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...your teenage/schooldays crush? :inlove:
Do you ever wonder what became of him/her? What they look like now? If they are still swoon-worthy?
The reason I ask is that I just spotted mine in our local supermarket doing his weekly shop. He's still handsome, if a little shorter than I remembered (probably because I am now taller :dohsmile I (briefly!) toyed with the idea of striking up a conversation but then decided he'd probably think I was an utter fruitloop!
So, your teenage crushes: do you remember them? Do you still know them? Do you cringe or swoon at the mere mention?
:giggle:
Mine and most of the girls who I went to school with got married had two daughters and then his wife left him for another woman.
last time I saw him which was a few years ago, he was still as yummy as I remembered.
Gillian
Mine and most of the girls who I went to school with got married had two daughters and then his wife left him for another woman.
last time I saw him which was a few years ago, he was still as yummy as I remembered.
Gillian
Yep -- I tracked down one of her friends through a "reunited" site. She became a nun for 30 years (as had always been her intention) and taught abroad for 30 years or so -- then she eloped with a priest as was last seen living with him in New york !!!
So I probably won't see her in my local supermarket ...
Still go out with my school crush occasionally and get pissed lol
I have done and I still would :twisted:
lol Which one? lol I changed my mind more times that I had hot dinners!
Let me get this right... are these the ones I used to write about in tip-ex on my pencil case? The ones that I'd do some mad, made up mathematical equation thing to see how compatible for life & forever more we were? The ones I secretly lusted after while I was busy being -Maiden-Extraordinaire? lol
Just so I know which list to give you! lol
My list of crushes and boyfriends are very different lists! lol
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lol Which one? lol I changed my mind more times that I had hot dinners!
Let me get this right... are these the ones I used to write about in tip-ex on my pencil case? The ones that I'd do some mad, made up mathematical equation thing to see how compatible for life & forever more we were? The ones I secretly lusted after while I was busy being -Maiden-Extraordinaire? lol
Just so I know which list to give you! lol
My list of crushes and boyfriends are very different lists! lol

Oooh, I remember those mathematical equations! I suppose I mean the ones you had crushes on but never went out with.
To give you slightly more background about mine: he was four years older than me in infant/junior school and then he went on to the local comp and I went to the local grammar-type place. I still used to see him as he lived quite near me and I lusted after him lots... till I met his older brother :rascal:
Think i is pretty boring and sad really! i think about my school crush everyday, I would have him in my bed everyday
If he didnt work away lol lol lol
still together 17 years 69position
got to say he is mr perfect but shhhh dont tell him i said that rolleyes
Crushes... where are they now....
One is in prison for fraud
One is in prison for GHB/ABH & armed robbery
Four are living with their gay partner
One is married with children
One is in a civil partnership
One is now the head of a different school
One is an international musician
One has a receding hairline but I reckon he could still make me swoon and be all tongue tied.
Most of them I either feel neutral about now, smile fondly with that 'ahhh, back in the day' feeling or have a slight bit of a cringe about liking them, but I knew it was never ever going to move out of the crush status thing. I was too much of a Little Miss Iron Knickers. lol
kiss LG. x
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Crushes... where are they now....
One is in prison for fraud
One is in prison for GHB/ABH & armed robbery
Four are living with their gay partner
One is married with children
One is in a civil partnership
One is now the head of a different school
One is an international musician
One has a receding hairline but I reckon he could still make me swoon and be all tongue tied.

rotflmao That made me chuckle... Little Miss Iron Knickers certainly had interesting taste in crushes!
I remember mine so well - phoarrrrr biggrin biggrin He was definitely the local heart throb, all the lasses chased him. I think it all went over his head at the time - he seemed to be unaware of it.
When I moved to Bristol people always took the mickey out of my accent (they couldn't understand what I was saying confused confused). He always stuck up for me if he was around. I didn't talk to him - just smiled a little thank you. When I was 14 yrs old - he found my Library tickets I'd lost and returned them to my home - I don't think he even knew my name before then.
I didn't see him again until 2 yrs ago. I was stood in front of him in queue in my local shop. I was aware of someone staring at me and he caught my eye as I turned to leave the shop and he gave me a big smile. I smiled back absent mindedly not knowing who it was. He must have recognised me as caught up with me outside and said hello. I had to ask him who he was redface lol
His last words to me were "You look as great now as you did when you were a teenager" - bless. Not seen him since - even tho he lives round the corner lol
My first crush was a boy who lived in my street and was in my class in school, I had the big time hots for him! :inlove: I lost contact with all my school friends when I left and not seen any of them for over 30 years. I found him again on friends reunited ( and a few more schoolies since then on Facebook ) and we met for coffee. I knew he'd joined the army when he left school and he's retired now. Don't know what I was expecting him to look like but I was shocked when I saw him. :eeek:
Let's just say, the years have not been kind :-?
My first crush turned out to live over the road from me when I moved house and I have to say he still looks exactly the same, cant say the same for me tho :sad:
I met the love of my life two years ago and I still feel nervous and excited when we meet, all butterflies and moist knickers :inlove:
I liked one girl in school that was about it. Have never seen her since end of school she's never appeared on facebook or anything like that. She was not someone I knew just someone I looked at across the class. Only once did she ever talk to me she asked me to sort out a problem with her computer in the typing class, think I nearly passed out.
The only other event I can remember that involved her was when I told a friend I thought she was nice. Big mistake, turned out to be a total loud mouth. Sitting in science I can remember one girl walking into the class walking up to the girl I liked and whispering in her ear. She then turned and looked right at me, jeez did I feel uneasy. She carried on looking at me all day, felt like a long day, think I ran from the last class lol
My 'crush' got in touch with me a year back via Friends Reunited and we arranged to go out for a chat and catch up (he has now moved down south). He is even more gorgeous than I remembered, has a brilliant personality and he told me that he also had a crush on me when we was at school together redface
Also, after a lot of chatting, emailing and phone calls, he let it slip that he was into swinging and had joined an internet site called Swinging Heaven redface
(and before anyone asks, no we havent, no I wouldnt and yes he knows) lol
One crush of mine was also the crush of most of the girls I knew (and he knew it). I went out with him for a couple of weeks as an older teen and yes I did ... I cant really remember if it was any good as I was very drunk!!
I didn't see him for years when I left and joined the Army.
He now lives with an old school friend of mine, they have been together for about 15 years and have 2 kids and a mortgage together. She says she would never marry him cos he is a pot head!!
The years have not been kind to him and no, I most dfefinately wouldnt!!
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My 'crush' got in touch with me a year back via Friends Reunited and we arranged to go out for a chat and catch up (he has now moved down south). He is even more gorgeous than I remembered, has a brilliant personality and he told me that he also had a crush on me when we was at school together redface
Also, after a lot of chatting, emailing and phone calls, he let it slip that he was into swinging and had joined an internet site called Swinging Heaven redface
The above ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
(and before anyone asks, no we havent, no I wouldnt and yes he knows) lol
and this ^^^^^^^^ dont add up dunno lol