What to do?

Warming the Bed

0 likes 17 Oct 2008

We have met this lovely couple. But we are new to all this and we have a situation.
We have played with this couple and had a lovely time. But we are going to a club and they have said that they will be there as well. We want to play with other couples. We are into soft swinging. How do we tell this couple that we want to play with other people.
Any suggestions

Unknown User

0 likes 17 Oct 2008

I think you have done it here. Just tell them nicely. Say you want to experiment and experience many different people.
By posting here,you've shown that you are clearly worried how they will react. If this is the case I think you should steer clear of them. Do you fear that they are clingy bunny-boilers?

Dave__Notts

Sex God

0 likes 17 Oct 2008

Quote by Heelandtoe
(1)We have met (4)this lovely couple. (5)But we are new to all this and we have a situation.
We have played (3)with this couple (7)and (2)had a lovely time. But we are going to a club and they have said that they will be there as well. We want to play with other couples. (6)We are into soft swinging. How do we tell this couple that (8)we want to play with other people.
Any suggestions

By cutting some words out of your post should do the trick lol

1) We
2) had a lovely time
3) with
4) this lovely couple,
5) but
6) we are into soft swinging
7) and
8) we want to play with other people.
Dave_Notts

Heelandtoe

Warming the Bed

0 likes 17 Oct 2008

Quote by Dave__Notts
(1)We have met (4)this lovely couple. (5)But we are new to all this and we have a situation.
We have played (3)with this couple (7)and (2)had a lovely time. But we are going to a club and they have said that they will be there as well. We want to play with other couples. (6)We are into soft swinging. How do we tell this couple that (8)we want to play with other people.
Any suggestions

By cutting some words out of your post should do the trick lol

1) We
2) had a lovely time
3) with
4) this lovely couple,
5) but
6) we are into soft swinging
7) and
8) we want to play with other people.
Dave_Notts
Thanks a lot Dave. Not only have you answered my question but I chuckled as well. Good man

Lost

Sex God

0 likes 17 Oct 2008

Quote by Dave__Notts
(1)We have met (4)this lovely couple. (5)But we are new to all this and we have a situation.
We have played (3)with this couple (7)and (2)had a lovely time. But we are going to a club and they have said that they will be there as well. We want to play with other couples. (6)We are into soft swinging. How do we tell this couple that (8)we want to play with other people.
Any suggestions

By cutting some words out of your post should do the trick lol

1) We
2) had a lovely time
3) with
4) this lovely couple,
5) but
6) we are into soft swinging
7) and
8) we want to play with other people.
Dave_Notts
biggrin

Well put Dave cool way of putting it too :thumbup:
Also you can as J and I have done - at the start when your socialising with the couple you already know, turn to your partner and say something like "lets go and see whats about in the different areas." At which point you could turn to the other couple and say "we'll see you in a bit we're going off to have an explore"
It does work too :D Enjoy your night guys