Quote by winchwench
Sod off- they're mine! :spar:
Seriously, well said GP :thumbup:
You can bugger off too - I saw them first - and age before beauty medear :smug: Or we could share them :twisted:
And yes, great post, GP

Quote by Freckledbird
Sod off- they're mine! :sparring:
Seriously, well said GP :thumbup:
Quote by winchwench
For me it was... blah blah blah... I have the hots for Johnny Depp as well as Angelina Jolie, so to speak. It's just a part of who I am, same as if I was still identifying as gay.
I do admit to referring to myself as 'queer', but that's another topic, I think.
Quote by Eyorksmg
ooh, now let me see.. what made me *turn*?
1) I realised I wasn't a real man...
2) I thought it'd get my strike rate up...
3) I was too shy to come out as a queer properly...
Good lord!![]()
As has been better expressed by other posters, it's something latent that's there to be explored... it's fun... it's not shameful...
Additionally, how much *more* sexy is a threesome when three people are actively involved in the nibbling, giggling, writhing, slippery tangle of limbs and pink-bits!
Based only on my own experiences, it's hugely liberating to let-go of all the preconceptions of straight/gay/bi and just have a nice time doing whatever feels right, and those sessions of three or more just floooow more when there's less of a "tag team sex" mentality.
That's my tuppence worth, and I guess it's only an opinion... but so far it's gone OK and has led to some laidback and stress-free encounters (and some damned horny ones at that).
Now, back to perving peoples profiles! :twisted:
Quote by neilinleeds
what a load of old tosh!never did i expect to see such ill informed complete bollox on a swinging site?
however, since it's a serious question about a complex topic, i'll do my best to give a straight answer.
once upon a time, it was generally felt that male bi-sexuality was caused when smallboys were forced to play with their little sisters barbie dolls, when all they really wanted was an action man with eagle-eye action and those grippy bendy hands, preferably in a tank, or a hanglider, or some other piece of macho machinery that barbie wouldn't be seen dead in, even if it was all pink and sparklified . while i can understand the thinking behind that one, i don't give it all that much credence, and these days such glib explanations are out of favour.
nowadays, it is generally accepted that male bi-sexuality is almost exclusively the consequence of a public school education; more specifically, the kind of public school that makes you play rugger even though you are patently rubbish at it. all that a-scrummaging and a-rummaging, faces pressed against eachothers arses, hands up between eachothers legs, full body contact between hot, sweaty lads before they all pile naked into a one ginormous bath together is only ever gonna have one outcome, isn't it? it may take years, but it will come out eventually.
the reason they do this is so that the higher echelons of the Civil Service can maintain their traditional quota of camp, foppish, slightly limp-wristed types, in the mode of Quentin Crisp for example.
hope this helps? :?
neil x x x ;)
Quote by laterunner
Simple....wife withdraws unilaterally from intimate physical contact,...... and you don't have to take other guys out to to dinner, theatre etc. to get a decent wank/BJ. Brutal but true.
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Simple....wife withdraws unilaterally from intimate physical contact,...... and you don't have to take other guys out to to dinner, theatre etc. to get a decent wank/BJ. Brutal but true.
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Simple....wife withdraws unilaterally from intimate physical contact,...... and you don't have to take other guys out to to dinner, theatre etc. to get a decent wank/BJ. Brutal but true.
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Simple....wife withdraws unilaterally from intimate physical contact,...... and you don't have to take other guys out to to dinner, theatre etc. to get a decent wank/BJ. Brutal but true.
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Simple....wife withdraws unilaterally from intimate physical contact,...... and you don't have to take other guys out to to dinner, theatre etc. to get a decent wank/BJ. Brutal but true.
Quote by jaymar
Simple....wife withdraws unilaterally from intimate physical contact,...... and you don't have to take other guys out to to dinner, theatre etc. to get a decent wank/BJ. Brutal but true.
Quote by Alpha-Male
Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
Our parties are for straight men and straight and bisexual women. This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries. (On the continent it is widely believed that maybe 80% of women are potentially bisexual whereas at least 80% of men are not). Couples with men who break this convention will be asked to leave.
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I've just read this somewhere else, I was looking for parties.
Our parties are for straight men and straight and bisexual women. This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries. (On the continent it is widely believed that maybe 80% of women are potentially bisexual whereas at least 80% of men are not). Couples with men who break this convention will be asked to leave.
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I've just read this somewhere else, I was looking for parties.
Our parties are for straight men and straight and bisexual women. This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries. (On the continent it is widely believed that maybe 80% of women are potentially bisexual whereas at least 80% of men are not). Couples with men who break this convention will be asked to leave.
Quote by Daihappy
I heard a saying once - "Sometimes in life, we don't do things we want because we don't want people to know we want to do them". I always thought that was very profound, however if you go further into the psychology, invert it even, then a thrill can result for to feel something is "wrong" it becomes exciting?
This is my offering in the vein of the straight man who "turns" bi.... :confused2: