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Theladyisaminx
Sex God
I was wondering what makes a good thread?
As you might see from some of my threads I seem to like to raise thought provoking issues. This is because I love to see different people perspectives on different issues, I like people they fascinate me.
I also like threads with humour content I often sit here giggling on what people have written. I like the fact you can sit and read and often pick up a character of a person this is strange as you might not have met or even spoke to that person but have a little idea of their characters. lol
The sexual ones have taught me things too! Not that I am naïve but some have been an eye opener. :rascal:
So get very heated but it is great normally things seem to most of the time have a happy ending after a good old battle.
I enjoy the formus! :thumbup:
So what threads do you like?
What do you get out of reading, what others have to say?
Are are you a reader but never post? :lol:
tmann
Sex God
A good thread is one that does not produce 30 post all saying I agree, I agree.
or one that is just a load of fun, funny, or just mad!
Lost
Sex God
Politeness helps.
Realising that though its a forum on a sex site its great to be able to have discussions on most topics
Being non-exclusive is a good thing though very difficult to achieve by some.
Oh did i mention being nice forgiving patient. thats always good.
Lots of things I guess.
Realising that what one person might find of no interest, another does.
What you might know another might not, so don't get angry if you think its simple or not worthwhile.
Lots of other stuff
It really is nice to be nice.
Jags
Sex God
Without my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Ones which are designed merely to provoke or offend. There have been too many recently (IMO) which are polarising the Cafe regulars and showing a great deal of intolerance for the views and opinions of others. Oh, and then there are the ones which almost 'demand' our attention cos the content is 'important' and prove to be nothing of the kind. Oh, and the ones which have a title of something along the lines of 'I need help' or 'help me' and turn out to be a very thinly disguised 'fancy a shag' thread.
Good threads: Ones which are enquiring, sharing or inclusive. Where the tone is not at all threatening or radical. Sometimes light hearted ones work well and sometimes more heavy topics pan out really well. Just depends I suppose!
With my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Abusive, nasty, personal attacks on those who post, the 'I agree' type, those which turn into 'love shacks'/two or three people having a conversation and exclude everyone else. Some hijackings come into this as well.
Good threads: None of the above!
tmann
Sex God
Quote by Jags
Without my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Ones which are designed merely to provoke or offend. There have been too many recently (IMO) which are polarising the Cafe regulars and showing a great deal of intolerance for the views and opinions of others. Oh, and then there are the ones which almost 'demand' our attention cos the content is 'important' and prove to be nothing of the kind. Oh, and the ones which have a title of something along the lines of 'I need help' or 'help me' and turn out to be a very thinly disguised 'fancy a shag' thread.
Good threads: Ones which are enquiring, sharing or inclusive. Where the tone is not at all threatening or radical. Sometimes light hearted ones work well and sometimes more heavy topics pan out really well. Just depends I suppose!
With my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Abusive, nasty, personal attacks on those who post, the 'I agree' type, those which turn into 'love shacks'/two or three people having a conversation and exclude everyone else. Some hijackings come into this as well.
Good threads: None of the above!
redface ,but it was not personal, I just loose intrest.
Theladyisaminx
Sex God
Quote by Jags
Without my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Ones which are designed merely to provoke or offend. There have been too many recently (IMO) which are polarising the Cafe regulars and showing a great deal of intolerance for the views and opinions of others. Oh, and then there are the ones which almost 'demand' our attention cos the content is 'important' and prove to be nothing of the kind. Oh, and the ones which have a title of something along the lines of 'I need help' or 'help me' and turn out to be a very thinly disguised 'fancy a shag' thread.
Good threads: Ones which are enquiring, sharing or inclusive. Where the tone is not at all threatening or radical. Sometimes light hearted ones work well and sometimes more heavy topics pan out really well. Just depends I suppose!
With my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Abusive, nasty, personal attacks on those who post, the 'I agree' type, those which turn into 'love shacks'/two or three people having a conversation and exclude everyone else. Some hijackings come into this as well.
Good threads: None of the above!

Jags
confused I am confused now!
Doesnt take a lot! lol
Theladyisaminx
Sex God
Quote by flower411
Without my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Ones which are designed merely to provoke or offend. There have been too many recently (IMO) which are polarising the Cafe regulars and showing a great deal of intolerance for the views and opinions of others. Oh, and then there are the ones which almost 'demand' our attention cos the content is 'important' and prove to be nothing of the kind. Oh, and the ones which have a title of something along the lines of 'I need help' or 'help me' and turn out to be a very thinly disguised 'fancy a shag' thread.
Good threads: Ones which are enquiring, sharing or inclusive. Where the tone is not at all threatening or radical. Sometimes light hearted ones work well and sometimes more heavy topics pan out really well. Just depends I suppose!
With my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Abusive, nasty, personal attacks on those who post, the 'I agree' type, those which turn into 'love shacks'/two or three people having a conversation and exclude everyone else. Some hijackings come into this as well.
Good threads: None of the above!

