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What's the difference between 'soft swing' and 'full swing'?
Sex God
As we understand it, soft swing doesn't involve swapping partners for penetration.
Agreed, soft swing is also called "same room fun" I believe.
I can see the fun in this, you get to watch and be watched, but without the potential for jealousy of someone else with your partner.
Each to their own though, I can see how full swinging would be more of a turn on if you can handle the sharing.
I can see the fun in this, you get to watch and be watched, but without the potential for jealousy of someone else with your partner.
Each to their own though, I can see how full swinging would be more of a turn on if you can handle the sharing.
Sex God
Drat......... An I thought it had something to do with if the Viagra was working or not....... 
Frogster
Frogster
Sex God
same room fun can be soft or full swing
Oops I thought this was about padded seats on children's playgrounds. In fact have I got the whole idea wrong, I thought this site was about amusing yourself by overcoming gravity! 
Sex God
for me.. soft swinging is when we "play" with each others partners.. but only actually have sex with our own.
this can be in same or diff rooms.
this can be in same or diff rooms.
Orgasminator
I was just going to say "same room fun" is most definitely not the same thing as soft swinging. It can mean just playing and then ultimate with own partner or it can be a full swap.
Hi Lisa
When we started, we tried a couple of 'soft swings' with 2 people we knew and got on with and then found out about heir 'habits' and though we would give it a try.
So, for a couple of evenings (some years ago now!) we went round to theirs and then they came round to ours (we live in adjacent villages).
On our first time, we stayed with our partner, felt each other up, stripped and generally had lots of foreplay but never actually made love with A&T present. They, on the other hand, went the hole (sic) nine yards and had sex on the couch right in front of us!! Wow! We were imprressed but too shy on that occasion to try it ourselves.
When they came round to us, we again stayed with our partners, but this time, we all ended up on the floor together and we had sex side by side, if you can figure it out??!!
Third time lucky? YEP!! The following month, we met up and after Dinner ( very posh in N.S) we swapped partners.
It was still a shock when T started to open my blouse but I thought "what the Heck" and let him get on with it. Ian was getting on great with A, and had his face buried in her (ample!) busom.
It seemed a natural progression when T went between my legs and did away with my panties. Once I had got his tackle out it was only am matter of time before I wanted it in me and over in the Red Corner, Ian had his fingers well wet.
It was A who broke the haitus by sitting on Ian, and getting on with it.
I was starkers by this time and T lay me on the couch and (after a second for some protection) took me there and then.
We have never looked back but you gotta start SOMEWHERE
I think if you go for the Full Wing first time out it may put you off not just the Sex part but the great fun and social aspect of the people you meet.
Thats my Penn'orth anyway.
L&L
Shirley
When we started, we tried a couple of 'soft swings' with 2 people we knew and got on with and then found out about heir 'habits' and though we would give it a try.
So, for a couple of evenings (some years ago now!) we went round to theirs and then they came round to ours (we live in adjacent villages).
On our first time, we stayed with our partner, felt each other up, stripped and generally had lots of foreplay but never actually made love with A&T present. They, on the other hand, went the hole (sic) nine yards and had sex on the couch right in front of us!! Wow! We were imprressed but too shy on that occasion to try it ourselves.
When they came round to us, we again stayed with our partners, but this time, we all ended up on the floor together and we had sex side by side, if you can figure it out??!!
Third time lucky? YEP!! The following month, we met up and after Dinner ( very posh in N.S) we swapped partners.
It was still a shock when T started to open my blouse but I thought "what the Heck" and let him get on with it. Ian was getting on great with A, and had his face buried in her (ample!) busom.
It seemed a natural progression when T went between my legs and did away with my panties. Once I had got his tackle out it was only am matter of time before I wanted it in me and over in the Red Corner, Ian had his fingers well wet.
It was A who broke the haitus by sitting on Ian, and getting on with it.
I was starkers by this time and T lay me on the couch and (after a second for some protection) took me there and then.
We have never looked back but you gotta start SOMEWHERE
I think if you go for the Full Wing first time out it may put you off not just the Sex part but the great fun and social aspect of the people you meet.
Thats my Penn'orth anyway.
L&L
Shirley 
Orgasminator
Although still novices ourselves, our understanding agrees with the majority concensus here, soft swing is anything upto full sex with the other couple, full penitrative sex with own partner only.
We have been to a swingers club a couple of times now and have thoroughly enjoyed ourselves there, although, first time through choice and second time through encouraging friends, we have only had fun with each other.
We found teh club a good way to 'ease' ourselves into teh scene, but thats just us, others dont go for the club scene at all.
We have been to a swingers club a couple of times now and have thoroughly enjoyed ourselves there, although, first time through choice and second time through encouraging friends, we have only had fun with each other.
We found teh club a good way to 'ease' ourselves into teh scene, but thats just us, others dont go for the club scene at all.