why do people waste their time and ours??

8 Jan 2006

we had a child free weekend (all parents out there will know what freedom that gives you and how few and far between the opportunites arise) and decided we'd like to arrange either a couple of single male to the house on sat and then again on sunday.. so tell me why after dozens of replies and loads of e-mails back and forth, most are all talk and no action.. in the end we went to infusion in blackpool and made the best of a bad weekend.. maybe this site should have a feedback section on members like e-bay LOL where we can leave positive or negative feedback for respondants LOL.. i dunno this swining lark seems to be getting harder and harder

8 Jan 2006

someone actually the same question in dogging 15 minutes before you...
this is the answer they got
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/68861.html
seeing as this is your 1st point.. the forums and the ad's tend to be different beasts....
welcome to the FORUMS by the way...
sean xxxxxxxxxx

8 Jan 2006

You can't have a system like that, it's open to abuse/misuse.
Deal with the timewasters and move on, it happens.

8 Jan 2006

I agree a system like that would not work, you may meet someone and not like them and write a bad report and put someone off meeting them who may get on like a house on fire :!:

8 Jan 2006

Anyways I'd always give NN bad reports cos she don't stop talking innocent

Sleazy told me NN Honest :shock:

8 Jan 2006

Quote by ukcpluk2005
we had a child free weekend (all parents out there will know what freedom that gives you and how few and far between the opportunites arise) and decided we'd like to arrange either a couple of single male to the house on sat and then again on sunday.. so tell me why after dozens of replies and loads of e-mails back and forth, most are all talk and no action.. in the end we went to infusion in blackpool and made the best of a bad weekend.. maybe this site should have a feedback section on members like e-bay LOL where we can leave positive or negative feedback for respondants LOL.. i dunno this swining lark seems to be getting harder and harder

So know what you mean about childless weekend, talk about rocking horse droppings rolleyes

sorry you had a bad experience, we've been there many times, just stick with it and keep on going on is all we can tell ya.
eventually you will gather a small crowd of true and trusted swinging contacts that can be relied upon to at least tell the truth.
all the best with your next adventure wink

9 Jan 2006

ukcpluk2005,its such a shame when there are couples like you who are willing to meet and you are let down so badly. and it also makes couples more guarded about us genuine single guys of luck next time around.
The idea of rating people is too open to abuse and would affect the very mutual discretion most of us need to even dare to do anything in the first place!

9 Jan 2006

lol.... i'm even more impressed that my post not only got read, but i got replies too.. maybe i'm still a little upset by my spoiled weekend.. i'm sure in time i will get over it.. and hey, the kids will soon grow old and leave lol

9 Jan 2006

No matter what you do....which site u use... there is always people who waste everybody's time.