It dawned on me earlier tonight that I've lost an essential part of me :shock: It's not a big thing and iin the grand scheme of things it's a tad insignificant but nevertheless I'd like it back.
I've always had a relaxed attitude to sex ... always on the lookout for NSA sex since being a teenager, I never had a problem getting any or asking for it. I love sex :twisted:
Reading a couple of topics it dawned on me that I've lost my "daring" ... that "bravado" when it comes to asking for what I want! :shock:
I'm not a nervous person, I'm fairly confident, I know what I want and can definitely speak up for myself ... so why have I suddenly become so nervous about asking for sex? Where has all the confidence that I once oozed gone?
It can't just be me this has happened too? If I'm totally honest it's me that holds us back from swinging! And it's not that we would struggle to arrange anything .. my bottle goes and I talk me out of it!
Don't get me wrong, when the nerve is there I have a fantastic time, I'm fully into swinging, but the nerves seem to take over! I only ever get nervous with swinging though ... never in any other situation!
Is it age, responsibility, conscience? Anyone else go through this?
Cx
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Where's my "daring" gone?
Even now, after nearly two years here I still have a problem.
There's been times on here and in the chat room where I've flirted for England, the UK and the Planet in general, but when I had an opportunity I reverse course faster than Nuclear missle! I need to take the final "step" (well, a kick up the arse would do it), maybe then I can finally relax, and feel comfortable about being me....
Anyone want to help me take the final step (or kick me in the bum), feel free to Pm
And Calista, I'm pretty sure it's still there.....just need something (or someone) to drag it kicking and screaming
There's been times on here and in the chat room where I've flirted for England, the UK and the Planet in general, but when I had an opportunity I reverse course faster than Nuclear missle! I need to take the final "step" (well, a kick up the arse would do it), maybe then I can finally relax, and feel comfortable about being me....
Anyone want to help me take the final step (or kick me in the bum), feel free to Pm
And Calista, I'm pretty sure it's still there.....just need something (or someone) to drag it kicking and screaming
Sex God
I have no such problem Cally. Want a 
?
Just leave Morbius at home. ;)
?Just leave Morbius at home. ;)
Sex God
easy mate the stormtroppers outfit doesnt have a zip sniggers your fucked....
well actually your not :twisted:
well actually your not :twisted: Quote by easy
I have no such problem Cally. Want a
Just leave Morbius at home. ;)
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
easy mate the stormtroppers outfit doesnt have a zip sniggers your fucked.... :smile: well actually your not :twisted:
If I thought he was serious it wouldn't be a problem Mike
Cx
Sex God
Quote by MikeC
easy mate the stormtroppers outfit doesnt have a zip sniggers your fucked....
Clip off cod-piece mate ;) :P
Either that or a can opener. :giggle:
Cally-girl...
