Hi all!
We signed up yesterday and have already spoken with some great people on here, thanks for making us welcome.
We are looking at going to a swinger event soon and would like to know what to expect? Is it a nightclub vibe, but with a private room or wil everyone be naked and making out at 7pm lol!
Any comments welcome.
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What to expect when walking into first swinger event
Quote by Dave__Notts
The initiation at any swinging event is the male half of the couple lays face down on a table and all the women at the event fucks him to an inch of his life with 12" strap-ons............
...........don't forget to take your lube
Dave_Notts
PS :welcome: to the forums
Dave I forgot to say thanks for volunteering to take my place being fucked ragged.
Gotta say You took it well though :giggle:
That dp with the 2 strap-ons even made Shi's eyes water
There are a number of "events" that spring to mind
The Swingers Club
Really relaxed affairs and we personally think this is the best place to start, you can get advice here as to which clubs in your area are best to go to.
Basically you can go along, see what happens, make some new friends and even lock yourselves in a private room if you feel horny but not ready to take the plunge with anyone else.
Think of it as the "Carlsberg Club" a bar with reasonable priced or take your own alcohol, half naked men and women, more leisure facilities than the average posh health club (jacuzzi, sauna, steam rooms etc in many clubs, dance floors, dance poles, chill out rooms etc) in other clubs
The Social
Normally held in Vanilla pubs (vanilla - non swinging venu) function rooms, no play takes place at the event though many move onto hotels or clubs after the event, great place to make new "like minded friends", sometimes held at swingers clubs but they are more for the "already initiated"
The Party
Some "players parties" and some social parties with benefits is probably the best way to describe them, ie at players parties everyone is expected to join in with others at the social party its usually play if you want or just socialise if you want.
The Swingers Club
Really relaxed affairs and we personally think this is the best place to start, you can get advice here as to which clubs in your area are best to go to.
Basically you can go along, see what happens, make some new friends and even lock yourselves in a private room if you feel horny but not ready to take the plunge with anyone else.
Think of it as the "Carlsberg Club" a bar with reasonable priced or take your own alcohol, half naked men and women, more leisure facilities than the average posh health club (jacuzzi, sauna, steam rooms etc in many clubs, dance floors, dance poles, chill out rooms etc) in other clubs
The Social
Normally held in Vanilla pubs (vanilla - non swinging venu) function rooms, no play takes place at the event though many move onto hotels or clubs after the event, great place to make new "like minded friends", sometimes held at swingers clubs but they are more for the "already initiated"
The Party
Some "players parties" and some social parties with benefits is probably the best way to describe them, ie at players parties everyone is expected to join in with others at the social party its usually play if you want or just socialise if you want.
Sex God
What ever you do, don't listen to Dave and Meeko 
When you do go to a club or party, enjoy yourselves.
When you do go to a club or party, enjoy yourselves.
Sex God
Livelife,
plenty of options including Socials and Munchs, Private Parties, and Clubs.
For Socials and Munchs, please look at the Lets Meet Up forum, http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewforum/2.html where you'll find a definition for these as well
For Clubs, then Club Meets http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewforum/21.html and Commercial Events http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewforum/25.html forums, plus also the :: Clubs section http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/
Also worth checking out the :: Events section http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/events/ as some advertise things here, particularly Private Parties, rather than on the forums
As for Meeko and Dave, their preferences clearly stated and they just happen
plenty of options including Socials and Munchs, Private Parties, and Clubs.
For Socials and Munchs, please look at the Lets Meet Up forum, http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewforum/2.html where you'll find a definition for these as well
For Clubs, then Club Meets http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewforum/21.html and Commercial Events http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewforum/25.html forums, plus also the :: Clubs section http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/
Also worth checking out the :: Events section http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/events/ as some advertise things here, particularly Private Parties, rather than on the forums
As for Meeko and Dave, their preferences clearly stated and they just happen
Sex God
def wouldn`t listen to dave he just punting for a little man loving from B1oke
just daves way of say im ready
just daves way of say im ready
Sex God
Quote by Dave__Notts
The initiation at any swinging event is the male half of the couple lays face down on a table and all the women at the event fucks him to an inch of his life with 12" strap-ons............
