I have always been an exhibitionist, and love the idea of being naked where people can see me nude. As such I regularly attend venues such as Rios, perhaps unusually, to be seen as much as to look.
However, how do ladies like to see men?
Whenever I talk to female friends, the concensus seems to be that men look best (in terms of a beach or helath club setting) wearing long swimming shorts (like 1950's footballers!), that briefer swimming trunks are unattractive, that by wearing a thong you are opening yourself to ridicule and that naked men are a total turnoff!
Recognising that women attending such venues usually have the choice of the men who are there, I'm keen to stand out from the crowd for all the right reasons. So what makes a man look the best - nude, swimming trunks or a thong?
Regards,
Nick
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What Should I Wear?
I personally would prefer to see a man in that environment to be seen covering himself up a little.....but when I say little I dont mean thongs, they secream out,
LOOK AT ME...DONT I LOOK STUPID!!!!!
Dont mean to be horrible and I will prob get loads of people saying that I shouldnt think like that!!
I love naked people I think it is great, but in an atmosphere like that if I see a man on his own I feel threatened by him and would have far more respect for him if he did cover himself up more!!
This is just what I think and there will be plenty of women out there who will disagree with me, but whatever floats your boat eh??
Take Care
Lis
xxx
LOOK AT ME...DONT I LOOK STUPID!!!!!
Dont mean to be horrible and I will prob get loads of people saying that I shouldnt think like that!!
I love naked people I think it is great, but in an atmosphere like that if I see a man on his own I feel threatened by him and would have far more respect for him if he did cover himself up more!!
This is just what I think and there will be plenty of women out there who will disagree with me, but whatever floats your boat eh??
Take Care
Lis
xxx
Sex God
How do I like to see a man dressed?
OK.... something like this.... :shock:
Black seamed stockings, high heeled PVC boots, black silk panties, and a black PVC basque - that would suit me fine, but I'm not fussy, I like white too...
Well you did ask! 8)
OK.... something like this.... :shock:
Black seamed stockings, high heeled PVC boots, black silk panties, and a black PVC basque - that would suit me fine, but I'm not fussy, I like white too...
Well you did ask! 8)
Sex God
Oh yes, silly me, Kit and Kat are right - a stonking great hard on finishes the outfit perfectly :twisted:
Sex God
Ooohhh, just went to eat some Weetabix and who pops up in the cafe - it's Biker and his shiny hard helmet!!!!! Calm donw Kit, there's enough under that helmet for us all 
The funniest example I've seen of how NOT to dress at swingers events was at a party in Essex a couple of years back.
This guy showed up wearing an Elephant's head Willy Warmer - I kid you not! The sort with little white felt tusks.
He walked straight out of the changing room and into the play area, stood in the classic pose of hands on hips, pumped out his chest and started to 'move the trunk up and down' with a satsified grin as the stunned audience watched. The whole room went dead quiet for 30 seconds and then erupted in hysterics of laughter.... I understand the gentleman hasn't been back.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
This guy showed up wearing an Elephant's head Willy Warmer - I kid you not! The sort with little white felt tusks.
He walked straight out of the changing room and into the play area, stood in the classic pose of hands on hips, pumped out his chest and started to 'move the trunk up and down' with a satsified grin as the stunned audience watched. The whole room went dead quiet for 30 seconds and then erupted in hysterics of laughter.... I understand the gentleman hasn't been back.
:lol: :lol: :lol: Sex God
Maybe the fella in question was trying to be ironic? :twisted:
So what makes a man look the best - nude, swimming trunks or a thong?
It is a good question though. May be you girls could leave some tips in the advice for single guys thread.
KitKat...I'll send you a pic if you like
And as for you, you bad dog.......
there's enough under that helmet for us allAre you saying I've got a big one?
Sex God
Serious club adviser head on now: guys - at clubs those poncey thongs made for men are a definite no-no 
, and elephant tusks and the like are certainly out of the question (just ask Heather, she knows what I mean ). What's wrong with the towel that most clubs provide? Provided it's clean (believe me, there's nothing more off-putting than a dirty towel 
), use it to cover your bits - or shorts, maybe - sometimes they look OK.
That's at a "straight" night of course....
.... If you've any class at all - and I am determined to plug this endlessly - you will try a bi night that lots of clubs are trying out now, and really glam it up 8) 8) 8) . See the message I posted earlier on this thread for tips on what to wear to please :lol: :lol:
Biker, you'd have to remove your helmet in a club, and your jacket - come on, tell us what's underneath your macho leathers :wink:
, and elephant tusks and the like are certainly out of the question (just ask Heather, she knows what I mean ). What's wrong with the towel that most clubs provide? Provided it's clean (believe me, there's nothing more off-putting than a dirty towel ), use it to cover your bits - or shorts, maybe - sometimes they look OK. That's at a "straight" night of course....
.... If you've any class at all - and I am determined to plug this endlessly - you will try a bi night that lots of clubs are trying out now, and really glam it up 8) 8) 8) . See the message I posted earlier on this thread for tips on what to wear to please
:lol: :lol: Biker, you'd have to remove your helmet in a club, and your jacket - come on, tell us what's underneath your macho leathers :wink:
Maybe the fella in question was trying to be ironic?
No... he was just a wanker. I think you had to be there to fully appreciate it
:lol: But back to the original question...
I prefer when men make the effort to look clean and presentable. I was at a party on Monday (why do I start so many sentences with 'I was at a party'?) and one bloke that stuck out was wearing stained jeans and a crumby washed out old polo shirt. Meanwhile the guy next to him was wearing a nice jacket and pressed trousers. Do I really have to tell you which one I talked to the most?
You can't expect guys to wear Gucci all the time... but you can expect them to dress with some degree of occasion. After all, how would you guys feel if I turned up wearing half of last weeks Korma?
Underwear....
Just make sure it's clean, fairly new and not tooo naff. A posing pouch puts me right off!
How about a nice pair of Tommy Hilfigers or CKs? Practical, respectible... I wouldn't object to that.
KitKat...I'll send you a pic if you like
I Like :twisted:
Are you saying I've got a big one?
I am hoping so! :twisted: :twisted:
But back to the original question
Everything Heather said is spot on. Keep it clean, keep it tidy, and not over the top.
That's at a "straight" night of course....
Kit
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