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Why are men so stupid??
Sex God
Yes, there are. Mark tries very hard to keep the categories all in order, but people will keep on posting in inappropriate categories...silly, aren't they 
. We've had many a discussion about the motives of such people, but at the end of the day, whatever their reasons, they just end up, looking..well...silly :wink:
. We've had many a discussion about the motives of such people, but at the end of the day, whatever their reasons, they just end up, looking..well...silly :wink: 
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Orgasminator
Hi Flirt,
I would agree with you that some men are stupid. Having perused the adds files on a regular basis :shock: I have noticed that a number of men place multiple adds, each one differing only in what they claim to be looking for.
This is very obvious in the 'Latest Photo Adds' section where it is not uncommon to find several adds in consecutive order all placed by the same person. Where photo's are attached they are inevitably identical.
Either the persons placing them are very uncertain of their own sexual preferences, or, they simply hope that by placing multiple adds (including those in incorrect categories) they may have a better chance of getting a reply.
It strikes me that these people must be getting more than a little desperate for a contact.
All these multiple adds do is just 'clog up' each category making it more difficult for genuine swingers to make contact. :cry: I understand Mark is trying to sort this mess out, but with several thousand adds it's going to take him some time to do so.
Ideally there should only be one advert per person/couple, and all their preferences should be contained within this one advert.
If at some future time they wish to place an additional add, then it should replace the first add, and not be an addition to the already overcrowded lists.
It may also be worth placing a time limit on how long each add is allowed to stay posted. I would suggest 3 months, then it could be automatically withdrawn. This may upset the genuine swinger who will have to submit a new add, but it will also get rid of many time wasters and those who have moved on, changed E-mail addresses or lost interest.
I recently replied to an advert which had been posted the previous week. Only to have the E-mail returned by the postmaster as undeliverable. To be fair to that couple, they did withdraw their add and replace it with another containing their new E-mail address, but not all advertisers do so, and so another useless advert clogs up the system.
The site administrator Mark :borg: does a wonderful job running this site but with a new addition to his family his time is somewhat restricted and
I for one do not want to add to his workload :taz: All I can hope for is, that some people read this note, and take corrective action if they have placed multiple adds.
Harry0
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So many beautiful women, so little time left.
I would agree with you that some men are stupid. Having perused the adds files on a regular basis :shock: I have noticed that a number of men place multiple adds, each one differing only in what they claim to be looking for.
This is very obvious in the 'Latest Photo Adds' section where it is not uncommon to find several adds in consecutive order all placed by the same person. Where photo's are attached they are inevitably identical.
Either the persons placing them are very uncertain of their own sexual preferences, or, they simply hope that by placing multiple adds (including those in incorrect categories) they may have a better chance of getting a reply.
It strikes me that these people must be getting more than a little desperate for a contact.All these multiple adds do is just 'clog up' each category making it more difficult for genuine swingers to make contact. :cry: I understand Mark is trying to sort this mess out, but with several thousand adds it's going to take him some time to do so.
Ideally there should only be one advert per person/couple, and all their preferences should be contained within this one advert.
If at some future time they wish to place an additional add, then it should replace the first add, and not be an addition to the already overcrowded lists.It may also be worth placing a time limit on how long each add is allowed to stay posted. I would suggest 3 months, then it could be automatically withdrawn. This may upset the genuine swinger who will have to submit a new add, but it will also get rid of many time wasters and those who have moved on, changed E-mail addresses or lost interest.
I recently replied to an advert which had been posted the previous week. Only to have the E-mail returned by the postmaster as undeliverable. To be fair to that couple, they did withdraw their add and replace it with another containing their new E-mail address, but not all advertisers do so, and so another useless advert clogs up the system.
The site administrator Mark :borg: does a wonderful job running this site but with a new addition to his family his time is somewhat restricted and
I for one do not want to add to his workload :taz: All I can hope for is, that some people read this note, and take corrective action if they have placed multiple adds.
Harry0
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So many beautiful women, so little time left.
