What is kinky these days. The things that used to be classed as kinky, ie rubber, leather, spanking and C.P., bondage, all used to be called kinky but all of these are now common place. So what can now be kinky.
some people may call wam or splosh kinky? its been suggester its kinky only until you tried it lol
Never heard of either if those!
I've found found this on splosh - but what's "wam" ?
i think what someone considers kinky is based on their starting point.
if you were a vanilla in a monogomus relationship and only partook in vanilla sex then maybe having the light on is kinky or using a sex toy.
if your in the swinging community maybe it takes things to be a bit more risque.
(sorry bad spelling i expect)
i prefer the word exciting than kinky lol
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Quite frankly I don't think anything is kinky, you either enjoy it or you don't. What other people think or choose to label it as is unimportant.
If a bloke got a hard-on 'cos he left his teabag in his cuppa whilst drinking it - then I'd think that is kinky.
Isn't kinky something that others find a sexual turn-on but you don't?
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I doubt there's anything we (society) does today that hasn't been done already by countless others in history.
I think many of us tend to assume we have 'progressed' in terms of sexual liberation... the acts we enjoy being more adventurous than those that went before us. Sometimes this is true over the short term, but if we look back in history long enough, we often seem to find folks who would make us look prudish!
Kinky is maybe a moving target. What I thought inky 20 years ago, I no longer do. Not sure that society has truly changed, or if it's me. Probably a little of both.
For me... kinky is whatever you think and feel it is. The only fun and pleasure in 'kink' is that which we believe it to be.
On a slightly different point though... I'm fascinated by how so many folks seems to have similar kinks.
For instance, a foot fetish is quite common, but a chair leg fetish isn't. Do folks 'really' have a fetish built in, or are they conditioned to find an appeal in something. Given the way so many fetishes seem popular, I'm inclined to think there's an awful lot of conditioning going on.
/The Kid