I never saw myself as a thread maker but A while ago I was very active in thread making within this forums. Now days I tend to do more posting than thread making,
The reason for my wanting to write threads was to see if I had an ability to be understood in the written form, to air my views and to see what the responses would be. This gave me the indication to know if people understood me within the written form as I had never communicated in that form before.
I spoke in the chat rooms but that was so very different from this forums, here you could ask more questions not always related to sex, but could ask those too, like the one that I asked about how to squirt and people here explained in such a way that they helped me get past the point where I was getting stuck.
I went through a hard time last year when my mum was diagnosed very suddenly with cancer, I raised difficult questions of which I am grateful for people that responded to help me understand the way I was feeling was normal. Other made me laugh when I felt like crying, they kept me thinking positive thoughts.
I like to raise the odd topic sometimes political debate as you get a feel of people and they can make you sway your way of thinking. I like to think, I like to question, I learn, listen and question more to people that disagree with my own opinions and that’s when we learn more,
Just lately I have become more of a poster, I am now just wandering about having fun but pop up from time to time with the odd thread.
I had to overcome my own insecurities to write a thread, my first I was so scared wondering what type of response I would get, how I would be perceived by others, would I be hounding out for saying the wrong thing it can make you become paranoid at times but I soon overcome this weird feeling it produced in me.
It was scary being new here and standing there taking things people were saying to me in the beginning, as some are very cutting with their remarks, some just try and rile things up, some you have disagreements with. But I am glad I stuck it out though thick and thin as sometimes I wanted to walk away and cancel my account, as sometimes it is hard to put your head above the parapet to be shot down, as some like to do. But generally you will find they do little in thread making but more in just posting.
I would like to see more people post threads, I am sure more would like to, so take the plunge stick with you convictions but don’t get personal with your responses and you will see like me you will survive here, without knowing or meeting anyone here I am still here writing, It doesn’t bother me if people don’t like what I have to say, I still have a right to say it as you do too.
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What makes a thread maker compared to a poster?
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What makes a thread maker compared to a poster?
NVQ3 in bs
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NVQ3 in bs
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Quote by Theladyisaminx
What makes a thread maker compared to a poster?
NVQ3 in bs
Am I stupid or did anyone else understand that? 
I did
National Vocational Qualificaton level 3 (equivalent to A levels) in Bull Shit.
Cos I am a sad person who works for a company that only communicates in TLA's - Three Letter Acronyms.
Quote by foxylady2209
What makes a thread maker compared to a poster?
NVQ3 in bs
Am I stupid or did anyone else understand that? I did
National Vocational Qualificaton level 3 (equivalent to A levels) in Bull Shit.
Cos I am a sad person who works for a company that only communicates in TLA's - Three Letter Acronyms.
Oi Lostie do I get my certificate now? I want an extra one presented for being a numpty too!
LOL......i think sometimes its hard to be a thread starter cos u get a mental block on what you think will be a good thread topic.
I have spells where i become a poster and post on the odd thread that catches my attention......and other spells where i start threads cos i hope i have thought of a good enough topic.
I think you put your thoughts across well minx and i always get what your threading about.....but i know what ya mean....you know what you want to say in your head....its just transferring those thoughts to the screen and having it all make sense thats the hard bit!
I have spells where i become a poster and post on the odd thread that catches my attention......and other spells where i start threads cos i hope i have thought of a good enough topic.
I think you put your thoughts across well minx and i always get what your threading about.....but i know what ya mean....you know what you want to say in your head....its just transferring those thoughts to the screen and having it all make sense thats the hard bit!
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I totally agree with you Mrs Bone, and i do need my portion of bonerisms just to keep me sane. Sometimes though the discussions minx & I have off forum we could never get away with in it : nothing bad just real spaced out stuff and the fact that no one else is still up either
When I said bs i was really referring to myself more than anything
: nothing bad just real spaced out stuff and the fact that no one else is still up either When I said bs i was really referring to myself more than anything
I think when I first started using the forums, I jumped in too soon with a thread of my own, and it was shot down in flames. That experience nearly put me off the forums for life, but having got over the shock of the reaction I received, I'm now an avid fan. I tend to post replies to threads rather than initiate new ones, simply through lack of imagination. I find that the threads I enjoy reading and contributing to the most are the wacky, off-the-wall posts that make me wonder 'where the author got that one from :shock: '. That said, I love the word games in the 'Just for fun' forum, and I hope my contributions there make up for my lack of wit and wisdom in here .
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