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whats wrong with a wink

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stephandgray
Warming the Bed
whats wrong with a wink when you got pics and what you after on your profile,
ok understand a wink sent when nothing is on profile what you afteris ignored, but to have a auto reply coming back about not responding to a wink, is it the same thing?
Unknown User
Never done it ,but received them.I bet you can thro loads of winks and they mean if you email and put some time and thought into it, ok it takes longer, but its worth it, cos you get to know each other and when you meet , its a thousand times better!
Enjoy biggrin
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Ah but some members cant send an email & are limited to winks as their only way of saying to someone that they are interested :!:
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Quote by lilacgem
Ah but some members cant send an email & are limited to winks as their only way of saying to someone that they are interested :!:

Why?
Missy
Sex God
From the flip side - when you receive an automated message from people, and some people get loads a day........ do they expect a thought out hand typed message in return? dunno
When people get them cold phone calls, from a machine, telling them they've won a fab holiday, loads of money, bathroom cleaners and all the cat food you can eat........... Does anyone actually listen to the whole message, or do you put the phone down as soon as you hear the machine start talking? confused
To me, there's not much difference between the cold phone calls and winks - neither are personal messages, and to me neither deserve time spent on them giving a response.
Just my opinion - would rather respond to a personal message, than to an automated message :dunno:
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Quote by Missy
From the flip side - when you receive an automated message from people, and some people get loads a day........ do they expect a thought out hand typed message in return? dunno
When people get them cold phone calls, from a machine, telling them they've won a fab holiday, loads of money, bathroom cleaners and all the cat food you can eat........... Does anyone actually listen to the whole message, or do you put the phone down as soon as you hear the machine start talking? confused
To me, there's not much difference between the cold phone calls and winks - neither are personal messages, and to me neither deserve time spent on them giving a response.
Just my opinion - would rather respond to a personal message, than to an automated message :dunno:

I totally agree! :thumbup:
One automated message deserves another. I have chosen not to receive winks from anybody, therefore an automated message is sent out when I get one, I don't even know that I've been 'winked'. lol
A person who sends a wink is sending an automated message of sorts, I'm just sending one back.
biggrin
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Quote by Kiss
From the flip side - when you receive an automated message from people, and some people get loads a day........ do they expect a thought out hand typed message in return? dunno
When people get them cold phone calls, from a machine, telling them they've won a fab holiday, loads of money, bathroom cleaners and all the cat food you can eat........... Does anyone actually listen to the whole message, or do you put the phone down as soon as you hear the machine start talking? confused
To me, there's not much difference between the cold phone calls and winks - neither are personal messages, and to me neither deserve time spent on them giving a response.
Just my opinion - would rather respond to a personal message, than to an automated message :dunno:

I totally agree! :thumbup:
One automated message deserves another. I have chosen not to receive winks from anybody, therefore an automated message is sent out when I get one, I don't even know that I've been 'winked'. lol
A person who sends a wink is sending an automated message of sorts, I'm just sending one back.
biggrin
yes i totally agree, i hate the winks, but then again, one liners of fancy a shag are just as bad or a message that is obviously cut and pasted and reading it proves they havent read your profile or havent even bothered to adapt the cut and paste to your profile
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Quote by earthchild
From the flip side - when you receive an automated message from people, and some people get loads a day........ do they expect a thought out hand typed message in return? dunno
When people get them cold phone calls, from a machine, telling them they've won a fab holiday, loads of money, bathroom cleaners and all the cat food you can eat........... Does anyone actually listen to the whole message, or do you put the phone down as soon as you hear the machine start talking? confused
To me, there's not much difference between the cold phone calls and winks - neither are personal messages, and to me neither deserve time spent on them giving a response.
Just my opinion - would rather respond to a personal message, than to an automated message :dunno:

I totally agree! :thumbup:
One automated message deserves another. I have chosen not to receive winks from anybody, therefore an automated message is sent out when I get one, I don't even know that I've been 'winked'. lol
A person who sends a wink is sending an automated message of sorts, I'm just sending one back.
biggrin
yes i totally agree, i hate the winks, but then again, one liners of fancy a shag are just as bad or a message that is obviously cut and pasted and reading it proves they havent read your profile or havent even bothered to adapt the cut and paste to your profile
I agree with that too Earthy. If there was an automated response button to those too I'd use it! :lol:
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If someone is truly serious about my profile to want to contact me. They will either write a personal note or pay one months membership (which hardly breaks the bank) and then write a personal note.
A wink may be well intended but I prefer originality.
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I have done a few winks with no replies back and quickly realised it was a totally useless and inpersonal thing to do, and being as all the gorgeous ladies on this site are probably inundated,then it's easy to expect them to use it as a better to send a message stating why you think there gorgeous or why their profile caught your eye and not going for the old numbers game where you think some one will reply,because that sounds desperate.I know people think i'm rude and offensive but a lot of chosen words goes further than a wink, or a "i'd love to come over your tits"sort of message.
By the way if Earthy is reading this then,"I'd love to come all over your tits"!
ooh I can feel that slap around my face now,ouch (lovely) biggrin
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She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee
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Having been on the receiving end of a few winks, I automated my response so that it encourages people to write back with more information.
Morning paul xx
Morning Thinking xx
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might send you a wink for a laugh now...
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Quote by Thinkingnaughty
She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee

Enjoy it too much!.....heaven could never feel that!! (oops! that will upset someone)
and my bottom is there for her taking! smackbottom
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Quote by Bigpaul44
She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee

Enjoy it too much!.....heaven could never feel that!! (oops! that will upset someone)
and my bottom is there for her taking! smackbottom
strap on at the ready :twisted:
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i hope you're running fast!
Unknown User
Quote by earthchild
She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee

Enjoy it too much!.....heaven could never feel that!! (oops! that will upset someone)
and my bottom is there for her taking! smackbottom
strap on at the ready :twisted:
pass the ky..................now pass the suppositries :cry:
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Quote by Bigpaul44
She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee

Enjoy it too much!.....heaven could never feel that!! (oops! that will upset someone)
and my bottom is there for her taking! smackbottom
strap on at the ready :twisted:
pass the ky..................now pass the suppositries :cry:
bi curious eh? well i could just get my other half to do the penetrating while i watch :twisted:
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Quote by Lickylou
Having been on the receiving end of a few winks, I automated my response so that it encourages people to write back with more information.
Morning paul xx
Morning Thinking xx

Hi Lou,
long time no hear.I think you were on the end of one of my first winks.
wink
xx
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Quote by earthchild
She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee

Enjoy it too much!.....heaven could never feel that!! (oops! that will upset someone)
and my bottom is there for her taking! smackbottom
strap on at the ready :twisted:
pass the ky..................now pass the suppositries :cry:
bi curious eh? well i could just get my other half to do the penetrating while i watch :twisted:
now your talking........but hold my hand too sad
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Quote by earthchild
bi curious eh? well i could just get my other half to do the penetrating while i watch :twisted:

we could make it into a SH event! pass the popcorn please... lmao
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Quote by Bigpaul44
She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee

Enjoy it too much!.....heaven could never feel that!! (oops! that will upset someone)
and my bottom is there for her taking! smackbottom
strap on at the ready :twisted:
pass the ky..................now pass the suppositries :cry:
bi curious eh? well i could just get my other half to do the penetrating while i watch :twisted:
now your talking........but hold my hand too sad
and you only get to cum on my tits if you lick it back off wink
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Quote by Bigpaul44
Having been on the receiving end of a few winks, I automated my response so that it encourages people to write back with more information.
Morning paul xx
Morning Thinking xx

Hi Lou,
long time no hear.I think you were on the end of one of my first winks.
wink
xx
I was honey and I say your picture with you sat on the couch in shorts *which I believe is more upto date* is much much more sexy and should be swapped for the one you are using xxx
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Quote by earthchild
She probs wont slap you incase you enjoy it too much heehee

Enjoy it too much!.....heaven could never feel that!! (oops! that will upset someone)
and my bottom is there for her taking! smackbottom
strap on at the ready :twisted:
pass the ky..................now pass the suppositries :cry:
bi curious eh? well i could just get my other half to do the penetrating while i watch :twisted:
now your talking........but hold my hand too sad
and you only get to cum on my tits if you lick it back off wink
no problem...i'm in to that... and give you a big snowbally kiss afterwards honey...
oh god where's them tissues gone redface
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Thinking im so bored...... When are you going to take my pictures?
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Quote by Lickylou
Having been on the receiving end of a few winks, I automated my response so that it encourages people to write back with more information.
Morning paul xx
Morning Thinking xx

Hi Lou,
long time no hear.I think you were on the end of one of my first winks.
wink
xx
I was honey and I say your picture with you sat on the couch in shorts *which I believe is more upto date* is much much more sexy and should be swapped for the one you are using xxx
May get regognised, but will send it to any one who's interested.
would like your face pic though.
sorry have I hijacked this thread!
It just goes to show with Lou, a wink will get you no where but a polite message goes a lot further
lol