why | Swinging Heaven

11 Jan 2005

Why do people arrange meets then log into the chat room and shout about who's there or change names to reflect who's with them, worse still some give us blow by blow accounts of what they are doing rolleyes

Never understood that to be honest - ah, well, rant over lol

12 Jan 2005

I guess its because so many people are insecure these days......

12 Jan 2005

Its something I have noticed happening of late and to be honest its not something I approve of...
Like to keep who we play with a little more discreet than that but hey ho......
Cant all be the same can we....??
Just make a note of those you see doing it if you value your discretion..... smile

12 Jan 2005

Discretion should be the middle name of everyone using this web site, couldnt agree more with the comments made so far.....

12 Jan 2005

I suppose for anyone new to swinging, it might be quite off-putting; they might think that people do that all the time and then not meet people in case they are 'shown off', so to speak confused

Bev
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12 Jan 2005

Bev, will you come off that computer and sit back on my knee!

12 Jan 2005

I suppose it's a way of showing that you are a genuine person who meets people from the site.
I suppose we could remove all the gory detail by just setting up a system where these people could indicate it by having a sign on their nick.... how about a +?
bolt

12 Jan 2005

Quote by Mister_Discreet
I suppose it's a way of showing that you are a genuine person who meets people from the site.
I suppose we could remove all the gory detail by just setting up a system where these people could indicate it by having a sign on their nick.... how about a +?

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12 Jan 2005

Chris ya mucky devil - if i'd been on your knee I definitely wouldn't be on the PC telling anyone about it wink

And Mister D, I think you might need your running shoes on now, for suggesting the + :shock:
Bev
xx

12 Jan 2005

Quote by Mister_Discreet
I suppose it's a way of showing that you are a genuine person who meets people from the site.
I suppose we could remove all the gory detail by just setting up a system where these people could indicate it by having a sign on their nick.... how about a +?

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this is just asking for trouble......
still gave me a laugh

12 Jan 2005

well i'm guilty of the "dual names" in Chatroom.
i spent new years eve with a friend (FRIEND) and we logged in under a dual name, and i've gotta say. it was one of the best nights i've had in the chatroom. i've found that the chatroom can be alot more fun when there is two brains behind the keyboard (fair enough it was 2 rather drunk cant spell to save there lives brain). and not only gettng the piss taken out of me by the person sitting next to me. but by the otehr 50 or so pps in the room.
JGL

12 Jan 2005

JGL I didn't mean that, I mean when people have an actual meet or a party and they are kind of going 'ooooo he's rubbing my tits now' or 'just going to give xxx a bj now, back in a minute'. I didn't mean a social type of visit when established friends just come for a social visit (whether swinging or non-swinging friends)
Bev
xx

12 Jan 2005

Quote by freckledbird
JGL I didn't mean that, I mean when people have an actual meet or a party and they are kind of going 'ooooo he's rubbing my tits now' or 'just going to give xxx a bj now, back in a minute'. I didn't mean a social type of visit when established friends just come for a social visit (whether swinging or non-swinging friends)
Bev
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Well, if I heard someone say that, I think my BS detector would be goiing ballistic.

12 Jan 2005

My usual comment is something along the lines of 'if you're having that much fun, why are you in here?'

12 Jan 2005

Quote by freckledbird
My usual comment is something along the lines of 'if you're having that much fun, why are you in here?'

to act smug

12 Jan 2005

bit sad tho innit really, i'd rather get on with it than tell peeps what i'm doing lol

12 Jan 2005

it is a bit sad, as a teacher you will know what the playground rivalry mentality is like. Some people dont grow out of that
"I have the best gonk"
"My gonk is Blue, whilst yours is an inferior red colour"
30 years later.......
"I have the latest BWM"
"My Missades cost more than yours and has an electric toothbrush holder"

12 Jan 2005

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