I have put the heading as when do you know the time is right because the time is now right to post this
Over the past 10 or so weeks (well 11 tomorrow, not that we are countiing lol) I have been with the most wonderful person I have met in my whole life
Corriefem (Chrissie) and myself got together over coffee a meeting that totally changed both of our lives, so much so that I, and I'm not proud to say this, decieved someone else, and although that was wrong at the time the lady in question gave us her sort of blessing but told Chrissie , quite rightfully, to be careful
Anyway - enough about that and my indiscretions and back to why I'm writing this
Over the last nearlt 11 weeks I have enjoyed the company of the most wonderful person I could have ever met, she really is my world, my friend, my lover and my soulmate
Aww how idillic you might say, and yes in fact you are right
So why tell the world now
Well - thats the real simple bit
Last night when I got home I quite rightly got both barrels from Chrissie
She had posted on here regarding "what do you miss" in which she told you all how she felt very much velcroed to me - and how we had on Saturday night spent the most romantic, erotic evening sleeping out in the garden, and she was quite right it was, it was one of those amazing thing that you do and being cuddled up together under the stars - just the two of us was totally mindblowing
My big mistake was this - I didnt reply to that posting, which in hindsight I should have done, because it was the most wonderful thing to read
But then I havent replied to any of her postings in the last 10 weeks and 6 days - woops, big mistake massive
This was the crux of our discussion last night and she is quite right in what she says - I havent shown the world what she means to me - which quite frankly is everything
So why now go into print
Easy and simple
Chrissie - I love you with all my heart and thank you for welcoming me into your world, long may our being together continue and what we feel for each other grow and grow
Im here my darling - Just for you, and although I show you just how much I have been remiss and Im sorry I have taken this long to show the world
I LOVE YOU
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When do you know the time is right ????
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Quote by Sassy-Seren
Pass the tissues someone :inlove:
What lovely sentiments hun though it's rally not about showing the world how much she means to you, but showing Chrissie and I think she's got the message now
I'm sure she has
And last night
And this morning ........................................................
Orgasminator
So your love for her is more valid now that you have made a public announcement? I am sorry but I think people should live their lives privately when it comes to love. Otherwise it is just another showcase for exhibitionism.
(Feel free to knock me down for being outspoken
)
(Feel free to knock me down for being outspoken
) Quote by Tania
So your love for her is more valid now that you have made a public announcement? I am sorry but I think people should live their lives privately when it comes to love. Otherwise it is just another showcase for exhibitionism.
(Feel free to knock me down for being outspoken
Your not outspoken at all and no its not more or less valid at all and we do things privately too
I just wanted to tell her - simple as that
Not a showcase - just simply "shout it from the rooftops" if you like
Sex God
Quote by Tania
(Feel free to knock me down for being outspoken
TWACK
Good onya guys, there have been times I'm sure for all of us when we have just needed to shout it from the rooftops, if not, well i think trhats a little sad :cry:
long may the feeling continue for you guys
Martell - what a wonderful, heartfelt and emotion triggering post.
My eyes are full here too.
Having met Chrissie and 'known' her on here for over two years I am absolutely thrilled.
You deserve this happiness. Long may it continue.
Bigs hugs to you both and if you are ever up in the Sheffield area let me know and we can get together for a drink or a bite to eat.
Alex x x x
My eyes are full here too.
Having met Chrissie and 'known' her on here for over two years I am absolutely thrilled.
You deserve this happiness. Long may it continue.
Bigs hugs to you both and if you are ever up in the Sheffield area let me know and we can get together for a drink or a bite to eat.
Alex x x x
Sex God
Woohoo! :bounce:
Congratulations to both of you.
Mike.
Congratulations to both of you.
Mike.
Sex God
lovely post martell and good on you!
i know i don't know you as such but i have a big soft spot for corrie (((
corrie! ))) so my best to both of you! ;)
neil x x x ;)
i know i don't know you as such but i have a big soft spot for corrie (((
corrie! ))) so my best to both of you! ;)neil x x x ;)
Sex God
Well I think it's a lovely post too. I'm delighted for you and one of me favourite ladies here.