Jags
confused I am confused now!
Doesnt take a lot! lol
Look at them as two different posts minx !!! rolleyes One with mod hat on and one with mod hat off !!
"none of the above" is not refering to the whole post !! wink
:thumbup: thanks flower you always sort me out! :lol:
Jags
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Without my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Ones which are designed merely to provoke or offend. There have been too many recently (IMO) which are polarising the Cafe regulars and showing a great deal of intolerance for the views and opinions of others. Oh, and then there are the ones which almost 'demand' our attention cos the content is 'important' and prove to be nothing of the kind. Oh, and the ones which have a title of something along the lines of 'I need help' or 'help me' and turn out to be a very thinly disguised 'fancy a shag' thread.
Good threads: Ones which are enquiring, sharing or inclusive. Where the tone is not at all threatening or radical. Sometimes light hearted ones work well and sometimes more heavy topics pan out really well. Just depends I suppose!
With my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Abusive, nasty, personal attacks on those who post, the 'I agree' type, those which turn into 'love shacks'/two or three people having a conversation and exclude everyone else. Some hijackings come into this as well.
Good threads: None of the above!

Jags
confused I am confused now!
Doesnt take a lot! lol
I'm going to take you to a round room and then tell you to stand in the corner!!
:haha:
Theladyisaminx
Sex God
Quote by Jags
Without my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Ones which are designed merely to provoke or offend. There have been too many recently (IMO) which are polarising the Cafe regulars and showing a great deal of intolerance for the views and opinions of others. Oh, and then there are the ones which almost 'demand' our attention cos the content is 'important' and prove to be nothing of the kind. Oh, and the ones which have a title of something along the lines of 'I need help' or 'help me' and turn out to be a very thinly disguised 'fancy a shag' thread.
Good threads: Ones which are enquiring, sharing or inclusive. Where the tone is not at all threatening or radical. Sometimes light hearted ones work well and sometimes more heavy topics pan out really well. Just depends I suppose!
With my Mod hat on:
Bad threads: Abusive, nasty, personal attacks on those who post, the 'I agree' type, those which turn into 'love shacks'/two or three people having a conversation and exclude everyone else. Some hijackings come into this as well.
Good threads: None of the above!

Jags
confused I am confused now!
Doesnt take a lot! lol
I'm going to take you to a round room and then tell you to stand in the corner!!
:haha:
ok ok! I am often running around in circles! rolleyes
You might see now why some in the chat rooms call me 0.5 watts or numpty!
I didnt see you putting your hat on! :doh:
Jags
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I didnt see you putting your hat on! :doh:

Taken it off again now... it's Friday!
cool 8-)
noladreams
Sex God
Depends on my mood I think.
Sometimes I am in the mood for 'debate' style threads but then sometimes they get me down.
I love naughty/smutty threads!
Oh and the random, pointless, odd, silly, funny ones!! They can really make me smile.
I must admit that I usually look at the name of the poster and sometimes that puts me off, as I think you tend to build up a picture of what 'type' of posts a person makes... but then I still read them, and am often surprised, so I give myself a little talking to for having preconceptions!
Nola xx
Unknown User
Dearest members,
Without being vain I would say that any thread done by myself is a good example of creating threads.
A blueprint if you like.
From,
Wunderhorse.
markz
Sex God
I like all threads................... rolleyes
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by Wunderhorse
Dearest members,
Without being vain I would say that any thread done by myself is a good example of creating threads.
A blueprint if you like.
From,
Wunderhorse.

:shock: That's very vain.
Unknown User
Flax
lp
Theladyisaminx
Sex God
Quote by Wunderhorse
Dearest members,
Without being vain I would say that any thread done by myself is a good example of creating threads.
A blueprint if you like.
From,
Wunderhorse.

Dearest Wunderhorse,
I value your opinion! :shock:
But doesn't mean I agree with it! wink
From,
Minx
niceandgentle
Sex God
.. lol.. seriously.. I like threads where someone asks about something and learns from others , or where the caring sharing aide of the community is to the fore, or where its just plain funny.I'm not so keen on gripes or bitching or 'blame' threads.
Unknown User
Quote by Wunderhorse
Dearest members,
Without being vain I would say that any thread done by myself is a good example of creating threads.
A blueprint if you like.
From,
Wunderhorse.

rotflmao Made me chuckle! :thumbup:
Theladyisaminx
Sex God
Quote by Cherrytree
Dearest members,
Without being vain I would say that any thread done by myself is a good example of creating threads.
A blueprint if you like.
From,
Wunderhorse.

rotflmao Made me chuckle! :thumbup:
Shhh it did me to but don't tell him! lol
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Guys, I think he was actually being serious :shock:

I think he was too! :shock:
Naughty_Wigan_Couple
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Guys, I think he was actually being serious :shock:

I think he was too! :shock:
And that is the worrying part about it rolleyes
Unknown User
Really? :shock:
Wunderhorse, please come back and tell us if you were being serious or not.
Theladyisaminx
Sex God
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Guys, I think he was actually being serious :shock:

I think he was too! :shock:
And that is the worrying part about it rolleyes
Well I tried to read his prevous post but couldn't get them up. So I thought keep an open mind until I know, upto wunderhorse now I guess! :roll:
Unknown User
oh yes...i SO reckon he was being serious....I've met him!
Unknown User
Quote by Bonedigger
oh yes...i SO reckon he was being serious....I've met him!

Dearest Bonedigger,
is the :!: part of the above quote a
good experience or bad experience when we met confused:
Please tell.
From,
Wunderhorse.
Lost
Sex God
At the start of your thread you had me interested in what you were saying and i thought the subject interesting to value what you said on it. However to be honest you have lost me now with your confusing arrogance is it honestly not just tongue in cheek?. I so want it to be. I'm not understand the demeanor of your posting now confused
Unknown User
Am just playing...am from Liverpool.
We like to have a giggle & silly times.
Relax don't do it...
Much love.
From,
Wunderhorse.