just an observation and a question
whats the point?
we have noticed their are loads of single gents here who have couples profiles.
which beggs the question whats the point? and why?
its so dam easy to see
profiles of couples with only the gents info filled in,
profiles of couples with only gents photos (mostly cocks),
profiles of couples with the excuses of "recently seperated"
profiles of couples with the text clearly written for a single person but showing photos of women as well.
rant over!!
cup of tea time
What happens when you report these problems using the handily located button?
I take yur point about adults.
Along with uninvited whispers and room directing, dodgy profiles seem to cause the most vexation yet few seem willing to report the problems. I honestly think that if we, the members of the community, were more active the vexation would diminish.
I dont see the point of lying on your profile, there are so many people on here with varied tastes who wouldnt care if men or women were married and swung together or played alone, i think more people would be impressed if you were honest about your situation than if you lied and put on misleading pictures and statistics
A little honesty goes a longway
To quote from the rules:
"Non Acceptable Behaviour........
* Holding an account type that is deceitful to others.
..............
Failure to comply with the AUP can lead to a friendly warning or a permanent ban from the site without notice depending on the severity of the offence."
Brucie you really are a complete prick.
I guess if your a couple or a fem in chat it maybe that you attract more attention than being a single guy being that more couples and single fems are sought than single men. purely a numbers thing really, lots of single guys not so many couples and rarer still single fems. So until the realisation from others about the real situation then the possibility of at least social interaction through the chatrooms is greater. Attention seeking? Maybe.
There are also those that maybe were swinging with partners, who now are not with them or their partners are not swinging, not realising that its easy enough to ask admin or even an OP to change thyre staus to a single.
Oh yeah and their are those inexplicable ones too. Loads of reasons and as you say karrob we're adults its upto us in the end to sort out the chaff and for the most part we do. and in the end a great personality in chatland whether man, woman, multigendered, transgendered or androgenous will with effort havea positive impact on those who come across them. :d