On Friday night my gf expressed that she wanted to have a threesome. She is looking for someone youngish who is a little more confident than her. She says my presence / involvement is up to the other girl - she isnt bothered.
Anyway, what are the best places to start off meeting potentials ? Obviosuly we want to be discreet and the classifieds dont seem to work anymore !
All advice welcome !
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On Friday night my gf expressed that she wanted to have a threesome. She is looking for someone youngish who is a little more confident than her. She says my presence / involvement is up to the other girl - she isnt bothered.
Anyway, what are the best places to start off meeting potentials ? Obviosuly we want to be discreet and the classifieds dont seem to work anymore !
All advice welcome !
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I really don't think I have much to tell.
I came here just over a year ago, met up with a couple in newcastle. It was pretty odd. I didn't come here for a long time. Then curiousity got the better of me. I never used to post before (not that I can remember anyway) and kind of wish I hadnt now.
I probably shouldnt have asked so many questions as it seems to have really upset people. Sorry ! I never even thought about journalists being a problem
I think it might have been better off to lurk. I'm sorry if I'm not your average newbie, it seems that not being a typical single male and one who appears above radar early on is a really big mistake. Way to burn bridges during my first few days ! Yeah ! Go me !
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Hi all !
I've been away for a while as I've got a new gfWe are relaly happy together, and I decieded to give up and sort of SW activity. I used to do quite well here a few years ago.
The problem is my partner is saying things which I find confusing.
We like to watch porn movies together, or rather I like it and she loves it ! She really enjoys group sex and threesome scenes, but sometimes if there is any girl girl action she will fast forward through that part. She also claims she finds two men with one woman revolting as well..
I just dont see how group sex / threesomes can turn you on when you have ruled out everything that is part of them as not sexy.
She has said she feels confused as she like watching threesomes, but the thought of me having sex with another woman in front of her really upsets her. I get the feeling there is a sunconcious message here, but I'm not seeing it. She said something about she feels she is lying to herself and perhaps she is just a voyeur.
I want to tread carefuly so as not to crush her fantasies, so I need to be able to read between the lines. But what does she like about threesomes ? Why does she feel bad about it and why has she even considered how hurt she would feel if I had sex with the other woman. I have never said to her I want a threesome...
I've found these posts because your name rung a bell. You are the one who asks lots of questions. The bits I've made red in your posts, seem to contradict one another. Your name belies your posts - you don't seem to be 'takingitslow' at all. You didn't have a girlfriend in September '05, now the one you've had (assuming it's the same one) since then, has gone from being shy and nervous and finding mmf revolting, to wanting to sample girl on girl fun in a very short space of time. That doesn't compute, I don't think.
There's no such place as a 'best' place to meet potentials, other than clubs or munches, but you stated early on that you aren't ready for that. Look at the clubs section on here or in the Yellow Pages for other clubs.