wink:
Do you say, knowing them isn’t important it is just a shag that you want?
Does that make me a bad person???? :twisted: Sometimes, the relative anonymity makes it have an extra frisson....
Sex God
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Quote by Theladyisaminx
We joined this site to find a couple of guys that we could have an mmf fun with.
I knew from the start what I was looking for. It was a guy/guys that we could build up respect, trust and a friendship with, someone we would feel totally relaxed to meet to enjoy not just a shag with but who I could really enjoy all aspects of pleasurable sex with.
Someone that would become a regular and get out of this lifestyle the same as what we wanted too.
We were not looking for that one off quick meet, I like to take my time build up a friendship and then meet, when I feel totally that this is the person I would like to have sex with. I haven’t been disappointed it has worked for us.
We all do and handle this lifestyle differently and all have different views on certain subjects, that is why it is all so intriguing
Do you like the regulars that come back?
Do you like us feel that second etc meets with the same person just get better?
Do you just like that one off meet?
Do you say, knowing them isn’t important it is just a shag that you want?
We have done both. We have met people just the once and some a lot of times.
We have met one guy 4 times and two couples more than twice. We tend to go in stages of who we are looking for. At the moment we tend to meet guys. Meeting people the first time does have the edge on naughtiness, but meeting people the second and third times, tends to get rid of any nerves.
We used to go to clubs but we now prefere more casual meets. Clubs served their purpose at the time, which was just the sex but now we tend to go for the social thing as well. We met someone last night that we have met a few times now, it is relaxed we have a laugh, and the sex is very good...says mrs777.
We tend to be very fussy who we meet, and if it is just a guy then mrs777 has to not only like the guy on a physical level, but also to like his personality. We have had some great one off meets, and some great repeat meets but....if honest the second and third meets are better, and we do not now meet " just for a shag ".
Sex God
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Over familiarity though could possibly lead to all sorts of problems!!
Agreed!! All too easy to lose track of what you started of wanting and fall into something else. :shock:
:shock: Totally. Very easily done.
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Over familiarity though could possibly lead to all sorts of problems!!
Agreed!! All too easy to lose track of what you started of wanting and fall into something else. :shock:
:shock: Totally. Very easily done.
I agree you have to know what you are looking for before you start this life style, and be totally 150% happy in your relationship for it to work.
We have met a couple of guys a few times now, i don't see them any different from the first meet, just enjoy good times with them.
We all talk openly about what we all want from doing this, and we are lucky we all come to the same view point.
Sex God
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I agree you have to know what you are looking for before you start this life style
You do?? what if its a very long list???
Sex God
We prefer good meets to bad ones
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I agree you have to know what you are looking for before you start this life style
I strongly disagree with this comment.
I will put money on many people looking for one thing, and finding so much more, trying and experimenting with things that they had no idea about, let alone had tried.
I came into this scene because I like looking and perving over personal ads, typed personal ads into google, and among the listings, was this site, at that point, I had never considered swinging, but still had a look anyway.
As a result of that, I have had so many fantastic experiences, both on a social and especially a sexual level, I have had my boundaries well and truly pushed, and there is more to come, all things that I wasn't looking for, so no, I don't think you have to know what you are looking for.
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I agree you have to know what you are looking for before you start this life style
I strongly disagree with this comment.
I will put money on many people looking for one thing, and finding so much more, trying and experimenting with things that they had no idea about, let alone had tried.
I came into this scene because I like looking and perving over personal ads, typed personal ads into google, and among the listings, was this site, at that point, I had never considered swinging, but still had a look anyway.
As a result of that, I have had so many fantastic experiences, both on a social and especially a sexual level, I have had my boundaries well and truly pushed, and there is more to come, all things that I wasn't looking for, so no, I don't think you have to know what you are looking for.
I agree with you here!
I was thinking when i wrote that comment, more to do with making sure your relationship was solid to accept this life sytle and to make sure guys that you met realised this fact to.
So that deeper feelings don't surface and being aware that they could be the thoughts of some men.
As I believe many a relationship has encounted these types of problems.
