We have met a few people on this site and in clubs before and Nikki always wants me to be there when she plays. However, yesterday we met someone who she is prepared to meet alone, as she knows this turns me on.
Ironically, instead of getting really excited i am very nervous and have got butterflies. Should i let it go ahead or do you think i will regret it later.
Your thoughts would be much appreciated.
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Hi there and :welcome:
O.K, you say she is willing to meet (him?) alone, as she knows it turns you on. Ignoring your butterflies for a moment, if thats the reason she's doing it you're on a hiding to nothing.
If the scenario does nothing for her & she's just doing it for you, she's may well resent you afterwards. As far as your butterflies go- yup, you may well regret it. You have the best insight into that. If you do regret it though make damn sure you don't take it out on her.
Hope whatever you decide goes well.
XX Winchy.
O.K, you say she is willing to meet (him?) alone, as she knows it turns you on. Ignoring your butterflies for a moment, if thats the reason she's doing it you're on a hiding to nothing.
If the scenario does nothing for her & she's just doing it for you, she's may well resent you afterwards. As far as your butterflies go- yup, you may well regret it. You have the best insight into that. If you do regret it though make damn sure you don't take it out on her.
Hope whatever you decide goes well.
XX Winchy.
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Quote by winchwench
Hi there and :welcome:
O.K, you say she is willing to meet (him?) alone, as she knows it turns you on. Ignoring your butterflies for a moment, if thats the reason she's doing it you're on a hiding to nothing.
If the scenario does nothing for her & she's just doing it for you, she's may well resent you afterwards. As far as your butterflies go- yup, you may well regret it. You have the best insight into that. If you do regret it though make damn sure you don't take it out on her.
Hope whatever you decide goes well.
XX Winchy.
Only you can judge, but I agree with Winchy. Unless you know the people well and don't have any worries about her safety then I'd say yes let her do it.
However she should do it because she wants too, and not just because it turns you on. If you have any reservations you must be honest and tell her. Perhaps it's not something you really feel comfortable with.
Also I can't help but notice there is a bit of an age gap between the two of you. Do you think this is factor as well?
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Quote by mikeandnikki
We have met a few people on this site and in clubs before and Nikki always wants me to be there when she plays. However, yesterday we met someone who she is prepared to meet alone, as she knows this turns me on.
Ironically, instead of getting really excited i am very nervous and have got i let it go ahead or do you think i will regret it later.
Your thoughts would be much appreciated.
I think you already have reservations, or you wouldn't have asked. Can I ask why there's a poll? Are you planning to go with the majority decision? :shock:
If so, I think you need to sit down and talk to Nikki - we don't know you, her, or the person she's planning to meet.
Is the fact this turns you on not the "fantasy" you have and enjoy the thoughts together?
I'd think very carefully here, if it were me, I tend to follow my intuition.
On the other hand, it is very normal to suffer nerves before meets, but I don't know about suffering nerves for someone else's meet?
Please talk this through with Nikki a bit more, your relationship is by far the most important thing.
I'd think very carefully here, if it were me, I tend to follow my intuition.
On the other hand, it is very normal to suffer nerves before meets, but I don't know about suffering nerves for someone else's meet?
Please talk this through with Nikki a bit more, your relationship is by far the most important thing.
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Like the others have said you should do what you both are happy with.
What ever you sort out have fun and stay safe
xx
What ever you sort out have fun and stay safe
xx
Im afraid only you know the answer to this question, but the fact that you are asking for advice shows that you must be having quite big doubts. Please speak to your partner somemore and decide together where you go next because only you two can decide what goes on in your lives/sex lives.
Good luck with whatever you decide oh and :welcome: to the forums xxx
Good luck with whatever you decide oh and :welcome: to the forums xxx
