Looking at your pics I can't see anything wrong at all (at least with Mrs Monkey) :rascal: Seriously though... Not everyone will be to everyones taste... I'm sure you've declined to meet some people because they aren't what your looking for so it's swings and roundabouts.....
Quote by the-monkeys Hi help and advice required please. We are not having any luck on this site at all we have meet up for drinks only to be told sorry you are not what we are looking for anyone with any advice about our advert profile and pics please leave a comment thanks the monkeys aka the unfuckables
If your getting meets then there can't be much wrong with your ad and profile unless of course your pics are very out of date, perhaps your doing something wrong in person that puts them off.
Quote by Steve Looking at your pics I can't see anything wrong at all (at least with Mrs Monkey) :rascal: Seriously though... Not everyone will be to everyones taste... I'm sure you've declined to meet some people because they aren't what your looking for so it's swings and roundabouts.....
Hi, I'd be in agreement with Steve, your profile appears to be ok, however your members since 2004 and not getting meets Are you limiting meets based on very definite and strict selection? I wish you well and happy hunting! Paddy
I cant see anything particular dodgy about your profile, and we obviously cant comment on your behavior during social meets as we were not there. But things that put me off people include Not washing/shaving/wearing clean clothes and general presentation Looking rather different from their photos Turning up late without a 'im going to be 10 mins late' text Being self obsessed in conversation- not taking turns in conversation, talking about how amazing they are, not asking you any questions Arrogance, cheesiness, ridiculous compliments, terrible sense of humor The vibe between the couple themselves- are they communicating, do they look happy and comfortable together, does one of them look like they don't want to be there? Then you might get meets with perfectly respectable people, but there is just no spark there Im sure others are able to add to this list
Fear not, you are not alone. It is very hard work finding a couple where it all works. Assuming the couple you arrange to meet are reasonably sane and are comfortable swinging you then have to establish 4 additional relationships on a like/fancy level. On top of that how many people are destroyed by nerves when meeting others for the first time? It can take forever and become incredibly frustrating. We found it all to be way too much like hard work and gave up. We rely on clubs for when we fancy a bit of fun and socials to get to know a wider group of potential playmates. We wish you luck. If you ever fancy a trip to Chameleons in Darlaston give us a heads up, we may be heading that way ourselves. Good luck.
Perhaps it is because not many fit the criteria you seek, we would not contact you because your looking for regular meets but are 77 miles from us so we would not waste your time. Secondly for us you have no pictures of your the male half (except a cock pic) so again we would never contact you On here you have to either broaden your criteria or accept that not many will fit into the criteria you seek, that is our situation, very few people meet our criteria and of those that do even less feel we are what they are looking for.
Quote by MidsCouple24 On here you have to either broaden your criteria or accept that not many will fit into the criteria you seek, that is our situation, very few people meet our criteria and of those that do even less feel we are what they are looking for.
:thumbup: We accept that there are few people that meet our profile and we also meet theirs. Its a simple match making process where all parties have to be mutually attracted.
We have exactly the same issue... Nic thinks its because she is a bbw...I think its because I am ugly ..... What ever it is...we have found it so bloody hard to meet other couples. Sometimes its a timing thing, other times its a 'maybe its us' type thing. We have now been to a club twice and think that this is the way forward. We will keep you posted. Andrew & Nicole
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