I know this must sound incredibly stoopid but I had to ask :eeek:
As we understand it, soft swing doesn't involve swapping partners for penetration.
Thank you - I would hate to reply to people thinking the terminology was something completely different!
I see what you mean about the full sharing though - although we are new and will give most things a try at least once!
Thanks all
Lisa
same room fun can be soft or full swing
for me.. soft swinging is when we "play" with each others partners.. but only actually have sex with our own.
this can be in same or diff rooms.
I was just going to say "same room fun" is most definitely not the same thing as soft swinging. It can mean just playing and then ultimate with own partner or it can be a full swap.
Although still novices ourselves, our understanding agrees with the majority concensus here, soft swing is anything upto full sex with the other couple, full penitrative sex with own partner only.
We have been to a swingers club a couple of times now and have thoroughly enjoyed ourselves there, although, first time through choice and second time through encouraging friends, we have only had fun with each other.
We found teh club a good way to 'ease' ourselves into teh scene, but thats just us, others dont go for the club scene at all.