Just wondered about compliments and stuff, whats the nicest, sweetest thing anyone has ever said to you or about you.
My best mate, the other day told me I was the star in her sky which was really lovely. We were having a heart to heart about her almost going abck to an ex who didnt like me because I was a swinger (some of you may remember my thread)
and someone on here (who shall remain nameless) said one of the nicest things Ive heard, and called me the "paracetamol" of the forum, which made me smile from ear to ear. I thought it was a fantastic compliment and one I will remember always.
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Sex God
Oh god this is going to sound so sickly !! 
Its when the Mrs said "I will"
Its when the Mrs said "I will"
Sex God
When I was younger, before I succumbed to an injury I used to be a dancer and somehow on top of the hours I used to spend training I also found time to do a bit of teaching as well. I remember when I was 19 an eight yr old students mother chatting to me as she dropped off her daughter for a lesson, she told me that the week earlier her daughter had come home and told her that 'Miss PK was lovely and very beautiful and that one day she wanted to grow up to be a ballerina just like Miss PK'
I don't know why it touched me so much but it's something that has always stayed with me
I guess it's just so flattering to hear someone say they want to grow up to be like you :) I think that's the biggest compliment I've ever had.
I don't know why it touched me so much but it's something that has always stayed with me
I guess it's just so flattering to hear someone say they want to grow up to be like you :) I think that's the biggest compliment I've ever had. 
Sex God
Yeah...she is :grin: 
Sex God
Quote by Dave__Notts
It is flattering.......but when they say that to me I ask them why do they want to be short, fat and bald?
Dave_Notts
At least you're memorable
:giggle: Sex God
Quote by firelizard
Yeah...she is :grin:
Oi !!!!!
you can go off people ya know :lol2:
Sex God
Quote by LondonPlaything
ha!
I knew it!
lp
and you should know better young man
Sex God
Quote by poshkate
Yeah...she is :grin:
Oi !!!!!
you can go off people ya know :lol2:
Oh shurrup and gissa snog
Sex God
Quote by firelizard
Yeah...she is :grin:
Oi !!!!!
you can go off people ya know :lol2:
Oh shurrup and gissa snog
oh OK then
assionkiss:Maybe we should et back to the thread now......blooming hijackers
:twisted: In a similar vein to Pk's ...I was once on holiday on a greek island catching a beer at a roadside taverna ...a couple of lads about 8-10yrs old and their dad were having a kick about on an adjacent piece of grass. I invited myself and my mate to join them and we had a good hours fun of competitive football. Quietly replenishing the fluid levels sat at the bar after and one of the lads came up to me and said ...my dad and I reckon your Kenny Dalgleish cos your so good at football and you look like him( no I don't lol )if you are can I have your autograph....I felt ten feet tall .lol
More recently I have helped a friend and work colleague battle thro some emotional turmoil...one night after trading txts trying to cheer her up she sent one that said ..I've never ever had a friend like you. Considering this lady has a social network bigger than faceparty ,,,it really touched me
More recently I have helped a friend and work colleague battle thro some emotional turmoil...one night after trading txts trying to cheer her up she sent one that said ..I've never ever had a friend like you. Considering this lady has a social network bigger than faceparty ,,,it really touched me
Seeing a lad I worked with 10 years after I first met him. He set fire to the youth club I ran when he was 14 yrs old, amongst other eventful occasions with him!! :? :? Biggest pain in the arse I ever met or worked with!!! A danger to others and himself...
A few years ago, I saw this lad grinning walking up the street towards me and he ran forward on seeing me....... I didnt recognise him an thought he was gonna mug me
Instead he gave me a bearhug an said, Im so sorry I was such a pain to you all those years ago, you were the only person who was ever straight with me...and always remember the last words you said to me *you have two paths you can take.....your choice which one but choose it carefully* I took the wrong one and can see that now...but my future is going to be different from now on!
Might not be much to some people but it will always stay with me, as it makes the work I and others did a little more worthwhile than it felt at times. To me, that was what my work was all about..... sometimes its not until years later down the line that what we did has impact on a young persons life/future. Just takes time to sink in for some!! So lets not write off all young people! Cos hes doing great now!
:? :? Biggest pain in the arse I ever met or worked with!!! A danger to others and himself...A few years ago, I saw this lad grinning walking up the street towards me and he ran forward on seeing me....... I didnt recognise him an thought he was gonna mug me
Instead he gave me a bearhug an said, Im so sorry I was such a pain to you all those years ago, you were the only person who was ever straight with me...and always remember the last words you said to me *you have two paths you can take.....your choice which one but choose it carefully* I took the wrong one and can see that now...but my future is going to be different from now on! Might not be much to some people but it will always stay with me, as it makes the work I and others did a little more worthwhile than it felt at times. To me, that was what my work was all about..... sometimes its not until years later down the line that what we did has impact on a young persons life/future. Just takes time to sink in for some!! So lets not write off all young people! Cos hes doing great now!
Sexlightened
Thank you.......................
seems such a little word, but when said with meaning makes you feel that you have done something special............
seems such a little word, but when said with meaning makes you feel that you have done something special............
Sexpert
Theres been a few things for me,
Asha saying I love you, would be one of them, but another of many that stick in my mind was when i was in Liverpool in 1998.
I had taken a play there called 'Waiting For HILLSBOROUGH' before I did the play I had never even seen a football game on television, let alone been to watch a real match.