...........don't forget to take your lube
Dave_Notts
PS :welcome: to the forums
Naaaaaw Dave, don't be daft. That was only ever at Blue's parties, and it weren't all the women either. Just Blue, with her little vibrating strap-on going round each of us blokes in turn, seeing who she could take at unawares. Put me right off me stride she did.
Livelife, welcome to the forum and all that. Hope you enjoy your stay!
What sort of event and where? Not specifically where, but in a swinging club you mean, or more house party? Neil x x x ;)
Firstly everyone else has done what you are doing, so they know how you feel. There's likely to be others on their first time also.
there will be groups of people about which a real social hubbub is going on. they are doing well swinging and improving friendships.
there will be some of the older generations and several individuals.
Mingle and talk and settle in.
People will be watching you even if nothing seems likely to happen. You may need to attend a club a few more times so that people remember you.
sexual offers tend to come in the form of people presenting themselves in front of you or up close to you. Its usually quite obvious as they hold a stare at you or get caught under your feet so to speak. You may not be aware until they have you in their sites. So quite often your first reaction is one of wariness as you may feel 'hunted down'.
At that point you just need to get closer and see the reaction. you may not even need to talk or try on any conventional chat ups.
After the fun's ended, its expected you go about your separate ways. Sometimes that's easy, others its not. But that's the nature of swinging.
there will be groups of people about which a real social hubbub is going on. they are doing well swinging and improving friendships.
there will be some of the older generations and several individuals.
Mingle and talk and settle in.
People will be watching you even if nothing seems likely to happen. You may need to attend a club a few more times so that people remember you.
sexual offers tend to come in the form of people presenting themselves in front of you or up close to you. Its usually quite obvious as they hold a stare at you or get caught under your feet so to speak. You may not be aware until they have you in their sites. So quite often your first reaction is one of wariness as you may feel 'hunted down'.
At that point you just need to get closer and see the reaction. you may not even need to talk or try on any conventional chat ups.
After the fun's ended, its expected you go about your separate ways. Sometimes that's easy, others its not. But that's the nature of swinging.
Sex God
The main thing is that you don't need to feel pressured into doing anything at all. If the vibe isn;t there - keep your kit on (unless in a swingers club where a certain amount if undress is the dress-code) and simply enjoy chatting and getting to know people.
The difference with a swingers event and any other is that the conversation gets fruity pretty fast. Just watch out if it is a social, you may be mixing (in the bar or toilets etc) with vanillas.
I've been to Chamaeleons (excelent club) various munches (no-vanillas) and socials (public place, vanillas present) and enjoyed them very much. That moment of tension of stepping out nekkid but for a towel or lingerie soon fades as everyone is so nice and friendly. (and there is always someone with a worse body
).
So best advice, go and enjoy yourselves.
The difference with a swingers event and any other is that the conversation gets fruity pretty fast. Just watch out if it is a social, you may be mixing (in the bar or toilets etc) with vanillas.
I've been to Chamaeleons (excelent club) various munches (no-vanillas) and socials (public place, vanillas present) and enjoyed them very much. That moment of tension of stepping out nekkid but for a towel or lingerie soon fades as everyone is so nice and friendly. (and there is always someone with a worse body
). So best advice, go and enjoy yourselves.
Sex God
If you know someone who has been where you are planing to go ask them. If it is a club, contact them and ask what it is like;
is there a social area
what is the dress code
what are the play rooms like
What every you do, be comfortable. You can always go back and play next time. even at the same club, each night can be different.
Above all have fun.
Travis
is there a social area
what is the dress code
what are the play rooms like
What every you do, be comfortable. You can always go back and play next time. even at the same club, each night can be different.
Above all have fun.
Travis
:giggle:
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