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dunno, maybe after 5 yrs have ran out of things to say, or none of the threads inspire me to respond, nor do i have anything to start a thread with.

My thoughts entirely earthchild. Haven't had any inspiration for weeks now. :cry:
Gimme some of your sweet bucking fabe >>

damnit busted redface How did you know that was me? Yep I'm the one sitting down with the gueetar!!
I sooooooo wish I was tied up in the vaults doing peverse things with Bloke... :rascal:
Alas I am just busy with work.
Interesting thread though :thumbup:
Yep this is a good thread and it got me thinking too.
I post far less than I used to because of work and life decisions and commitments. I would be lying though if I said it was just that.
When we first joined the site I would get really irritated when I or others posted and longtimers would say "there's already a thread about this" or "the search button is your friend" blah blah blah....However I have now got to that stage and get bored when I see the same old things being posted but rather than pointing out that fact I just don't say anything which often means I don't post for a wee while.
The biggest turn off for me though is that Stormwalker has lost his posting mojo as he has other stuff going on now and I miss him on here dreadfully. We would flirt with each other in posts and it definitely added a certain something to the relationship. It's an if I can't do it with him, I don't want to do it without him sort of scenario for me and it's only because I have made some really good friends on here that I still post to be honest.
Love Fire xxx
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The biggest turn off for me though is that Stormwalker has lost his posting mojo as he has other stuff going on now and I miss him on here dreadfully. We would flirt with each other in posts and it definitely added a certain something to the relationship. It's an if I can't do it with him, I don't want to do it without him sort of scenario for me and it's only because I have made some really good friends on here that I still post to be honest.
Love Fire xxx

I feel exactly the same way......(Not about you Stormy......Dont flatter yeself :lol2: ) but about another person....
Takes the edge off it all for me which is why I rarely post myself.....
I bounce around between Facebook and here most of the time. Trouble is, I can only come on here when son's not lurking redface
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im still here?? ohhhh you didnt mean me, lol
not part of any clique, infact i dont know any of you here, all my munch mates left,
and living in the darkets depths of cornwal ive not excaped to get to munchs of late,
then saying that has the site lost some conection because the munches have kinda gone to be replaced by more frequesnt socials, which to some is good, but there are no "special" events to get excited about, to save towards, as a special treat where you know you will get to put a face to that avatar and forum personality?
i think some people have got sick and tired of the sniping, the fear of being told its been done before, devils advocate debates getting far to insulting personally?
me ?? im still here because i dont have any real friends lol
now to be honest if the site started to cost me i think i would have to leave, i cant afford it.
maybe the charging has killed some membership off?
people come,the year expires and if the site is currently flat, which will happen naturally, they wont pay to stick around and lift it back up?
xxxfem xxx
When we first joined the site, I was a student and so I was here pretty much all the time. Its amazing I even got my degree :lol2:
This last year or so I have been working so it has kept be from using the site as much. Although with redundancy looming, I might be back to using the site more :twisted:
Anyway, when I am here, I have moved towards the chatroom because I find it loads of fun. I've meet some great people and I'm often going to socials or to friends for coffee.
I am sick of the arguing that goes on in forum posts. The attitude of late has meant that this is the last place I look when I log in rather than the first as it used to be.
I know we are all adult but seriously, the childish bickering or digs at SH its self has turned me away from the forum!
However, I am still enjoying the site, just in a different way. I am still getting what I want from the place.
Well I'm still on the site far too often... and there's a cold cup of coffee and a pile of post-holiday ironing on the other side of the room to prove it! confused
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and there's a cold cup of coffee and a pile of post-holiday ironing on the other side of the room to prove it! confused

Are you in my house :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
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and there's a cold cup of coffee and a pile of post-holiday ironing on the other side of the room to prove it! confused

Are you in my house :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
You wish!! But I only do our ironing.... and that's under protest! :lol2:
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im still here?? ohhhh you didnt mean me, lol

I'm glad you're still here passionkiss
I agree with Dawnie. I'm the other way round though I'm about to become a student but I've got to keep on working too so my waking hours are all going to be on the phone or in class or with my head stuck in a book.
I also agree with Meaty too Fem smile and since I'm down here with you it's about time we put faces to names! biggrin
Well I'm still about, like sturdy old Ikea shelves .. (anyone remember Warwick? :lol2: ), but I've started a new job which drifts between really busy periods where I come home exhausted and really quiet periods which are also exhausting strangely enough. confused :? :? :?
This may change though as I'm going to a university open day on moday and may start a 4 year course.
*bites nails nervously*
I guess we'll see what happens Monday. :shock:
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Well I'm still about, like sturdy old Ikea shelves .. (anyone remember Warwick? :lol2: ), but I've started a new job which drifts between really busy periods where I come home exhausted and really quiet periods which are also exhausting strangely enough. confused :? :? :?
This may change though as I'm going to a university open day on moday and may start a 4 year course.
*bites nails nervously*
I guess we'll see what happens Monday. :shock:

:thumbup: Good luck in your decision-making.