Who do I trust?

Forum Virgin

0 likes 2 Dec 2004

I'm new to this (only been doing it about a month) and need some advice. Since i've started i've relised there are a lot of time wasters out there and a lot of sites out to grab money. I'm not sure which sites to trust and which not to and which ones are genuine. I'm a silver member of both AAF and alt and they seem good but there a lot of time wasters aon that and segregating myself from them is near impossible. I know being a single male i'm at a major disadvantage already so any help to get me on the right path would be gratefully excepted. Who should i trust.
P.S.
Distrustful people shouldn't use this to led me further astray, please.

Jackie__and__Ben

Sexpert

0 likes 2 Dec 2004

Quote by fresher
Who should i trust.
P.S.
Distrustful people shouldn't use this to led me further astray, please.

I take it you paid to become a member of these other places? Why when this is free?
Trust no one, but the truth is out there - Fox Mulder, FBI X Files. wink

Love
Jackie and Ben
xxxxxxx
Ps You can trust this site it is brilliant. Get known and get to know members and you will know who is honest.... honestly

ChairmanMiaow

Sexpert

0 likes 2 Dec 2004

Quote by fresher
I'm new to this (only been doing it about a month) and need some advice. Since i've started i've relised there are a lot of time wasters out there and a lot of sites out to grab money. I'm not sure which sites to trust and which not to and which ones are genuine. I'm a silver member of both AAF and alt and they seem good but there a lot of time wasters aon that and segregating myself from them is near impossible. I know being a single male i'm at a major disadvantage already so any help to get me on the right path would be gratefully excepted. Who should i trust.
P.S.
Distrustful people shouldn't use this to led me further astray, please.

Ok, bear in mind that what i'm about to say is drawn only from observation, as I've never met anyone using any of these sites as a single guy, but:
What you say about being a single male putting you at a disadvantage is very true - you are competing against 100s of other guys, and no matter how carefully crafted your reply, there is often a good chance it wont even get read.
Although I'm sure people do meet and get sex using AFF and the like, it doens't seem like a very time or money-efficient way of doing things - too haphazard, too much competition. Lots of guys after easy sex, with no more thought or input required than a 100 word profile, a quick cock shot, and $ a month.
Pretty depressing huh? So what's a guy to do?
Well, I've seen a lot of people post this advice, and it's worth repeating, but meeting worthwhile, non-timewasting people requires an investment of time and effort. But NOT money. Hang out on here (for free!), read the posts, think, respond,, post your own stuff attend a munch or two, and before you know it, you'll have some great opportuunies for whatever it is you're after and know some great people.
CM
PS For what it's worth, i was planning on following the above advice to meet people until i met an absolutely wonderful (and absolutely filthy :twisted smile

girl completely at random in a crowd at a festival. So don't neglect the old methods - always go out looking your best and smelling good, you never know who you might meet!!!

Jackie__and__Ben

Sexpert

0 likes 2 Dec 2004

and have a look at this. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Love
Jackie and Ben
xxx

Libra__Love

Sex God

0 likes 2 Dec 2004

Quote by Jackie and Ben
Who should i trust.
P.S.
Distrustful people shouldn't use this to led me further astray, please.

I take it you paid to become a member of these other places? Why when this is free?
Trust no one, but the truth is out there - Fox Mulder, FBI X Files. wink

Love
Jackie and Ben
xxxxxxx
Ps You can trust this site it is brilliant. Get known and get to know members and you will know who is honest.... honestly
Oh gosh, we have them on the site too don't we, even their avatar. Cancel what she said about Mulder and Skully, but welcome all the same.

fresher

Forum Virgin

0 likes 2 Dec 2004

Cheers for the help, and yeah i paid for the other site, seemed pretty cheap at the time but it will add up over the months. Well that's a lot of good advice, seems like common sense, just needs someone to say it I suppose. I shall continue my trek into the unknown and use the experience of pothers to help.
Cheers, and hopefully speak to you all soon.