Having said that - I can understand your uncertainty. I did the opposite. I stuck me neck out and posted - in different circumstances I'll admit but that back-fired on me. So the answer is it's a difficult call.
Having said that - I can understand your uncertainty. I did the opposite. I stuck me neck out and posted - in different circumstances I'll admit but that back-fired on me. So the answer is it's a difficult call.
Sex God
Quote by mdr2000
Where the feck has my sick bowl gone again?
Sorry, I filled it :lol: Martell 
what a wonderful post Made me well up and everything it did!!! One thing you don't need to tell me tho, is what a cracking girl you've got there, honest, sweet, funny, chatty ( :shock: ), and, well just simply lovely.
All the very best to you both, here's to your happiness together :cheers:
Missy - off to find David so he can write a lovely post like that about me :smile2:
Where the bluddy ell is he?
In the bluddy chatroom I bet, watching the cams 
what a wonderful post Made me well up and everything it did!!! One thing you don't need to tell me tho, is what a cracking girl you've got there, honest, sweet, funny, chatty ( :shock: ), and, well just simply lovely.All the very best to you both, here's to your happiness together :cheers:
Missy - off to find David so he can write a lovely post like that about me :smile2:
Where the bluddy ell is he?
In the bluddy chatroom I bet, watching the cams 
Casanova
aaawwww nice one MartellNotts. As you know, me and Corrie are very good friends - thanks to meeting at a Munch from this site. Good luck to you both
However, I don't answer Corries posts either - but am not about to declare undying love for her - she knows it already haha
See you both soon xxx
However, I don't answer Corries posts either - but am not about to declare undying love for her - she knows it already haha
See you both soon xxx
Sex God
we are sooooooooooooooooooo happy that you have found a soul mate corrie...
we really are so pleased for the pair of you.
you must come round for another visit soon and tell me all the juicy stuff
hope you guys last forever and ever just like staggy and i will.
i think this site should be called matchmakers
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
we really are so pleased for the pair of you.
you must come round for another visit soon and tell me all the juicy stuff
hope you guys last forever and ever just like staggy and i will.
i think this site should be called matchmakers
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D 
Warming the Bed
Quote by Tania
So your love for her is more valid now that you have made a public announcement? I am sorry but I think people should live their lives privately when it comes to love. Otherwise it is just another showcase for exhibitionism.
(Feel free to knock me down for being outspoken
Sorry but I am with Tanina on this, this should be left private.
We have seen other couples do this publicly then when they split (which is not what I am saying is going to happen here), it can't be done publicly. By doing this like this you are opening yourselves up to the community who will now rightly or wrongly pay a lot of attention to how you are doing, it puts you under the microscope.
Sorry but that is how I feel.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: WOW you know I came on here last night to post and wrote something and by the time I came round to send it I had been booted off lol. Now what I wrote last night is completely different but hey here goes lol.
Okay wet blankets out there do your damdest to be half empty lol. I am old and thick enough to take it but sorry to be optomistic here but actually this is not an undying love post for the sake of it. It about a connection that works for 2 people which neither of us was looking for. I have been around this site for 2 and a half years and I think that I can verify for myself that I dont fall in love with every guy I meet and post undying love for them on here and vice versa lol.
Yes MartellNotts has told me personally how he feels about me and vice versa so I dont need to come here to find that out lol. I think my soul mate is saying he is really happy in fact we both are and why is that important? Well when I came here 2 and a half years ago I was a broken spirit ( now thats nothing new you say for this site). I had tried to keep a relationship with someone suffering with severe depression going for a long long time and it was over and I had failed. It took however until this January to find real closure from that. Martell had been through something similiar and that was the connection between us - not sex, not romance just a sense of understanding.
When we actually met 11 weeks ago today for a coffee after corresponding online for a number of weeks there was no expectations of a relationship, sex.................just a coffee actually and a smile. It was impulsive and that connection from 11 weeks ago grew into a respect for each other which is the foundation for moving forward as one.
Yes the cynics can say dont do this as you will regret it ( telling the world ) but for once in my life I intend to go with the flow.
