when the world gets ever smaller

19 Nov 2008

time for me to once again ask for your advice..
this is kinda complicated to explain, so i will do my best.. and sorry if i lose you all half way through.
ive been chatting to someone from another Swinging site.. and i've just found out that she works for the same company as someone i know from here. as far as i know both parties.. are very secretive about there "swinging" side. so with me knowing both of them,, i could cause there secret life and real life to collide..... now i can hear you saying "just dont say anything to either of them.. and they will be none the wiser... but this being a Jiggle problem.. things are not all that simple.
just so see if by any remote chance they knew each other.. i looked through the freinds list on Facebook,and to my horrow the person from the other side was sitting in the freinds list from the person on here.. so not only do they work together, they are on facebook too... i'm guessing every time i reply to a comment, post on there wall, my face is visialbe to both. so there will only be time when one is going to ask the other how they know me.. given the facy i'm not exactly local to them..
so what do you reckon i do.... tell both parties about the other.... tell them i know.. or just distance myself from both completly so i cant cause any upset.

19 Nov 2008

i play a lot of poker.
And KK its not a good hand, it often gets beat on the river when its a showdown and because you had KK and one on the flop you lose all your chips.
Fold em buddy!

19 Nov 2008

I'd do nothing.
Sit on the fence, and IF either say anything, then sort out if anything what oyu are going to say.

19 Nov 2008

Are you sure you can't just innocently say you didn't know dunno

19 Nov 2008

Quote by Jiggle
time for me to once again ask for your advice..
this is kinda complicated to explain, so i will do my best.. and sorry if i lose you all half way through.
ive been chatting to someone from another Swinging site.. and i've just found out that she works for the same company as someone i know from here. as far as i know both parties.. are very secretive about there "swinging" side. so with me knowing both of them,, i could cause there secret life and real life to collide..... now i can hear you saying "just dont say anything to either of them.. and they will be none the wiser... but this being a Jiggle problem.. things are not all that simple.
just so see if by any remote chance they knew each other.. i looked through the freinds list on Facebook,and to my horrow the person from the other side was sitting in the freinds list from the person on here.. so not only do they work together, they are on facebook too... i'm guessing every time i reply to a comment, post on there wall, my face is visialbe to both. so there will only be time when one is going to ask the other how they know me.. given the facy i'm not exactly local to them..
so what do you reckon i do.... tell both parties about the other.... tell them i know.. or just distance myself from both completly so i cant cause any upset.

The internet is becoming a small place. I find that like draws to like - therefore bound to come across people we work with, live by wave

, went to school with etc.
I personally, wouldn't say a thing - its none of their business whom you chat to or who each of them chat to. If by chance either one says anything to you - all I would say *it was none of my business, I like my privacy to be respected as I do others* :smile:

19 Nov 2008

say nothing...
i have two friends on my facebook and have noticed they know the same guy in another area, but they are not friends with each other so they have no idea...
but i wouldn't tell my friend about my other friend knowing the same guy.. its nothing to do with me really.
be a great fight to watch thou fighting over the same guy lol:

19 Nov 2008

I'm sort of in a similar dilemma jiggz. I have a friend on my list who I worked with for almost 10 years. Knew her really well, so well that Dawnie and I always thought that she might have been in "the scene". Anyway one of her friends is a self confessed swinger who sets her profile to xxxx is wanting to shag all her friends list.
So far, I've just kept quiet, and kept a very close eye on their profiles. redface

There you go, no help as usual
Ian

20 Nov 2008

Quote by anais
If by chance either one says anything to you - all I would say *it was none of my business, I like my privacy to be respected as I do others* :smile:

i think this makes good sense... i'm gonna just not gonna say anything untill the event arises.
thank you for all your comments

20 Nov 2008

Maybe one will read this thread and put two & two together.. have a look at thier 'friends' list, and make five... posibly six!
seven may be a bit of a stretch, but you never know.
all sorts happen here
lp