Moving on from my friends thread got me wondering, because mostly I find I seem to trust men and are able to talk to men more easily. I seem to have a lot of friends that are male.
This could be that I went to an all girl’s school and got to know how bitchy and nasty the female race can be at times.
I do have a couple of very close female friends in life, but I choose very carefully who I let into my soul, but I seem not to worry to much about men for some reason.
So I would just like to run a poll and see who you would form friendships easier with?
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who would you trust more?
Are you a female and would form friendships with males easier?
Are you a female and would form friendships with females easier?
Are you a male and would form friendships with males easier?
Are you a male and would form friendships with females easier?
Have you found you form friendships easy with any sex?
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Moving on from my friends thread got me wondering, because mostly I find I seem to trust men and are able to talk to men more easily. I seem to have a lot of friends that are male.
This could be that I went to an all girl’s school and got to know how bitchy and nasty the female race can be at times.
I do have a couple of very close female friends in life, but I choose very carefully who I let into my soul, but I seem not to worry to much about men for some reason.
So I would just like to run a poll and see who you would form friendships easier with?
In my life I have had friends, or so I thought. Be very careful who you choose, as sometimes those " friends " could be the ones who knife you in the back.
I am very very choosy when making friends, and most of the people I know I would not class as that. They are more acquantancies.
If you have true friends, ones that would do almost anything for you, without asking for anything in return, then you are lucky. Keep hold of those ones.
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In my life I have had friends, or so I thought. Be very careful who you choose, as sometimes those " friends " could be the ones who knife you in the back.
I am very very choosy when making friends, and most of the people I know I would not class as that. They are more acquantancies.
If you have true friends, ones that would do almost anything for you, without asking for anything in return, then you are lucky. Keep hold of those ones.
Kent, I can so relate to everything you've said there :thumbup:
Sex God
I have very few true friends, and TBH I have never missed having a great flock/herd/gaggle of friends,
(What is the correct words for a load of friends?? FB HELP!)
but I do have a lot of people I know!! :twisted:
(What is the correct words for a load of friends?? FB HELP!)
but I do have a lot of people I know!! :twisted:
Sex God
Always found it easier to make friendships with males as females were always very wary of me because i got on with men so well and i wasnt this fluffy thing with the latest clothes and perfect hair etc (which seemed to annoy them) 
In rl i have 2 very close female friends and im happy with that and i get on just as well with their partners
In rl i have 2 very close female friends and im happy with that and i get on just as well with their partners
I have an equal number of male and female friends. I have one female best friend and one male best friend, both of whom I could trust with my life.
I'm usually good instinctively when making friends with people, who I feel I can trust and who would piss on my pansies at the first opportunity. Sadly that intuition has let me down recently when someone who I considered to be a good friend turned out to be not the good guy he likes people to think he is
I'm usually good instinctively when making friends with people, who I feel I can trust and who would piss on my pansies at the first opportunity. Sadly that intuition has let me down recently when someone who I considered to be a good friend turned out to be not the good guy he likes people to think he is
Quote by kentswingers777
Moving on from my friends thread got me wondering, because mostly I find I seem to trust men and are able to talk to men more easily. I seem to have a lot of friends that are male.
This could be that I went to an all girl’s school and got to know how bitchy and nasty the female race can be at times.
I do have a couple of very close female friends in life, but I choose very carefully who I let into my soul, but I seem not to worry to much about men for some reason.
So I would just like to run a poll and see who you would form friendships easier with?
In my life I have had friends, or so I thought. Be very careful who you choose, as sometimes those " friends " could be the ones who knife you in the back.
I am very very choosy when making friends, and most of the people I know I would not class as that. They are more acquantancies.
If you have true friends, ones that would do almost anything for you, without asking for anything in return, then you are lucky. Keep hold of those ones.
I am blessed as the true friends I have we have been there for each other through good times, bad times, rich times, poor times, happy times and sad. I know they would drop everything if I needed them as I would for them to. We could go weeks without seeing or hearing from each other but we are always in each others thoughts. A couple of these friends I have known since teenage days and are still friends. These to me are true friends.
I don't think I will ever feel like that with anyone here, but I would hope I can still make friends, people I can trust and trust me too. I think here the key element, is being able to trust.
I do understand totally what you are saying 777 there are a lot of people out there that appear nice on the outside but it isn't until you get to the core of someone that you truely know and understand that person.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
In my life I have had friends, or so I thought. Be very careful who you choose, as sometimes those " friends " could be the ones who knife you in the back.
I am very very choosy when making friends, and most of the people I know I would not class as that. They are more acquantancies.
If you have true friends, ones that would do almost anything for you, without asking for anything in return, then you are lucky. Keep hold of those ones.
Kent, I can so relate to everything you've said there :thumbup:
I make friends slowly. There are a few here, at SH that could perhaps be friends. Not that I do not care for them. I know that if they all moved into our road, some would be friends...but to be a friend, a real friend I think I would have to attauly face them, and know them. To have been though something with them.
Is that why in this comfortable Britain we have so few freinds?
Sex God
I like people. I cant help it but I do. I think that it matters not whether they are man woman or other. I guess that if I was single then maybe if I was in want of a relationship then possibly I would gravitate towards women instinctively. Other than that gimme friends man or woman, friends are ace
Sex God
I couldn't vote. The question is about who you trust and the options are about making friends.
I don't have the kinds of friends that need trust. I have friends I like spending time with. I don't 'trust' them as such - don't get me wrong, I don't feel they are untrustworthy or anything. I just don't share stuff that needs trust with friends.
I used to only get on with males, but I worked at interacting with females and that's easier now. Maybe I don't know how to make proper friends, just people I like.
In edit : I've had a think. I reckon I tend to assume people are ok until proved otherwise. I'm not naiive, it's just easier than mistrusting people and making them jump through hoops to be friends with.
I don't have the kinds of friends that need trust. I have friends I like spending time with. I don't 'trust' them as such - don't get me wrong, I don't feel they are untrustworthy or anything. I just don't share stuff that needs trust with friends.
I used to only get on with males, but I worked at interacting with females and that's easier now. Maybe I don't know how to make proper friends, just people I like.
In edit : I've had a think. I reckon I tend to assume people are ok until proved otherwise. I'm not naiive, it's just easier than mistrusting people and making them jump through hoops to be friends with.