A couple of months ago I wrote to say be happy each day - last weekend the 3 rd person I work with of my age died. I am 46 so no I dont think I am that old lol. But it has made me realise today is actually more important than this day in 2 years time and the feelings I have today are real and meaningful.
Now if me and MartellNotts dont work then we will be prats but thats okay too as no one on here will mind. I think however my money is on the fact that by next year we will be very secure together so I am confident that I wont be posting every 5 minutes gooey stuff about us lol.
So thanks my mates and fellow SH comrades for your wishes.
MartellNotts welcome to the world of Corrie . Many a man will say are you mad ????????? She's aggressive, a control freak and hates men lol. However you know as well as this being true (
) that Corrie loves the pants off you and she will shout this to the world lol. You and me both are not perfect and we can both be pratts but both of us have shared values about what we want.Now Dawnie the most important thing I have said to MartellNotts is - YES Chams.
So big thanks again and more important MartellNotts where me shag and tea?????????? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Love Corrie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sex God
Quote by Dizzytart
So your love for her is more valid now that you have made a public announcement? I am sorry but I think people should live their lives privately when it comes to love. Otherwise it is just another showcase for exhibitionism.
(Feel free to knock me down for being outspoken
Sorry but I am with Tanina on this, this should be left private.
We have seen other couples do this publicly then when they split (which is not what I am saying is going to happen here), it can't be done publicly. By doing this like this you are opening yourselves up to the community who will now rightly or wrongly pay a lot of attention to how you are doing, it puts you under the microscope.
Sorry but that is how I feel.
I was going to say much the same thing ... I'm happy for you both and really wish you the best in your relationship ... but ... I'm not a huge fan of these "We're a couple and love each other lots" announcement type posts because we've all seen the opposite "We've split up!" announcement.
Relationships are essentially private affairs, complex, wonderful things and un-predictable at that. What matters is the two people involved knowing how they feel about each other, not everyone else.
Quote by J3diMast3r
So your love for her is more valid now that you have made a public announcement? I am sorry but I think people should live their lives privately when it comes to love. Otherwise it is just another showcase for exhibitionism.
(Feel free to knock me down for being outspoken
Sorry but I am with Tanina on this, this should be left private.
We have seen other couples do this publicly then when they split (which is not what I am saying is going to happen here), it can't be done publicly. By doing this like this you are opening yourselves up to the community who will now rightly or wrongly pay a lot of attention to how you are doing, it puts you under the microscope.
Sorry but that is how I feel.
I was going to say much the same thing ... I'm happy for you both and really wish you the best in your relationship ... but ... I'm not a huge fan of these "We're a couple and love each other lots" announcement type posts because we've all seen the opposite "We've split up!" announcement.
Relationships are essentially private affairs, complex, wonderful things and un-predictable at that. What matters is the two people involved knowing how they feel about each other, not everyone else.
:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
call me a cynic!!!
RWL
xx
Orgasminator
Quote by corriefem
I had tried to keep a relationship with someone suffering with severe depression going for a long long time and it was over and I had failed. It took however until this January to find real closure from that. Martell had been through something similiar and that was the connection between us - not sex, not romance just a sense of understanding.
When we actually met 11 weeks ago today for a coffee after corresponding online for a number of weeks there was no expectations of a relationship, sex.................just a coffee actually and a smile.
Hello you two... we've never chatted in the forum, chatroom or elsewhere but after reading your post I had a feeling of affinity with you as I had experienced virtually the same thing as you and quite understand your overflowing happiness... so ignore all the 'cynics'... all I can say to them is wait until it happens to you!
After suffering years of living with someone who was a love but was also a manic depressive it takes it out of you... depression is such an unintentional selfish disease and when you find someone who gives you unconditional love and makes you the centre of their world it is unbelievable and it really does want to make you shout it from the rooftops! Good luck to you both! xx
Wibbly
Quote by corriefem
Now Dawnie the most important thing I have said to MartellNotts is - YES Chams.
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
For those that have never met Corrie, you might think her post is quite long, it is nothing compared to how much this lovely friendly lady can talk :giggle:
Looking forward to a catch up soon :thumbup:
