i'm 20 and bi in birmingham
can anyone reccomend a good singles bar or give any other hintsfor getting dirty in brum?
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where is good to go in birmingham?
ermm aston is in birmingham 
its a sex club, i wont say swingers club as many will despute it is lol
they have payed women there to cater for the single guys, u do not play them the club does you just pay a entry free, women and couples also go and as in any 'swingers' club you are free to join them if they wish but the payed women are there to shag anyone who wants them, theres a big TV scene there and bi males, they do do theme nights too but its usually just a mix night any night of bi/str8 males and females, couples and TVs
its a sex club, i wont say swingers club as many will despute it is lol
they have payed women there to cater for the single guys, u do not play them the club does you just pay a entry free, women and couples also go and as in any 'swingers' club you are free to join them if they wish but the payed women are there to shag anyone who wants them, theres a big TV scene there and bi males, they do do theme nights too but its usually just a mix night any night of bi/str8 males and females, couples and TVs
Sexpert
Guys - was this place safe?
Just would be really worried that you'd bring home more than you bargained for....
Apart from the fact I wouldn't fancy paying for it (unless the SH BBW posse had a shift there!)
Just would be really worried that you'd bring home more than you bargained for....
Apart from the fact I wouldn't fancy paying for it (unless the SH BBW posse had a shift there!)
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Guys - was this place safe?
Just would be really worried that you'd bring home more than you bargained for....
Apart from the fact I wouldn't fancy paying for it (unless the SH BBW posse had a shift there!)
bring home more than you bargained for in what way?
you don't pay the women you just pay a entry fee as in any club, the club pay the women
Sexpert
As in it sounds like it could be a great way to need a to to the clinic?
It's still basically paying for a prostitute though isn't it? Not saying its wrong, just something I don't think I'd do....
- I'll get me coat!
It's still basically paying for a prostitute though isn't it? Not saying its wrong, just something I don't think I'd do....
- I'll get me coat!
Quote by AndyWolves
As in it sounds like it could be a great way to need a to to the clinic?
personally i cannot see there are any higher risks than going to any sex club/party, i have been to clubs and seen women having large gang bangs, just normal everyday customer women who are not there cause they are payed but cause they enjoy it, they are just as much at risk of catching something than the payed women and your more likely to go with her because shes not getting payed!! so long as you protcet yourself the best you feel you need to theres no more chance of you catching something of a pro than any other woman, some women in clubs may actually go with more guys than the payed ones, your not a STD magnet just cause your getting payed
Sexpert
Fair comment - sorry!
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I've sent a test email to the address I had, just to check. Curiosity of course
Had no reply from the email....
Quote by AndyWolves
As in it sounds like it could be a great way to need a to to the clinic?
As the ladies
: (I know I'm goin to get a reply for that) have said, you have to be responsible and protect yourself. Condoms arn't just to stop babies you know.I assume you havn't been to any clubs.
Sexpert
You'd be absolutely right in your assumption....a club virgin 
Realise I may have fired off my response without completely thinking it all through now....lesson learned.
I'm sorry :cry:
Realise I may have fired off my response without completely thinking it all through now....lesson learned.
I'm sorry :cry:
i do understand where you are coming from, the idea of women being payed to shag anyone who wants to does sound dodgy but what i was trying to say was i know women who go to clubs as customers who will shag just as many men as the payed ones so are just as likely/unlikely to catch something as the payed ladies, then you could meet her for a 1 to 1 meet off here think shes ok and go catch something, where as the payed ladies are less likely to do that so in a way you have got more chance of catching something off none payed ladies...if that makes any sence
Its upto us to protect ourselfs the way we feel fit really.
Its upto us to protect ourselfs the way we feel fit really.
Well i have to admit it isn't the best club about, its a bit seedy but to some that the attraction 
to be honest tho i wouldn't have said it was any worse than the GoE it had all the facilities they had and more, ie a pool, each to their own i suppose, as far as i know its not shut down just been asking about 
to be honest tho i wouldn't have said it was any worse than the GoE it had all the facilities they had and more, ie a pool, each to their own i suppose, as far as i know its not shut down just been asking about 