We do not meet a lot to be honest, which is our choice.
In honesty the one thing that really really pisses me off is, after a meet with a guy, after we have invited him into our home, we do not even get a text the next day saying thanks for our hospitality. Bad manners that one.
But other than that all but one of the guys we have met, have been really nice guys, and the main thing for us is that we ALL have fun. In whatever capacity that may be in.
No guy has ever gone away and not asked to come back. At the end of the day everyone should enjoy what is on offer at that time, and if that was not to happen we would stop swinging.
firstly this isnt a new topic, it's been posted before,but with time suppose opinions change.
blimey at this moment in time, what with all the "no shows & crap shags" was thinking of paying all the bill if a stud satisfied, a serious note though was wondering all these couples who don't agree with kent777, do they not feel there pimping (there words not mine) there wifes when they attend a swingers club and pay usually less than half a single guys entry fee? or these singles who also dissagree with kent why do you attend knowing full well your paying lots more than couples?? (double standards)??
I think its easy to allow feelings and thoughts to get confused. Conversations about 'pimping' and 'prostitutes', just shouldn't come into it.
Its a bill to pay for the 'accommodation' at the venue (hotel), not for the relationship swingers have with each other.
If its a couple and a single then I would expect to pay up to half the cost of the room, or a third if its offered. If its a gang bang, then costs could be spread or even absorbed by the guests. What matters is how effectively agreements are arrived at, and that side of the meeting is handled appropriately.
I would not want to get involved with a feeling of meanness either before or after the event.
Typing of apartments...
We have found a great new place to have meets.
Serviced apartments near where we live, all the comfort of home and all that.
We took pizzas to put in the oven later, wine to put in the fridge, it was fantastic, very clean!
The funny thing was though.....we booked online, card details entered. As we were running late the gentleman in question went to pick the key up from the main block(not the one where we were staying)When he got there, we had not been given what we had booked for, I asked him to pay the extra £20 they needed, he did by his card. When his statment came in later they had charged him for the whole room. So we both ended up paying £79!!
Got it sorted, but we all laughed so much about it on the phone, all agreeed that it was an expensive shag!!!
We split the costs down the middle for that meet(in the end, after all was sorted) The gentleman slept over in the apartment,as he had kindly driven for over an hour to meet us. That seems a very normal and acceptable arrangment to me.
Lucys post.
I posted earlier in the thread asking what the thoughts were if a couple were meeting a single girl and whether that would be different but no-one has answered...
I've stay well clear of this one on purpose. There is no doubt its a very emotive subject and there is not going to be one single answer that satisfies all posters.
However I think I may have found a solution......
Why don't those involved just.............
toss for it :wanker: :wanker: :silly:
HELP PLEASE?!
Mike tried to snipe a bit of a post then, so all the threads didnt come up. Went wrong.....how do you do it please someone.
Many thanks,
Lucy.