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Right i'm in a right sticky place right now lets think where to start....
Well I want to move out on the house i'm in cause my house mate is a bitch and she really gets me down I left my job cause I hated being in a hard sales, selling mobile phones I have been offered a job with another mobile company do I say yes because I have no other job and in order to move out I need a job or do I wait till the job I want comes up????
Any one with advice for me please I am stuck.
Plus if i move house i will be able to accomadate lol
Donna xxx
Say 'Yes'. It will keep your employment record intact. Then you can get a new place and be happy!
You can always look for another job latter.
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Say 'Yes'. It will keep your employment record intact. Then you can get a new place and be happy!
You can always look for another job latter.

:thumbup: I'd opt for keeping the job record going too
Who's house is it anyway? Are you sharing a rented place or are you her lodger?
i'm renting a room in a house her boyfriend is my landlord and he lives in the house to not allowed to have any on my stuff left out my room doing my head in lol
find youself new digs first, then sort out the employment problem.
the importrant thing is to be happy!
nothing worse than being pissed off with life!
if your stuck, my wife can sleep on the couch for a few months/years?
stevexx lol
Thanks for the offer lol will keep you in mind fingers crossed i'll be out by the first of June but need a job to pay the rent lol one of lifes big round abouts lol need new house but need job for new house but not happy with job till in new house rolleyes
find youself new digs first, then sort out the employment problem.
the importrant thing is to be happy!
nothing worse than being pissed off with life!
if your stuck, my wife can sleep on the couch for a few months/years?
stevexx lol
Hi Donna
Sorry to hear things are so pants for you at the moment.
I would say change your job first and make sure you have some money behind you. At least whilst you are in work you are away from your lodgings instead of being stuck in your room feeling rubbish.
Then when you are sorted there, look for somewhere new to live.
Unfortunately it means putting up with a bad situation (ie living somewhere you are not happy) for a small amount of time, but you will benefit all round in the long run.
And hey, once you have moved you can have a party and invite all us nice people who gave you advice :twisted:
Get your CV onto sites like monster, go and see people such as Reed, Manpower with your CV and tell them what your looking for, remember they get paid when you go for interviews and get a job via them so they want to find you work.
If your looking to stay in sales/retail try the grocer jobs, michael page, total jobs and local jobs (google for the web details.) Have your CV on public for monster etc. so recruiters can find you and people will start calling you about jobs. Plus you can sign up to email job alerts letting a lot of hard work being done for you.
And best of all good luck xx
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i'd go for the job first unless you have alot of savings to be able to pay a bond and at least a month rent in advance. if you say no to this job how long can you wait till the job you want comes up?
if you rent your own place you can accomodate as much as you like and have your stuff where you want. most places will only accept professional people so claiming from the dss to move house can be very difficult.
the job may not be what you want but if it brings the money in so what for now. any employer offering a job that you want will understand you reason for doing this.
whips

I agree with all that. I would add that any employer will look more favourably on ANY employment than NONE. It shows you are willing to work and that you are taking responsibility for your future.
You know where I am if you want to chat sweetie, (although saying that I am away for the weekend biggrin )
My opinion - for what it's worth, take the new job, can't be any worse than the old one, move out, no point staying where you're not happy. You can tread water for a while in a new job while you get settled in a new house then look for a job you'd really like to do. I don't think it looks bad if you swap jobs a little, specially at your age. What looks bad is not working at all which isn't an issue.
kiss
H.x
Thanks for all the advice I just call to except the job like you all sad a jobs a job and its the only way I can get the home I want, I'll keeping looking for the job I want but untill I get it at least I have money coming in.
Thanks again to you all and hope you all have wet dreams xxxxxxxx
hey get the job, move out the hse that will then probly fuk the bitch up as she cant afford it on her home woo hooo so double whammy babes
nik xx