Who comes first ?

9 May 2008

Is it the lady or the man ?
Do you as a male wait for your partner to have her orgasm(s) before reaching your own ?
Do you as a female ensure your man is pleasured before yourself ?
Or do you both like to climax at the same time and slump back onto the bed in a heap having both reached heaven at the same time ?
Myself I like to ensure my partner has been fully satisfied before reaching my own finale as I find when I have climaxed the need for sexual fulfilment disappears and my sex drive plummets to zero for an hour or so...
Is that normal ?
Do other males get the same feeling ?
I'm feeling inquisative.....Can you tell :lol2:

9 May 2008

Sounds like your both a perfect match :thumbup:

9 May 2008

Usually me redface

and then again, because I'm greedy like that!

9 May 2008

Some nights t'other half can have 4 or 5 and some nights she is happy with just the one,maybe 2

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve
Myself I like to ensure my partner has been fully satisfied before reaching my own finale as I find when I have climaxed the need for sexual fulfilment disappears and my sex drive plummets to zero for an hour or so...
Is that normal ?
Do other males get the same feeling ?

Ditto for me. All i want after is a cuppa lol

10 May 2008

For Steve and Goose's reasons, me first (and often also last, and together/in between!)
But to give the kind of blow jobs I really love to give then an (or another) orgasm of my own can wait...

10 May 2008

The woman

10 May 2008

Jay always waits until I have then very quickly after he does.. wink

Quite often together.
On the rare occasion his slips out (excuse me sir smile

) but he quickly makes sure I come to orgasm also.
I like considerate men cool

10 May 2008

Usually me ( and not just the once if they're good cool

) but mainly because I haven't yet found a guy who can do it more than once a night yet confused

10 May 2008

usually him

10 May 2008

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Usually me ( and not just the once if they're good ) but mainly because I haven't yet found a guy who can do it more than once a night yet

I can do it more than once a night but Shireen has never needed it as she is satisfied first time round ;-)
All I need is a little rest in between

10 May 2008

Quote by X_fanny_x
usually him

:therethere:

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve
usually him

:therethere:
Am used to it like that rolleyes

10 May 2008

Usually both together, as soon as he starts, it sets me off!
Depends on what we'e doing i suppose :twisted: but sometimes I can't cum unless he does dunno

Maz xx

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve
Myself I like to ensure my partner has been fully satisfied before reaching my own finale as I find when I have climaxed the need for sexual fulfilment disappears and my sex drive plummets to zero for an hour or so...
Is that normal ?
Do other males get the same feeling ?
I'm feeling inquisative.....Can you tell :lol2:

Thats very usual for most males, though recovery period can vary from 20 minutes to a couple of hours

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve
Usually me ( and not just the once if they're good ) but mainly because I haven't yet found a guy who can do it more than once a night yet

I can do it more than once a night but Shireen has never needed it as she is satisfied first time round ;-)
All I need is a little rest in between
silly

hwoar: come 'ere tiger.... whip

10 May 2008

Quote by X_fanny_x
usually him

:therethere:
Am used to it like that rolleyes

Just because your used to it doesnt mean to say it always has to be that way ;-)

10 May 2008

Quote by jaymar
Usually me ( and not just the once if they're good ) but mainly because I haven't yet found a guy who can do it more than once a night yet

I can do it more than once a night but Shireen has never needed it as she is satisfied first time round ;-)
All I need is a little rest in between
silly

hwoar: come 'ere tiger.... whip

On my way

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve
Usually me ( and not just the once if they're good ) but mainly because I haven't yet found a guy who can do it more than once a night yet

I can do it more than once a night but Shireen has never needed it as she is satisfied first time round ;-)
All I need is a little rest in between
silly

hwoar: come 'ere tiger.... whip

On my way

Pick me up on your way past wink

10 May 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
Pick me up on your way past

Both of you eh :rascal:
Are you sure you both can cope innocent

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve

Pick me up on your way past

Both of you eh :rascal:
Are you sure you both can cope innocent

Are wesure? You poor deluded man! :twisted:

10 May 2008

Quote by Freckledbird

Pick me up on your way past

Both of you eh :rascal:
Are you sure you both can cope innocent

Are wesure? You poor deluded man! :twisted:
rotflmao

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve
usually him

:therethere:
Am used to it like that rolleyes

Just because your used to it doesnt mean to say it always has to be that way ;-)
You offering ? :rascal:

10 May 2008

Quote by X_fanny_x
You offering ? :rascal:

*Indeedy*

10 May 2008

Quote by Steve

You offering ? :rascal:

*Indeedy*
:bounce: :bounce: when and where innocent

10 May 2008

Quote by Rogue_trader
Myself I like to ensure my partner has been fully satisfied before reaching my own finale as I find when I have climaxed the need for sexual fulfilment disappears and my sex drive plummets to zero for an hour or so...
Is that normal ?
Do other males get the same feeling ?
I'm feeling inquisative.....Can you tell :lol2:

Thats very usual for most males, though recovery period can vary from 20 minutes to a couple of hours
In the 20mins to a couple o hours I love to give head till the second post :rascal:
you can never have too much cream in yer coffee! :twisted:

10 May 2008

Quote by X_fanny_x

You offering ? :rascal:

*Indeedy*
:bounce: :bounce: when and where innocent

We will have to compare diaries ;-)

10 May 2008

free free free free free yup pretty empty my diary cool