After the show one night, some guy came up to me with his girlfriend and asked if I was the writer/director. I told him I was thinking he was going to have a go, being the play was such a sensitive subject. He then shook my hand and told me how impressed he was with the show, and said 'It must have been difficult for you, to have written that, what pen were you in? I was in pen four' I then went onto explain to him that I was not actually at the match and had no connection to it. But he gave me a wink and a nudge and said 'I understand mate, I find it hard to talk about myself and this is your way of expressing that' and told him 'No really I wasn't there...' he patted me on the back and just said don't worry mate, you don't need to explain, congratulated me on doing a good job and went about on his merry way.
It was a weird compliment, but it made me feel very proud of what I had done. The play went onto win an award, which I had to collect in front of 3000 people.
Asha saying I love you, would be one of them, but another of many that stick in my mind was when i was in Liverpool in 1998.
I had taken a play there called 'Waiting For HILLSBOROUGH' before I did the play I had never even seen a football game on television, let alone been to watch a real match.
After the show one night, some guy came up to me with his girlfriend and asked if I was the writer/director. I told him I was thinking he was going to have a go, being the play was such a sensitive subject. He then shook my hand and told me how impressed he was with the show, and said 'It must have been difficult for you, to have written that, what pen were you in? I was in pen four' I then went onto explain to him that I was not actually at the match and had no connection to it. But he gave me a wink and a nudge and said 'I understand mate, I find it hard to talk about myself and this is your way of expressing that' and told him 'No really I wasn't there...' he patted me on the back and just said don't worry mate, you don't need to explain, congratulated me on doing a good job and went about on his merry way.
It was a weird compliment, but it made me feel very proud of what I had done. The play went onto win an award, which I had to collect in front of 3000 people.
recently i was working to support ex service man who had suffered a stroke. he was living with the disabilities due to this in a area he hated on such a low income it was pathetic.
i ensured he got all entitlements owing to him and pushed the local housing to find accommodation in the area he knew.
when he was handed the keys he turned and said, " these keys are not just to my new home but are going to open up the access to life again, thankyou"
this is a massive thing as the guy also has aphasia, so to communicate this was huge.
it reinforces why im in this job.
personally everytime my daughters say i love you, actually even when they say i hate you, cuse it kinda shows im being a mum and have mum rules lol
xx fem xx
i ensured he got all entitlements owing to him and pushed the local housing to find accommodation in the area he knew.
when he was handed the keys he turned and said, " these keys are not just to my new home but are going to open up the access to life again, thankyou"
this is a massive thing as the guy also has aphasia, so to communicate this was huge.
it reinforces why im in this job.
personally everytime my daughters say i love you, actually even when they say i hate you, cuse it kinda shows im being a mum and have mum rules lol
xx fem xx
Sex God
“With friends like you, who needs enemies”
I thought awwww, how nice is that, made me feel all warm inside………
:shock:
What?
:shock: so this wasn’t meant to be a compliment? :shock:
oh well
:lol2: seriously though I think the nicest thing anyone ever said to me was “just be yourself, you’re a great guy, she‘ll love you”
now that really did give me a glow.
The fact that the lady in question took one look at me and ran a mile is neither here nor there
I thought awwww, how nice is that, made me feel all warm inside………
:shock:
What?
:shock: so this wasn’t meant to be a compliment? :shock:
oh well:lol2: seriously though I think the nicest thing anyone ever said to me was “just be yourself, you’re a great guy, she‘ll love you”
now that really did give me a glow.The fact that the lady in question took one look at me and ran a mile is neither here nor there
Orgasminator
Quote by Bonedigger
Just wondered about compliments and stuff, whats the nicest, sweetest thing anyone has ever said to you or about you.
What a great thread!!
From my step-daughter, the words were written in a card given to me on Mother's Day two years ago.
'I never really tell you how much you mean to me, I take you for granted too much, I couldn't find anything that says this better, so I'll tell you now instead.
'I love you so much and you mean the world to me, you are an absolutely amazing person and the greatest step-mum EVER!!!'
*sniff* the words in the card are so precious to me and GT's promised me that if I go before him there are two things going in my coffin... the card containing those words and a picture of us taken at our wedding where GT is looking at me like I am the centre of his universe...
Once again a great thread - thanks
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
It means a lot to me when I get messages from a patient's family saying thank you. I certainly don't expect thanks as I'm just doing my job but for someone to take time out from their grief to write to me makes my job all the more worthwhile.
I totally agree with u there! We had a patient who was totally off her legs. She was so scared and not at all confident when we were trying to help her walk again, with the help of physio. I kept saying to her "I know u can do it, u just have to tell urself u can".
Had a weeks study leave then came back to her being transferred with a standing hoist. Then a few of weeks later I had 2 weeks holiday and she was walking with a zimmer frame to and from the toilet.
I couldn't believe the progress this lady made. I told her how incredibly proud I was of her of the progression she was making. She thanked me for the confidence I had in her and that I was one of the ones who really had a lot of confidence in her.
Miss Cream xxx
GUess it was the rare moment (should have recorded it mind) when my daughter (17 years old) said 'Thanks for being a good mum. Yes, we have argued like every girl and her mum and some but you always are there for me without judgement and I love you for Mum, am proud of you, for everything you have went through and are still there for me, my son and others, thanks mum'
I still get lump in my throat when I think of her sayin it. Though I tend to forget the 20 quid she asked to 'borrow' about 15 minutes later pmsl.............
And everyday I have the pleasure to tell her how proud I am of her for being her and giving me such a beautiful grandson.
I still get lump in my throat when I think of her sayin it. Though I tend to forget the 20 quid she asked to 'borrow' about 15 minutes later pmsl.............
And everyday I have the pleasure to tell her how proud I am of her for being her and giving me such a beautiful grandson.